RIGHT it's especially funny with boxing cause I have in fact bottomed for a hobby boxer before, why is hitting people for fun only okay when it's for Fitness. Cool, have a great time at the gym, I'll be getting the same dopamine rush in the dungeon but I'm getting punched on the butt, not my HEAD.

Thinking about this cause tiktok kept rage baiting me with anti-BDSM bores pitching "healthier" ways to deal with masochism like boxing & BJJ. I get why someone would choose that, but...healthier? You're also getting punched and slammed into the ground it's just a slightly different context. Fools.

Whenever I'm complimented on how well I bruise I answer "Thank you it's one of my best qualities," and that always gets a laugh but I'm barely joking, I really mean it. Being a pain slut and having people in your life who appreciate that is a true joy.