I was running on shock and then motivation to look after family but all that ran out so now im like

here are some pics of her utterly flabbergasted at the vet (just a checkup, shes healthy and up to date on her shots now. and she was real mad about it)

I feel like its forever mischaracterized as either smth completely debilitating where you cannot function at all, or as a cute quirky personality trait. never somewhere in between, which is where 99% of ppl on the spectrum are :/