Mindy Bee
@mindybee.bsky.social
queer - she/her - autistic - ADHD - OCD - artist
It's very long. My therapist at the time was useless and uninterested. All he had to teach me was pseudoscience horseshit, like tapping on my face in the grocery store line to combat anxiety 🙄
The more I think about it, the more glaringly obvious it is to me, but... You know, imposter syndrome 😭
The more I think about it, the more glaringly obvious it is to me, but... You know, imposter syndrome 😭
December 5, 2025 at 3:05 PM
It's very long. My therapist at the time was useless and uninterested. All he had to teach me was pseudoscience horseshit, like tapping on my face in the grocery store line to combat anxiety 🙄
The more I think about it, the more glaringly obvious it is to me, but... You know, imposter syndrome 😭
The more I think about it, the more glaringly obvious it is to me, but... You know, imposter syndrome 😭
Excellent, thank you so much, I will do some googling around and have a look at it. I have a tiny idea what to expect as this is the same place that conducted my ADHD and bipolar evals. I have no living relatives to comment on my super autistic childhood. Some years ago, I started a symptom list...
December 5, 2025 at 3:05 PM
Excellent, thank you so much, I will do some googling around and have a look at it. I have a tiny idea what to expect as this is the same place that conducted my ADHD and bipolar evals. I have no living relatives to comment on my super autistic childhood. Some years ago, I started a symptom list...
I'm inclined to go with the 2nd option. The idea that someone could feel for me the way I feel for them is horrifying, please, do not put those expectations on me, I will not stay the same, I will not always be this person you think is too important to lose. The shiny will wear off.
December 5, 2025 at 3:00 PM
I'm inclined to go with the 2nd option. The idea that someone could feel for me the way I feel for them is horrifying, please, do not put those expectations on me, I will not stay the same, I will not always be this person you think is too important to lose. The shiny will wear off.
I've been in this mental space for decades, it's fine, we're fine. We don't need them to 'get' it because we have each other 😂
December 5, 2025 at 2:58 PM
I've been in this mental space for decades, it's fine, we're fine. We don't need them to 'get' it because we have each other 😂
I have my evals scheduled, intake at the end of February and full evaluation 2 weeks later. Are they gonna give me this test? Should I study? 😂
But seriously, should I? I have no idea what to expect and I'm kinda terrified.
But seriously, should I? I have no idea what to expect and I'm kinda terrified.
December 5, 2025 at 2:57 PM
I have my evals scheduled, intake at the end of February and full evaluation 2 weeks later. Are they gonna give me this test? Should I study? 😂
But seriously, should I? I have no idea what to expect and I'm kinda terrified.
But seriously, should I? I have no idea what to expect and I'm kinda terrified.
Oops, just made essentially the same comment before reading the comments 😂
You win, beat me by 22 minutes 🤭
You win, beat me by 22 minutes 🤭
December 5, 2025 at 2:43 PM
Oops, just made essentially the same comment before reading the comments 😂
You win, beat me by 22 minutes 🤭
You win, beat me by 22 minutes 🤭
Not enough, ma'am. A week off, with pay.
December 5, 2025 at 2:42 PM
Not enough, ma'am. A week off, with pay.
They literally just lost a massive lawsuit about this! Did you get signed up for it? I have been a Prime member for too long and have never tried to cancel so I didn't qualify.
December 5, 2025 at 2:41 PM
They literally just lost a massive lawsuit about this! Did you get signed up for it? I have been a Prime member for too long and have never tried to cancel so I didn't qualify.
And I'm slowly transitioning to subs from Walmart rather than Amazon.
Not that Walmart is better! It's just that low-income families don't have any other options and I hate it.
Not that Walmart is better! It's just that low-income families don't have any other options and I hate it.
December 5, 2025 at 2:39 PM
And I'm slowly transitioning to subs from Walmart rather than Amazon.
Not that Walmart is better! It's just that low-income families don't have any other options and I hate it.
Not that Walmart is better! It's just that low-income families don't have any other options and I hate it.
They started inflating the prices on EBT-eligible food items. Two listings, same item, one EBT-eligible and one not. The cheaper of the two is the one that is not EBT-eligible.
And then Walmart grocery delivery came to my tiny town and now all I get from Amazon is cat food, litter, and coffee.
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And then Walmart grocery delivery came to my tiny town and now all I get from Amazon is cat food, litter, and coffee.
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December 5, 2025 at 2:39 PM
They started inflating the prices on EBT-eligible food items. Two listings, same item, one EBT-eligible and one not. The cheaper of the two is the one that is not EBT-eligible.
And then Walmart grocery delivery came to my tiny town and now all I get from Amazon is cat food, litter, and coffee.
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And then Walmart grocery delivery came to my tiny town and now all I get from Amazon is cat food, litter, and coffee.
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I've been a Prime member for well over a dozen years. When they started accepting EBT, I was over the moon (social anxiety and agoraphobic). Then I saw how they exploit the poorest of us. Sure, you get a discount on Prime if you have an EBT card, and you can buy dry goods in bulk.
But...
But...
December 5, 2025 at 2:39 PM
I've been a Prime member for well over a dozen years. When they started accepting EBT, I was over the moon (social anxiety and agoraphobic). Then I saw how they exploit the poorest of us. Sure, you get a discount on Prime if you have an EBT card, and you can buy dry goods in bulk.
But...
But...
Thinking maybe it's time to try applying for disability again now that I have several more diagnoses under my belt and the autism evaluation is already scheduled and starts at the end of February. Am I disabled enough yet?!
December 5, 2025 at 3:34 AM
Thinking maybe it's time to try applying for disability again now that I have several more diagnoses under my belt and the autism evaluation is already scheduled and starts at the end of February. Am I disabled enough yet?!
My disabilities make the idea of a year-round, full-time job too much to bear. I haven't been capable of working 40 hours a week, year-round, for over a dozen years, and I was never capable at all, actually - which is why I was always unable to hold a job for any meaningful length of time 🙄
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December 5, 2025 at 3:34 AM
My disabilities make the idea of a year-round, full-time job too much to bear. I haven't been capable of working 40 hours a week, year-round, for over a dozen years, and I was never capable at all, actually - which is why I was always unable to hold a job for any meaningful length of time 🙄
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Unemployment (in Michigan, anyway) will flat-out deny your weekly certifications if you tick the box that says a disability is preventing you from working - even if a disability IS preventing you from working and even though you ALREADY EARNED the money you're filing a claim on 😭
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December 5, 2025 at 3:34 AM
Unemployment (in Michigan, anyway) will flat-out deny your weekly certifications if you tick the box that says a disability is preventing you from working - even if a disability IS preventing you from working and even though you ALREADY EARNED the money you're filing a claim on 😭
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Yeah, you can't say you're disabled on things like EBT applications and unemployment claims, even if you're disabled, because saying you're disabled means you should be on disability and the DHHS person on the phone doesn't have to waste anymore time with you, and...
December 5, 2025 at 3:34 AM
Yeah, you can't say you're disabled on things like EBT applications and unemployment claims, even if you're disabled, because saying you're disabled means you should be on disability and the DHHS person on the phone doesn't have to waste anymore time with you, and...
Shut the fuck up, freak.
December 1, 2025 at 2:06 AM
Shut the fuck up, freak.
Fun fact, clearly it does not.
December 1, 2025 at 2:04 AM
Fun fact, clearly it does not.
LGBTQIA+
Get it right, freak.
Get it right, freak.
November 30, 2025 at 11:32 PM
LGBTQIA+
Get it right, freak.
Get it right, freak.
From the bottom of my queer heart, I don't believe you. Fuck off, TERF trash.
November 30, 2025 at 11:31 PM
From the bottom of my queer heart, I don't believe you. Fuck off, TERF trash.
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November 30, 2025 at 11:29 PM
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