He is the FBI's top hostage negoiator.
For over 24 years he has saved lives using a simple psychological playbook.
Here are his 7 game-changing frameworks for negotiating anything:
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• Clear point of view
• Specificity
• Direction
It's good to teach, but you also need to connect.
That’s how you stand out.
• Clear point of view
• Specificity
• Direction
It's good to teach, but you also need to connect.
That’s how you stand out.
"Read if you are interested."
How every hook should make the reader feel:
"You're missing out big if you don't read this."
"Read if you are interested."
How every hook should make the reader feel:
"You're missing out big if you don't read this."
That's the fastest way to build a quality audience.
That's the fastest way to build a quality audience.
It's the best way build advocates in a world where everyone has something to sell.
It's the best way build advocates in a world where everyone has something to sell.
Give value to people who can't do anything for you right now.
Help people who are exactly where you were 6 months ago. When they grow, they remember who showed up for them.
You can do this directly or indirectly. Either way, lift others while you grow.
Give value to people who can't do anything for you right now.
Help people who are exactly where you were 6 months ago. When they grow, they remember who showed up for them.
You can do this directly or indirectly. Either way, lift others while you grow.
You can teach something well and still be ignored.
If it doesn’t hurt, it won’t convert.
Want more leads?
Repeat the right problem.
You can teach something well and still be ignored.
If it doesn’t hurt, it won’t convert.
Want more leads?
Repeat the right problem.
• Depth
• Empathy
• Guiding your audience
Be the guide, not the guru.
• Depth
• Empathy
• Guiding your audience
Be the guide, not the guru.
They’re held back by fear.
• Fear of failure.
• Fear of judgment.
• Fear of choosing wrong.
You only need the courage to start and to keep going.
They’re held back by fear.
• Fear of failure.
• Fear of judgment.
• Fear of choosing wrong.
You only need the courage to start and to keep going.
Here’s what will:
• Solving real problems
• Delivering unique insights
• Guiding your audience
Trust > Frequency.
Here’s what will:
• Solving real problems
• Delivering unique insights
• Guiding your audience
Trust > Frequency.
You would blame a CEO for a company's failure.
It's the same for your life.
You are the CEO.
You would blame a CEO for a company's failure.
It's the same for your life.
You are the CEO.
Those who continue to invest in themselves.
They understand this simple concept...
If you wouldn't invest time & money in yourself, why would anyone invest in you?
Those who continue to invest in themselves.
They understand this simple concept...
If you wouldn't invest time & money in yourself, why would anyone invest in you?
Spent a lot of time mimicking “successful” creators.
→ Used their tone.
→ Copied their style.
It got me nowhere.
So what did I do?
I decided to be myself.
And it worked...
In the past 19 months, here's what happened:
Spent a lot of time mimicking “successful” creators.
→ Used their tone.
→ Copied their style.
It got me nowhere.
So what did I do?
I decided to be myself.
And it worked...
In the past 19 months, here's what happened:
But here’s the truth: Guessing leads to generic content.
The best creators ask better questions.
Their content feels personal because it is.
But here’s the truth: Guessing leads to generic content.
The best creators ask better questions.
Their content feels personal because it is.
They are building something they love through meaningful work.
They are building something they love through meaningful work.
I started building an “Idea Vault” so I wouldn't have to worry about content ideas.
10 minutes daily brainstorming, 5 rough ideas.
• Audience questions
• Personal stories
• Trends
By the end of the week, I will have 35+ ideas.
I started building an “Idea Vault” so I wouldn't have to worry about content ideas.
10 minutes daily brainstorming, 5 rough ideas.
• Audience questions
• Personal stories
• Trends
By the end of the week, I will have 35+ ideas.
Weekend Unplug: Successful
Weekend Unplug: Successful
Weekend Unplug: Successful
Weekend Unplug: Successful
1. What frustrates them?
2. What's their dream result?
3. What blocks their progress?
4. What keeps them up at night?
5. What’s missing in current solutions?
Ask. Listen. Create better content.
1. What frustrates them?
2. What's their dream result?
3. What blocks their progress?
4. What keeps them up at night?
5. What’s missing in current solutions?
Ask. Listen. Create better content.
1. Writing for skimmers
2. Engaging with the right people
Line breaks make content easy to consume.
Engagement puts you in front of new audiences.
Growth is a repetition game.
That's it.
1. Writing for skimmers
2. Engaging with the right people
Line breaks make content easy to consume.
Engagement puts you in front of new audiences.
Growth is a repetition game.
That's it.
Engage in DMs.
Build trust.
That’s where sales happen.
Engage in DMs.
Build trust.
That’s where sales happen.
You need to know their:
- Fears
- Goals
- Needs
- Desires
- Behaviors
Don't sell to everybody.
You need to know their:
- Fears
- Goals
- Needs
- Desires
- Behaviors
Don't sell to everybody.
- Post 3x a day
- 2 long-forms a week
- Engage 30+ times a day
Let's start the year strong.
- Post 3x a day
- 2 long-forms a week
- Engage 30+ times a day
Let's start the year strong.
1. Teach the “what”
2. Hint the “how”
3. Talk to one person
4. Share your process
5. Make your story their shortcut
6. Plug your offer regularly
7. Repel the wrong people
1. Teach the “what”
2. Hint the “how”
3. Talk to one person
4. Share your process
5. Make your story their shortcut
6. Plug your offer regularly
7. Repel the wrong people