Current number one is Die My Love, though that’s so tight with OBAA, and After the Hunt is one of the most on-brand movies of all time for me, and THE MASTERMIND!!!!

Gone Under Sea is a life changer

lol yeah that’s where I’m at 😂
Finally

Yeah I wish I could say I’d found that! In that range I still saw too much emphasis on numbers. I am in no way surprised it has taken a cis woman in her late 40s to find something that sticks…

I’m pretty chill either way, but I love depth and devotion and that takes time and focus

Whatever works! I can just tell when it feels forced for the sake of *being* polyamorous

Most of all I think any form of polyamory when a partner is actively seeking out more partners is missing the point

So many trans people comment and immediately buy into this particularly shallow form of polyamory being the only way and it’s horrible

Like I’ve been *married* and while I’ve seen why conventional monogamy doesn’t really work, I am not just trying to build a roster of benefit friends to take its place!

I got frustrated like “I’m not fighting to be anyone’s third priority.” It was so bad in Cleveland where it was like “start at the bottom and eventually you’ll have three girlfriends and maybe one of them will be important eventually.”

So true.

I’ll think I am and then they reveal they’re either bi/pan or nonbinary

Happens! It’s just funny how much easier they are to connect with! I’m almost struggling to think of the last time I’ve even talked to a cis lesbian!

Just striking me now as I get pretty settled in with a pan cis woman that this is the one kind of person I’m interested in but have never once dated

Mike Hate must be a decent guy because Mike Love sure isn't