Mx Mayhem Mai (they/them)
@mayhemmai.bsky.social
🔞 🌉 🏳️🌈 ⚧️ 🏳️⚧️ San Francisco non-binary lifestyle and professional dominant. Kink educator and performer. Ambidextrous impact top. https://AllMyLinks.com/MxMayhemMai
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I had a hard time finding fellow trans nonbinary BDSM providers, so here's my starter pack! Comment to be added, DM to be removed 😘 go.bsky.app/RA2Zbxn
Just hangin out at Golden Gate Park
November 27, 2025 at 12:16 AM
Just hangin out at Golden Gate Park
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So my Twitter was suspended at almost 8k followers 💔 Please find my new account at meetaudreyb so I can connect with my friends and lovers! 😭
November 25, 2025 at 3:15 AM
So my Twitter was suspended at almost 8k followers 💔 Please find my new account at meetaudreyb so I can connect with my friends and lovers! 😭
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officially back on the road! i’m offering massages (nuru + FBSM), Pro-Domme Kink, and FS :)
this November, i’ll be in CT/NYC, KOP/Philadelphia, Richmond VA, Charlotte NC, Charleston SC, Savannah GA & Seattle WA!
see my website for more info🥰
look forward to seeing you soon! 🤍
this November, i’ll be in CT/NYC, KOP/Philadelphia, Richmond VA, Charlotte NC, Charleston SC, Savannah GA & Seattle WA!
see my website for more info🥰
look forward to seeing you soon! 🤍
November 7, 2025 at 1:28 AM
officially back on the road! i’m offering massages (nuru + FBSM), Pro-Domme Kink, and FS :)
this November, i’ll be in CT/NYC, KOP/Philadelphia, Richmond VA, Charlotte NC, Charleston SC, Savannah GA & Seattle WA!
see my website for more info🥰
look forward to seeing you soon! 🤍
this November, i’ll be in CT/NYC, KOP/Philadelphia, Richmond VA, Charlotte NC, Charleston SC, Savannah GA & Seattle WA!
see my website for more info🥰
look forward to seeing you soon! 🤍
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[TOMORROW!] 2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
November 5, 2025 at 5:05 PM
[TOMORROW!] 2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
I'm in Vegas Saturday to Tuesday, seeking recommendations for kink and/or gay events to go to 🙏💖
November 4, 2025 at 7:14 PM
I'm in Vegas Saturday to Tuesday, seeking recommendations for kink and/or gay events to go to 🙏💖
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[THIS THURSDAY!] 2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more. ✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
November 1, 2025 at 3:45 PM
[THIS THURSDAY!] 2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more. ✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
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Many uninformed clients use texting apps or "secret" emails, thinking this makes their messages more "discreet." But the reality is they should be using WhatsApp's "Chat Lock" feature or @signal.org with us.
Your favorite hooker's favorite hacker breaks it down: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...
Your favorite hooker's favorite hacker breaks it down: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...
November 2, 2025 at 2:37 AM
Many uninformed clients use texting apps or "secret" emails, thinking this makes their messages more "discreet." But the reality is they should be using WhatsApp's "Chat Lock" feature or @signal.org with us.
Your favorite hooker's favorite hacker breaks it down: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...
Your favorite hooker's favorite hacker breaks it down: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...
I'm teaching my dual wielding class 7pm Thu Nov 6 at @filthystudios.bsky.social Get your 🎟️ at bit.ly/filthyflow!
Taken by @juneaspen.bsky.social during @folsomstreet.bsky.social
Taken by @juneaspen.bsky.social during @folsomstreet.bsky.social
October 29, 2025 at 6:53 PM
I'm teaching my dual wielding class 7pm Thu Nov 6 at @filthystudios.bsky.social Get your 🎟️ at bit.ly/filthyflow!
Taken by @juneaspen.bsky.social during @folsomstreet.bsky.social
Taken by @juneaspen.bsky.social during @folsomstreet.bsky.social
Slowly waking up from the fugue state of COVID causing me to cancel Dark Odyssey Surrender plans and other work. Thank you @mistressodette.bsky.social and other lovelies for taking such good care of me 🥹
October 27, 2025 at 8:48 PM
Slowly waking up from the fugue state of COVID causing me to cancel Dark Odyssey Surrender plans and other work. Thank you @mistressodette.bsky.social and other lovelies for taking such good care of me 🥹
Accidentally exploding a bottle of carrot juice all over my kitchen looks like I murdered Gritty using a spork.
October 27, 2025 at 8:42 PM
Accidentally exploding a bottle of carrot juice all over my kitchen looks like I murdered Gritty using a spork.
Real talk that is SKILLS 🔥🔥🔥
I've had an ever-growing pile of donations for > a YEAR in a corner of my living room.
Apparently in order to get this stuff out of my house I had to just HOST A GEAR SWAP? Why am I like this??
I've had an ever-growing pile of donations for > a YEAR in a corner of my living room.
Apparently in order to get this stuff out of my house I had to just HOST A GEAR SWAP? Why am I like this??
PLEASE CLAP FOR ME
I put all the donation clothes and items in my car on Saturday and I've already donated them.
You heard right, they didn't stay in the back of the car for 6 months until I had to take them out to use the space.
I am officially a goddess, this proves it. What magic!?!?!
I put all the donation clothes and items in my car on Saturday and I've already donated them.
You heard right, they didn't stay in the back of the car for 6 months until I had to take them out to use the space.
I am officially a goddess, this proves it. What magic!?!?!
October 21, 2025 at 2:02 AM
Real talk that is SKILLS 🔥🔥🔥
I've had an ever-growing pile of donations for > a YEAR in a corner of my living room.
Apparently in order to get this stuff out of my house I had to just HOST A GEAR SWAP? Why am I like this??
I've had an ever-growing pile of donations for > a YEAR in a corner of my living room.
Apparently in order to get this stuff out of my house I had to just HOST A GEAR SWAP? Why am I like this??
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2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
October 20, 2025 at 5:14 PM
2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/ @mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
Service is learning what I want and quietly sending the gift. These are so perfect!
October 21, 2025 at 1:55 AM
Service is learning what I want and quietly sending the gift. These are so perfect!
Hosted an event yesterday with @dominadaemon.bsky.social and my most favorite attendee was @venerakate.bsky.social 's 4 month old lil puppy 😭😭😭
October 20, 2025 at 5:21 PM
Hosted an event yesterday with @dominadaemon.bsky.social and my most favorite attendee was @venerakate.bsky.social 's 4 month old lil puppy 😭😭😭
I love getting custom gifts 😘
October 19, 2025 at 6:57 PM
I love getting custom gifts 😘
Saw you at the store today
October 10, 2025 at 5:50 PM
Saw you at the store today
Life has been a blur lately but I wouldn't have it any other way
October 10, 2025 at 12:52 AM
Life has been a blur lately but I wouldn't have it any other way
A baddie in leather = the most perfect pairing 🤩
Announcing a new name, website and another chapter of delicious perversion 🫀
Call me Ezra Silver 🔪 Sir Silver ⛓️🙇 or just Ezra🩸
Still the vampiric big brained hottie of your dreams, now with more edge ⚔️
Fall under my spell 💋
www.museforhire.nyc
Call me Ezra Silver 🔪 Sir Silver ⛓️🙇 or just Ezra🩸
Still the vampiric big brained hottie of your dreams, now with more edge ⚔️
Fall under my spell 💋
www.museforhire.nyc
October 10, 2025 at 12:21 AM
A baddie in leather = the most perfect pairing 🤩
@gavinnewsom.bsky.social These 8 essential bills uphold the dignity, privacy, health, and safety of LGBTQ+ Californians. These bills are critical to ensuring that California remains a national leader in protecting trans lives. Sign AB 82, AB 1084, SB 59, SB 497, SB 418, AB 554, AB 727, and SB 41.
October 9, 2025 at 9:08 PM
@gavinnewsom.bsky.social These 8 essential bills uphold the dignity, privacy, health, and safety of LGBTQ+ Californians. These bills are critical to ensuring that California remains a national leader in protecting trans lives. Sign AB 82, AB 1084, SB 59, SB 497, SB 418, AB 554, AB 727, and SB 41.
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2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/@mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/@mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
October 2, 2025 at 2:15 PM
2⃣ is better than 1⃣! Learn to throw pairs of floggers, canes, paddles & more.
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/@mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
✨Hands-on lab time included!
⚔️ Flow & Flourish: Dual Wielding for Impact Play w/@mayhemmai.bsky.social
🗓️ Thurs, 11/6 • 7–9pm • Masks required 😷
🎟️ $20–85
👉 RSVP: bit.ly/filthyflow
Folsom weekend let's fucking go
September 26, 2025 at 2:03 AM
Folsom weekend let's fucking go
I'm teaching my Ergonomics of Impact Topping class tonight at @thekinkstore.bsky.social in SF, come hang! allmylinks.com/mxmayhemmai
September 10, 2025 at 5:22 PM
I'm teaching my Ergonomics of Impact Topping class tonight at @thekinkstore.bsky.social in SF, come hang! allmylinks.com/mxmayhemmai
From: past me
To: current me
To: current me
September 3, 2025 at 1:12 AM
From: past me
To: current me
To: current me
Weekends are fully booked until November. If you want to catch me you'll need to either see me at my events or book me for a weeknight.
August 27, 2025 at 5:55 AM
Weekends are fully booked until November. If you want to catch me you'll need to either see me at my events or book me for a weeknight.
What a fantastic multi course dinner tonight
August 24, 2025 at 4:06 AM
What a fantastic multi course dinner tonight