Ligaya
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Reading diversely. Writing inclusively.
Ingatan natin ang isa’t isa.
Reading diversely. Writing inclusively.
Ingatan natin ang isa’t isa.
November 27, 2025 at 1:22 AM
3. It's okay to leave. If the people who profess to love you are making "jokes" that are really just passive aggressive (if not outright!) barbs, get up and leave. It's not your fault. It's theirs. If they want you to stick around, they should behave accordingly.
November 27, 2025 at 1:22 AM
3. It's okay to leave. If the people who profess to love you are making "jokes" that are really just passive aggressive (if not outright!) barbs, get up and leave. It's not your fault. It's theirs. If they want you to stick around, they should behave accordingly.
2. (continued) a fool starts stuff, it's okay to finish it.
Don't let anyone tell you to "be the bigger person," "take the high road," or "keep the peace." They should tell that to the instigator. You're just defending yourself, and that's okay.
Don't let anyone tell you to "be the bigger person," "take the high road," or "keep the peace." They should tell that to the instigator. You're just defending yourself, and that's okay.
November 27, 2025 at 1:22 AM
2. (continued) a fool starts stuff, it's okay to finish it.
Don't let anyone tell you to "be the bigger person," "take the high road," or "keep the peace." They should tell that to the instigator. You're just defending yourself, and that's okay.
Don't let anyone tell you to "be the bigger person," "take the high road," or "keep the peace." They should tell that to the instigator. You're just defending yourself, and that's okay.
2. (continued) Call them out. Laugh in their faces. Boldly and loudly declare that they are the pot to your kettle.
You're not rocking the boat. You're refusing to steady a capsizing ship since some fool is shaking and stomping for all they're worth.
Also, screw being the bigger person. If
You're not rocking the boat. You're refusing to steady a capsizing ship since some fool is shaking and stomping for all they're worth.
Also, screw being the bigger person. If
November 27, 2025 at 1:22 AM
2. (continued) Call them out. Laugh in their faces. Boldly and loudly declare that they are the pot to your kettle.
You're not rocking the boat. You're refusing to steady a capsizing ship since some fool is shaking and stomping for all they're worth.
Also, screw being the bigger person. If
You're not rocking the boat. You're refusing to steady a capsizing ship since some fool is shaking and stomping for all they're worth.
Also, screw being the bigger person. If
2. Related: a lot of folks are trying to use you as a scape goat. I know someone who has made similar...
Her: "mistakes"
Me: "interesting, perhaps questionable, life choices. #YOLO, baby! YOLO!" (Shout out to Wolfie in San Francisco!)
Her: "mistakes"
Me: "interesting, perhaps questionable, life choices. #YOLO, baby! YOLO!" (Shout out to Wolfie in San Francisco!)
November 27, 2025 at 1:22 AM
2. Related: a lot of folks are trying to use you as a scape goat. I know someone who has made similar...
Her: "mistakes"
Me: "interesting, perhaps questionable, life choices. #YOLO, baby! YOLO!" (Shout out to Wolfie in San Francisco!)
Her: "mistakes"
Me: "interesting, perhaps questionable, life choices. #YOLO, baby! YOLO!" (Shout out to Wolfie in San Francisco!)
1. Some people are intent at holding you to the version of yourself over which they exerted the most control. F*ck that, and f*ck them. Don't play that game.
You're doing a great job. I'm proud of you.
You're doing a great job. I'm proud of you.
November 27, 2025 at 1:22 AM
1. Some people are intent at holding you to the version of yourself over which they exerted the most control. F*ck that, and f*ck them. Don't play that game.
You're doing a great job. I'm proud of you.
You're doing a great job. I'm proud of you.
This one time, I heard a wrapper in the stall next to me. Whoever it was finished eating and threw the fast food wrapper on the floor 🤢
November 11, 2025 at 6:48 AM
This one time, I heard a wrapper in the stall next to me. Whoever it was finished eating and threw the fast food wrapper on the floor 🤢
I may or may not be writing something smutty tonight 😹
September 10, 2025 at 12:28 AM
I may or may not be writing something smutty tonight 😹
🎶"Hey, Ma: What's for dinner?"
"Go up your nose and pick a winner!"🎶
"Go up your nose and pick a winner!"🎶
September 2, 2025 at 5:46 PM
🎶"Hey, Ma: What's for dinner?"
"Go up your nose and pick a winner!"🎶
"Go up your nose and pick a winner!"🎶
Is this real life? Or is it just fantasy?
(I'm cheering for you, girly! Cheer! Cheer!)
(I'm cheering for you, girly! Cheer! Cheer!)
September 2, 2025 at 5:44 PM
Is this real life? Or is it just fantasy?
(I'm cheering for you, girly! Cheer! Cheer!)
(I'm cheering for you, girly! Cheer! Cheer!)
What a wonderful man! I'm sorry you didn't get more time together.
June 15, 2025 at 8:53 PM
What a wonderful man! I'm sorry you didn't get more time together.
People like the ones telling her to sing in English say or think, "Let's not make this political" while their choices make things political. They're not neutral. They've silently chosen the side of the oppressor.
June 15, 2025 at 8:53 PM
People like the ones telling her to sing in English say or think, "Let's not make this political" while their choices make things political. They're not neutral. They've silently chosen the side of the oppressor.
He looks like someone with a quiet, understated sense of humor that requires the listener to do a double take 💗
June 15, 2025 at 8:51 PM
He looks like someone with a quiet, understated sense of humor that requires the listener to do a double take 💗
I was secure. I was loved. There was no need to doubt that I had a family and a place within that.
I miss Itay everyday, but his unconditional love gives me the courage to keep moving forward.
Happy Father's Day to the dads! ❤️
3/3
I miss Itay everyday, but his unconditional love gives me the courage to keep moving forward.
Happy Father's Day to the dads! ❤️
3/3
June 15, 2025 at 8:50 PM
I was secure. I was loved. There was no need to doubt that I had a family and a place within that.
I miss Itay everyday, but his unconditional love gives me the courage to keep moving forward.
Happy Father's Day to the dads! ❤️
3/3
I miss Itay everyday, but his unconditional love gives me the courage to keep moving forward.
Happy Father's Day to the dads! ❤️
3/3