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KupoNinja
@kuponinja.bsky.social
Proud Girl Dad
Advocate for Men's Mental/Emotional Health & Healthy Masculinity
Software Engineer

"Lead with Kindness"
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⚔️ TTRPG/DnD
👽 Star Wars
🎤 Karaoke
🎮 Cozy Gaming
🍂 Nature
📖 The Stormlight Archive
🔱 Epic Albums
🥲 Can't buy tix right now. But I hope I get good rates when I'm able to. Tho I also hope their economy improves.

We'll see what the future holds. Always wanted to go to Japan.
November 15, 2025 at 5:06 AM
He's streaming?! I wanna watch!!!
November 15, 2025 at 2:40 AM
So wild!!! I had 2 different friends go to Japan around the same time. Like within the past couple weeks.

One was in that Ramen Museum. I started scanning the ppl to see if I could spot them. Lol.

I do not see them. 😒
November 15, 2025 at 2:39 AM
Aww... Y'all so cute!
November 15, 2025 at 2:37 AM
Hah! Thanks, @homotopycoder.bsky.social! Really appreciate the reminder
November 15, 2025 at 2:15 AM
Hope you're doing well too, Moboo!
November 10, 2025 at 8:56 AM
Hah! Thanks, Moboo! I actually struggled on this one.
There's better ones I've shared in the past. More specifically the last 2.
November 10, 2025 at 8:44 AM
Thanks, Star! I is trying.

She has a lil notebook she saves them in. Lol
November 8, 2025 at 4:03 AM
Even tho the creator had little participation in the discussion, I was unsure on the possible feedback of sharing the content.

I tried to find an alternative but my brain is absolutely fried and I want to ensure I'm posting content that will benefit people AND have my insights around it.
November 5, 2025 at 4:48 AM
I respect this stance. Never seen the show but I recall it was a hit. Great stories need endings.

Reviving a memorable story through either reboots or continuation usually feels like a money grab.
November 3, 2025 at 1:31 AM
You got this, brother! I believe in you!
a man standing in front of a sign that says believe i believe in you
ALT: a man standing in front of a sign that says believe i believe in you
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November 2, 2025 at 9:26 PM
Every interaction I've had with you has made me feel genuinely good about you.
You generate a calm and kind energy that transcends these screens and actually impacts me personally.

I appreciate you and who you are, Dare!
November 2, 2025 at 9:17 PM
Everyone's different in how they operate their lives. But how are you showing up for yourself? Do you even know what your goals are or what your purpose is? Are you taking action on them?

Again... Small, consistent, daily actions make real, long-lasting change.

Reflect and take action.
October 27, 2025 at 10:48 PM
In this awareness, I plan on changing how I approach tasks. I usually prefer the snowball effect of doing small, easy tasks first to build momentum. This hasn't been working lately. So I'll "eat the frog".

I just need to take command of my days more.

I'm mainly sharing this to show my process.
October 27, 2025 at 10:48 PM
The other aspect is letting my ToDos pile up to the point where I feel overwhelmed. When all I needed to do was spend a few hrs in the week to focus on these tasks.

I've recognized I needed to take more action but my procrastination and resistance is high. Thus allowing myself to be distracted.
October 27, 2025 at 10:48 PM
I recognized in the past month or 2 that I have not reached a goal I wanted to make this year. Nor have I truly taken action towards my theme of Adventure this year.

I've been slowly reclaiming my time and energy and putting it back into my life. While trying to balance my empathy for others.
October 27, 2025 at 10:48 PM
But I also don't want to stop supporting others and giving them my time and energy. I'm all about kindness and one of my goals is to be an example for men in showing them the power of empathy and how providing safe spaces leads to deeper connection.

The issue is when its to my own detriment.
October 27, 2025 at 10:48 PM
In this vid, Connor's explanation of Over-Empathy made me pause and reflect on myself.

Am I giving too much of my energy and time to others and forgetting to give myself this same time and energy?

Short answer for myself is yes. I've recognized I need to set some boundaries here.
October 27, 2025 at 10:48 PM