🐺46 year old male.
🐺Married/poly
🐺BDSM/ kink friendly (Dominant)
🐺Occasional writer and VA of smut.
🐺@suzu1982.bsky.social seems to like me.
🐺MNDI/no age = blocked
Respecting yourself as much as everyone involved as much as you are going to know them is the basis for any version of non monogamy, especially for those of us with emotional issues around intimacy.
Grow & change with it & you will appreciate..
Respecting yourself as much as everyone involved as much as you are going to know them is the basis for any version of non monogamy, especially for those of us with emotional issues around intimacy.
Grow & change with it & you will appreciate..
Then in time, you will still be bothered by things but be able to deal with them on your own because you trust eachother and in turn whoever else gets involved....
Then in time, you will still be bothered by things but be able to deal with them on your own because you trust eachother and in turn whoever else gets involved....
But taking a day off or two, maybe just with a hello in there is healthy.
People aren't mind readers, but once ...
But taking a day off or two, maybe just with a hello in there is healthy.
People aren't mind readers, but once ...
You will also be able to minimise worries down to be able to see them for what they are and be able to deal with them appropriately.
Next, don't be afraid of silence, but also recognise when someone is just ignoring you.
It might not be intentional, but if someone is hot ...
You will also be able to minimise worries down to be able to see them for what they are and be able to deal with them appropriately.
Next, don't be afraid of silence, but also recognise when someone is just ignoring you.
It might not be intentional, but if someone is hot ...
Then, never underestimate the power of a really good night's sleep.
You will process emotions better and therefore communicate better if you can get your 8 hours in.
Which leads on to the next point, once you know eachother well enough and are forging....
Then, never underestimate the power of a really good night's sleep.
You will process emotions better and therefore communicate better if you can get your 8 hours in.
Which leads on to the next point, once you know eachother well enough and are forging....
Listen to them, you might make mistakes, but showing concern around potential triggers is pretty much the bare minimum and first step before working towards...
Listen to them, you might make mistakes, but showing concern around potential triggers is pretty much the bare minimum and first step before working towards...
And I am comfortable with the idea of doing the wrong things for the right reason, no wonder I've got an extensive Lego batman collection.
And I am comfortable with the idea of doing the wrong things for the right reason, no wonder I've got an extensive Lego batman collection.