Adekola 🏳️🌈
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A lot of things broke my heart but fixed my vision.
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Choosing to accept your queerness is an act of service to self. You shut out all the noise and you take the decision to choose yourself even when the world ostracises you. You literally become self reliant on who you are and you build yourself up against any form of resistance to your queerness.✊🏿🏳️🌈
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QUEER LOVE IS REAL LOVE! GAY RIGHTS AND TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS. OUR EXISTENCE IS NOT UP FOR DEBATE. WE DESERVE DIGNITY, SAFETY, AND JOY EVERY SINGLE DAY. LET'S LIFT EACH OTHER UP AND BUILD A WORLD WHERE EVERY LGBTQ+ SOUL THRIVES. 🌈✊🤍
January 16, 2026 at 5:37 PM
QUEER LOVE IS REAL LOVE! GAY RIGHTS AND TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS. OUR EXISTENCE IS NOT UP FOR DEBATE. WE DESERVE DIGNITY, SAFETY, AND JOY EVERY SINGLE DAY. LET'S LIFT EACH OTHER UP AND BUILD A WORLD WHERE EVERY LGBTQ+ SOUL THRIVES. 🌈✊🤍
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THE DODGERS & METS CAN THROW HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS AT STARS LIKE BO BICHETTE, BUT MINOR LEAGUE PLAYERS AND STADIUM STAFF ARE PAID PEANUTS. IT'S TIME TO UNIONIZE, PAY WORKERS FAIRLY, AND PUT FANS AND COMMUNITIES FIRST. BASEBALL FOR THE PEOPLE, NOT JUST BILLIONAIRES. ⚾️✊🏳⚧️
January 16, 2026 at 5:43 PM
THE DODGERS & METS CAN THROW HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS AT STARS LIKE BO BICHETTE, BUT MINOR LEAGUE PLAYERS AND STADIUM STAFF ARE PAID PEANUTS. IT'S TIME TO UNIONIZE, PAY WORKERS FAIRLY, AND PUT FANS AND COMMUNITIES FIRST. BASEBALL FOR THE PEOPLE, NOT JUST BILLIONAIRES. ⚾️✊🏳⚧️
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TRANS LIVES MATTER 🏳⚧️🌈💖🏳⚧️🔥🌈💖🏳⚧️🔥🌈💖🏳⚧️ OUR TRANS SIBLINGS ARE BRILLIANT, BEAUTIFUL, AND BOLD. WE WILL FIGHT FOR THEIR SAFETY, JOY, AND RIGHTS UNTIL EVERYONE IS FREE! 🏳⚧️💜✨ 🏳⚧️🌈💖🔥 🏳⚧️🌈💖🔥✨✊ 🏳⚧️🌈💖🔥✨✊✨✊ 🏳⚧️🌈💖🔥✨✊ 🏳⚧️🌈💖🔥✨✊🔥✊🏳⚧️💜✨🔥✊ 🏳⚧️💖🔥🌈✨✊ 🏳⚧️💖🔥🌈✨✊ 🏳⚧️💖🔥🌈✨✊ 🏳⚧️💖🔥🌈✨✊ 🏳⚧️💖🔥🌈✨✊
January 16, 2026 at 5:46 PM
TRANS LIVES MATTER 🏳⚧️🌈💖🏳⚧️🔥🌈💖🏳⚧️🔥🌈💖🏳⚧️ OUR TRANS SIBLINGS ARE BRILLIANT, BEAUTIFUL, AND BOLD. WE WILL FIGHT FOR THEIR SAFETY, JOY, AND RIGHTS UNTIL EVERYONE IS FREE! 🏳⚧️💜✨ 🏳⚧️🌈💖🔥 🏳⚧️🌈💖🔥✨✊ 🏳⚧️🌈💖🔥✨✊✨✊ 🏳⚧️🌈💖🔥✨✊ 🏳⚧️🌈💖🔥✨✊🔥✊🏳⚧️💜✨🔥✊ 🏳⚧️💖🔥🌈✨✊ 🏳⚧️💖🔥🌈✨✊ 🏳⚧️💖🔥🌈✨✊ 🏳⚧️💖🔥🌈✨✊ 🏳⚧️💖🔥🌈✨✊
Truth is like surgery; it hurts initially but ultimately brings about healing.
January 16, 2026 at 6:39 PM
Truth is like surgery; it hurts initially but ultimately brings about healing.
I wish queer people had it easier🏳️🌈
January 16, 2026 at 9:03 AM
I wish queer people had it easier🏳️🌈
You can be the smartest person in the room and still be the biggest liability.
Always know when to speak and when to be silent. Emotional intelligence is very important.
Always know when to speak and when to be silent. Emotional intelligence is very important.
January 16, 2026 at 8:51 AM
You can be the smartest person in the room and still be the biggest liability.
Always know when to speak and when to be silent. Emotional intelligence is very important.
Always know when to speak and when to be silent. Emotional intelligence is very important.
Homosexual love is the purest of romantic love ♥️♥️
January 16, 2026 at 8:08 AM
Homosexual love is the purest of romantic love ♥️♥️
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Dont seek validation from others
January 16, 2026 at 7:17 AM
Dont seek validation from others
I think bisexuals should commit to being louder about their bisexuality this year
January 16, 2026 at 7:52 AM
I think bisexuals should commit to being louder about their bisexuality this year
Homophobia got y’all missing out on sum good head
January 16, 2026 at 7:49 AM
Homophobia got y’all missing out on sum good head
Never go on dates empty handed even if you are not paying!
January 16, 2026 at 7:48 AM
Never go on dates empty handed even if you are not paying!
Choosing to accept your queerness is an act of service to self. You shut out all the noise and you take the decision to choose yourself even when the world ostracises you. You literally become self reliant on who you are and you build yourself up against any form of resistance to your queerness.✊🏿🏳️🌈
January 16, 2026 at 7:32 AM
Choosing to accept your queerness is an act of service to self. You shut out all the noise and you take the decision to choose yourself even when the world ostracises you. You literally become self reliant on who you are and you build yourself up against any form of resistance to your queerness.✊🏿🏳️🌈
Dont seek validation from others
January 16, 2026 at 7:17 AM
Dont seek validation from others
Letting go is difficult but it important to understand when a person has served their time in your life. It’s not easy to lose someone you loved so deeply ,it doesn’t matter how things ended just take joy in the memories and know that you’ve loved and you’ll never stop loving and you will love again
January 16, 2026 at 7:13 AM
Letting go is difficult but it important to understand when a person has served their time in your life. It’s not easy to lose someone you loved so deeply ,it doesn’t matter how things ended just take joy in the memories and know that you’ve loved and you’ll never stop loving and you will love again
If you’re with someone you really love your preeq go just dey stand anyhow 😂 😂 😂
January 16, 2026 at 7:12 AM
If you’re with someone you really love your preeq go just dey stand anyhow 😂 😂 😂
Sometimes hookups are the only place queer individuals feel chosen.
Not because we don’t want love, but because rejection, bias, and silence make us believe sex is the only “yes” we’ll get.
The danger is when that momentary validation starts to feel like the only kind of intimacy we deserve.
Not because we don’t want love, but because rejection, bias, and silence make us believe sex is the only “yes” we’ll get.
The danger is when that momentary validation starts to feel like the only kind of intimacy we deserve.
August 22, 2025 at 4:03 PM
Sometimes hookups are the only place queer individuals feel chosen.
Not because we don’t want love, but because rejection, bias, and silence make us believe sex is the only “yes” we’ll get.
The danger is when that momentary validation starts to feel like the only kind of intimacy we deserve.
Not because we don’t want love, but because rejection, bias, and silence make us believe sex is the only “yes” we’ll get.
The danger is when that momentary validation starts to feel like the only kind of intimacy we deserve.
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In gay dating spaces, there’s often an unspoken hierarchy of desirability.
It’s not just about attraction, it’s tied to cultural biases. The “masc for masc” mentality pushes men to present a certain way: muscular, straight-passing, emotionally detached.
feeling like a performance for approval.
It’s not just about attraction, it’s tied to cultural biases. The “masc for masc” mentality pushes men to present a certain way: muscular, straight-passing, emotionally detached.
feeling like a performance for approval.
August 22, 2025 at 3:53 PM
In gay dating spaces, there’s often an unspoken hierarchy of desirability.
It’s not just about attraction, it’s tied to cultural biases. The “masc for masc” mentality pushes men to present a certain way: muscular, straight-passing, emotionally detached.
feeling like a performance for approval.
It’s not just about attraction, it’s tied to cultural biases. The “masc for masc” mentality pushes men to present a certain way: muscular, straight-passing, emotionally detached.
feeling like a performance for approval.
In gay dating spaces, there’s often an unspoken hierarchy of desirability.
It’s not just about attraction, it’s tied to cultural biases. The “masc for masc” mentality pushes men to present a certain way: muscular, straight-passing, emotionally detached.
feeling like a performance for approval.
It’s not just about attraction, it’s tied to cultural biases. The “masc for masc” mentality pushes men to present a certain way: muscular, straight-passing, emotionally detached.
feeling like a performance for approval.
August 22, 2025 at 3:53 PM
In gay dating spaces, there’s often an unspoken hierarchy of desirability.
It’s not just about attraction, it’s tied to cultural biases. The “masc for masc” mentality pushes men to present a certain way: muscular, straight-passing, emotionally detached.
feeling like a performance for approval.
It’s not just about attraction, it’s tied to cultural biases. The “masc for masc” mentality pushes men to present a certain way: muscular, straight-passing, emotionally detached.
feeling like a performance for approval.
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Trans celeb Bobrisky appeals 6-month prison sentence for tossing money at party
76crimes.com/2024/04/25/b...
#LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTrights #humanrights #LGBTQrights #Africa #Nigeria #Bobrisky @bobrisky222_ #trans
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#LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTrights #humanrights #LGBTQrights #Africa #Nigeria #Bobrisky @bobrisky222_ #trans
Bobrisky: Trans celeb appeals 'naira abuse' prison sentence for money-tossing
Internet celebrity Bobrisky was convicted of 'naira abuse' after Nigerian money celebration
76crimes.com
April 25, 2024 at 8:29 PM
Trans celeb Bobrisky appeals 6-month prison sentence for tossing money at party
76crimes.com/2024/04/25/b...
#LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTrights #humanrights #LGBTQrights #Africa #Nigeria #Bobrisky @bobrisky222_ #trans
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#LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTrights #humanrights #LGBTQrights #Africa #Nigeria #Bobrisky @bobrisky222_ #trans
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#Nigéria #Nigeria #Нигерия #ナイジェリア #नाइजीरिया #نيجيريا #尼日利亚 #Nijeriya #Naíjíríyà #Nàìjíríà .
LGBTQ+ Nigerians battle dating app traps
#LGBTQ+ PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE
JUSTICE FOR THESE PEOPLE
#LGBT+
LGBTQ+ Nigerians battle dating app traps
#LGBTQ+ PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE
JUSTICE FOR THESE PEOPLE
#LGBT+
LGBTQ+ Nigerians using apps like Grindr caught in dating traps | Context
LGBTQ+ Nigerians are fighting back against online dating attacks, exposing and even entrapping the criminals behind the assaults
www.context.news
May 2, 2024 at 4:48 AM
If things go well, we believe our control led to that outcome.
If things go poorly, we assume forces outside of our control conspired against us.
Neither assessment is true. And yet, both are true
If things go poorly, we assume forces outside of our control conspired against us.
Neither assessment is true. And yet, both are true
December 13, 2023 at 1:52 PM
If things go well, we believe our control led to that outcome.
If things go poorly, we assume forces outside of our control conspired against us.
Neither assessment is true. And yet, both are true
If things go poorly, we assume forces outside of our control conspired against us.
Neither assessment is true. And yet, both are true
I like to have control.
Of my time, my work, and my future.
But control is an illusion — and so is our lack of it.
Control is an illusion we create to justify what happens to us.
December 13, 2023 at 1:52 PM
I like to have control.
Of my time, my work, and my future.
But control is an illusion — and so is our lack of it.
Control is an illusion we create to justify what happens to us.