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Interested in human behaviour and seeking truth, living in reality. Buy me a coffee to keep me going! 💖
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"The Kingdom of God is within you."
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December 11, 2025 at 9:52 AM
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This is a reminder to bring love to others.
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December 9, 2025 at 9:38 AM
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Some caring professionals may cross boundaries, siding with clients in blame. Stay neutral, refer legal matters out, and focus on growth, not attacking others.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:56 AM
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Some HCPs draw in counselors as negative advocates, leading some to overstep, take sides in disputes, or become overattached—sometimes causing legal and ethical issues.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:54 AM
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Some lawyers with high-conflict personalities use aggressive blame tactics. Counter with calm, factual arguments, ideally with a reasonable lawyer, and focus on facts over emotions in court.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:52 AM
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Some HCPs enlist lawyers as negative advocates to attack targets. While many refuse baseless claims, some get emotionally hooked, risking sanctions or reputational harm.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:51 AM
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An HCP brings an advocate to confront neighbors, escalating disputes. A spouse may join in, reinforcing conflict instead of encouraging a direct, friendly one-on-one talk.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:49 AM
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I urged the board to quickly share facts after complaints; this reduced support for HCP claims. Even spouses/roommates can be swayed to advocate, but facts help temper conflict.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:47 AM
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Some non-family advocates are recruited by an HCP and may confront you, but with calm, accurate info they may disengage. In one HOA case, HCP and allies left before issues could be resolved.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:46 AM
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Negative advocates may become like a mob when emotionally hooked, often ignore facts, and may act publicly extreme; most are misled, not HCPs, and can change when given accurate information.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:44 AM
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Family members often become negative advocates, backing HCP relatives against employers, agencies, or courts, sometimes defying evidence and supporting them even after guilt is proven.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:43 AM
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Prepare for negative advocates by using CARS and BIFF: respond with empathy, respect, and facts. Avoid contact if unsafe or in legal cases—consult your lawyer before acting.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:41 AM
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If you're blamed by an HCP, expect negative advocates who may be more hostile, credible, and numerous—spreading rumors, harming your work, finances, or safety, and pressuring you to comply.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:40 AM
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Negative advocates, like enablers, reinforce HCP’s dysfunctional behavior, escalating aggression. Targets can be overwhelmed—spot and curb this early to prevent harm.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:37 AM
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Some people become “negative advocates,” adopting an HCP’s emotions and blame without question, trying to protect them but often worsening the situation for all involved.
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December 9, 2025 at 6:35 AM
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Histrionic HCPs are rare but often seen in other HCP types. Stay calm in emotional drama, avoid labels, and be ready to step away and clarify concerns directly with others.
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December 8, 2025 at 4:04 AM
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Amy should plan the talk’s timing, place, and attendees, consider future care needs, set up backup support, and stay calm yet persistent despite her mother’s likely resistance.
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December 8, 2025 at 4:03 AM
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Breaking from a histrionic HCP takes planning. Prepare with a counselor, rehearse talks, anticipate reactions, and plan responses for best and worst outcomes.
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December 8, 2025 at 4:01 AM
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The society nowadays.
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December 7, 2025 at 10:44 AM
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This man expressed dangers in assisted driving and was silenced on Rednote (China social media app).
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December 5, 2025 at 5:51 AM
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Focus on desired behavior, explain benefits, note consequences, and set clear limits. Keep the conversation positive, redirect from problems to solutions or uplifting topics.
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December 5, 2025 at 5:29 AM
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If someone is hostile, calmly warn you'll end the talk if it continues, then hang up. For misinformation, reply briefly, factually, and firmly, then move to a new topic.
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December 5, 2025 at 5:28 AM
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Offer two calm choices to avoid drama:
A) “Do you want to do this now?”
B) “Or meet another day?”
Stay empathetic but assertive; if they keep overreacting, politely end the talk and walk away.
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December 5, 2025 at 5:26 AM
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Listen with empathy for 5–10 min, acknowledge feelings (“That sounds difficult”), then focus on the issue: “Now, how I can help you is to discuss X or work on Y with you.”
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December 5, 2025 at 5:25 AM
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Avoid lingering, as it invites repeated emotional stories. HCPs don’t find relief in venting; help by focusing them on tasks, not emotions, to prevent worsening their distress.
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December 5, 2025 at 5:24 AM