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Heidi & Mand
@laughbeforedeath.bsky.social
We have #metastaticbreastcancer

Our motto is: we are dying but not right now!

We have difficult conversations, we find each other funny. What’s not to like?!

Podcast👇

https://open.spotify.com/show/4L343Uhn1pHbJH8nDCFZvW?si=LUfKykErQieM5_96tMQLZw
Morning cancer friends 👋

Prepping for our next podcast episode: cancer & exercise

Exercise is good for everybody (we know that 🙄). So our focus is on the multiple excuses and our gradual physical build up since getting ill (Rocky theme, anyone?)

open.spotify.com/show/4L343Uh...

#cansky #cancer
November 24, 2025 at 9:52 AM
New #cancer line of treatment,
extra checks rightly made = 90 minutes before the we got down to business.

Sent this photo to my husband as this was just about the time we were supposed to sit down for his birthday lunch

All the best laid plans and that…

#cancer #cansky #oncsky
November 22, 2025 at 4:34 PM
The ol’ chemo flush,
or is it the accompanying steroids?…

not bothered as long as it’s doing its business 😌

#chemo #metastaticcancer #oncsky #cansky
November 22, 2025 at 1:40 PM
Waiting for my Portacath* surgery, gives me time to read this fella. Ohh intellectual 😆

*catheter to support blood tests, intravenous & other needle based treatments. It helps cancer patients whose veins are taking a bruising from ongoing treatment.

#oncsky #cansky #cancer
November 17, 2025 at 10:04 AM
My GSD keeping a watchful eye on my bacon sandwich 👀
November 16, 2025 at 10:42 PM
#BraveNewWorld

Meet-up to work out the details of recording our next podcast online, by doing a trial run (topic; exercise and cancer 🤫)

Video recording was invented in the 90s yet the process feel like a temperamental beast we’re yet to master 😆😂

#cansky #oncsky #cancer
November 12, 2025 at 4:42 PM
Margot and Didi agree
November 10, 2025 at 12:02 PM
“Hope takes on many different forms”… and that is exactly what we talk with Kevin about in our later podcast episode.

@storiescancerhope.bsky.social

See link below 👇

#cansky #cancer #metastaticcancer
October 30, 2025 at 8:26 PM
We’re dying, but not right now.

So we keep going, and we keep enjoying life.

On this picture we’re celebrating Mand’s birthday (and her fancy new dress, which I made for her).

#oncsky #cansky #metastaticcancer
October 25, 2025 at 8:03 AM
After an afternoon rest (@cancerfatigue can do one!) I’ve been reflecting on Kevin’s talk today. @storiescancerhope.bsky.social is life affirming and a cancer community hug, all in one.

Podcast episode completed (recorded with Kevin) and ready for editing. Watch this space…

#cansky
October 16, 2025 at 5:36 PM
Packing up and ready to go to the #Macmillan #cancer event focusing on #hope. I’m excited to listen to Kevin speak about the @storiescancerhope.bsky.social project ❤️
October 16, 2025 at 8:25 AM
It’s my birthday today and I’m having cancer treatment.

My intention is to have more cake than chemo, so wish me luck on readdressing the imbalance 😆

#cansky #oncsky
October 9, 2025 at 12:55 PM
No (additional) filter, no post editing, just a big fat coincidence…

Both of us were taken unawares during a garden party for #macmillancoffeemorning. I was caught up in a bubble, Mand was caught mid chew 😆

#cansky #oncsky #metastaticcancer
September 28, 2025 at 6:55 AM
This is a happy photo. Mand is happy because the dress I made her fits perfectly. I’m happy for the same reason!

There’s so much more to life than #cancer. And on sunny afternoons, life feels eternal. We’re dying but not today.

#cansky #oncsky
September 26, 2025 at 7:17 AM
We used to be cool… now we’re even COOLER (😆).

We took part in an attempt at breaking the record for number of participants who completed ‘chair based exercise’ over a 30 minute period.

(Record was broken in case you wonder🏅)

#cansky #oncsky #metastaticcancer
September 25, 2025 at 1:11 PM
First day back on IV chemo and I’m feeling hopeful.

#cansky #oncsky #chemo
September 18, 2025 at 7:03 AM
We look too happy to be talking about ill health retirement but that’s just what we did in our latest podcast episode 👇

open.spotify.com/episode/0ftt...
August 27, 2025 at 6:32 AM
Greetings from the Cancer ward waiting room. Sun is out, shorts are on, and ‘September’ (by Earth Wind and Fire) is played on the radio.

Life is not all bad ❤️

#cansky #oncsky #cancertreatment
August 25, 2025 at 10:34 AM
Never one to forego adventures, Mand volunteered to be ‘dead lifted’. No play on words necessary here 😆

What a life affirming lass she is #MetastaticCancer can do one!

#cansky #oncsky
August 19, 2025 at 12:33 PM
We got 1000 streams. Whoop whoop 🙌

We talk about death and dying so you feel you can too.

#cansky #oncsky #cancer #death
August 17, 2025 at 6:55 AM
Does anyone else fall asleep during their scans?

It’s the most magical snooze (enabled by the ‘stuff’ we are injected with, I wonder 🤔)

#oncsky #cansky #cancer #scans
August 13, 2025 at 12:09 PM
Mand has just gone and got herself an emotional support chicken. What more does a woman need?!

Good friends who knows what makes you tick, are invaluable. Even more so when you live with metastatic cancer.

#cansky #oncsky
July 17, 2025 at 6:51 AM
Sense check:

Is my shirt sending the wrong message for my final review with work before my contract is terminated (part of the process of seeking ill health retirement)? 😆

#cansky #oncsky #workingwithcancer
July 3, 2025 at 9:01 AM
‘Nook with a view’

Mand and I went wild and did a podcast recording from her burial nook. Topic (you might guess); death admin with a focus on cremated remains plots and forest burials. The recording is being edited, I’ll post the link when it’s done.
June 27, 2025 at 9:27 AM
What are we doing out in the wild?!

Mand and I are visiting her ‘burial nook’ (burial plot in the forest) to record a podcast about planning for death.

#oncsky #cansky
June 25, 2025 at 1:45 PM