and I got this cute lil organizer for my skincare & supplements - I had them stacked around the sink so I didn’t have to dig around for them but I felt bad bc my husband always had to clear them all away to clean the bathroom, now it’s easy for both of us 🥰🥰🥰

one thing that comes to mind is Ken Wilbur’s distinction in integral theory between the Good, the Beautiful & the True as just intersubjective, subjective, and objective versions of truth

and I got a jingly scarf to wear around my waist too it’s the cutest!!!

it’s soooooooo cute but I think it just helps to keep things the same across diff platforms as much as possible

these are just initial thoughts but I think it will be fun to experiment 🥰

so I don’t really do my beauty-in-the-mundane professional/domestic bliss poasting there - altho in uni I did & I enjoyed it & it would suit the way my voice has been developing lately well

I like my personal insta to be v curated - I like everything I post there to flow together & meet a certain aesthetic standard & feel cohesive & communicate meaningful events as they arise in my life - it’s more of a highlight reel to preserve my own sense of having a beautiful adventure of a life

maybe something more slice of lifey would suit me better now - a lower pressure wider ranging kind of expression that I haven’t had before on my personal insta or as a boudoir model

I used to be an only fans girl so for a while I had a very thirst trappy visual presence as malty but since graduating law school & getting married I’ve moved away from sexualizing myself to such an extreme

so it will be interesting to consider if there is a visual presence this version of myself would find appealing now that it’s had to create an outlet for it

insta has always been a personal photo diary for me and I have shared it with IRL family & friends so it’s just been a very different space than my more verbal/less visual social media presence on twitter/mastodon/blsky

very happy that an aesthetically acceptable version of my handle was available for insta/threads, I really don’t know if I could have compromised any more than this and still been willing to have the account at all lol

yeah I think may.be.gray is growing on me!!!! can you teach me?