Mitty
@mitty828.bsky.social
Curious human. Learning how to live gently in a loud world, and writing my way through change, gardens, and questions without tidy answers.
but if we collapse our needs every time someone shows distress, then our life will always belong to the most emotionally expressive person in the room - and that leads to resentment, unhappy and unfulfilling relationships, loss of self.
February 12, 2026 at 8:03 AM
but if we collapse our needs every time someone shows distress, then our life will always belong to the most emotionally expressive person in the room - and that leads to resentment, unhappy and unfulfilling relationships, loss of self.
We think it’s love and our responsibility - to soothe, to regulate our partner’s emotions, fluff their ego, tamper down our own feelings and minimize our dreams to preserve harmony
February 12, 2026 at 8:03 AM
We think it’s love and our responsibility - to soothe, to regulate our partner’s emotions, fluff their ego, tamper down our own feelings and minimize our dreams to preserve harmony