/'keɪ/
@kayos.xyz
kay operating system
they/he/whatevs
often unclothed
nudity ≠ consent
often stoned 🍁
disabled creative
shaped and informed by trauma
abuse survivor
bluesky says i'm pornographic
retired sex worker
/æ.'wu/
they/he/whatevs
often unclothed
nudity ≠ consent
often stoned 🍁
disabled creative
shaped and informed by trauma
abuse survivor
bluesky says i'm pornographic
retired sex worker
/æ.'wu/
Pinned
/'keɪ/
@kayos.xyz
· Aug 26
who am i?
i'm kay
i'm genderfluid, likely mycogender
i'm demisexual and omnisexual—i find all genders attractive for their own reason, but gotta have an emotional connection
i'm platoniromantic—romantic and platonic love are the same to me
i'm polyamorous and flirty
my pronouns are they/he/whatevs
i'm kay
i'm genderfluid, likely mycogender
i'm demisexual and omnisexual—i find all genders attractive for their own reason, but gotta have an emotional connection
i'm platoniromantic—romantic and platonic love are the same to me
i'm polyamorous and flirty
my pronouns are they/he/whatevs
🐺 there was exactly one person in my life who i have allowed to call me "puppy"
there will not be another
there will not be another
December 4, 2025 at 7:14 PM
🐺 there was exactly one person in my life who i have allowed to call me "puppy"
there will not be another
there will not be another
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will the nog jog my cog fog?
December 4, 2025 at 4:04 PM
will the nog jog my cog fog?
i have grown over the past year
i didn't get any of the things i'd wanted to do done, but i've got better support right now than i'd had in quite a while
i got this
i didn't get any of the things i'd wanted to do done, but i've got better support right now than i'd had in quite a while
i got this
Just left my office unnoticed, sent my resignation from my phone on the bus home, uninstalled Outlook, and put my phone on DND. Trying not to have a panic attack rn.
December 4, 2025 at 2:10 PM
i have grown over the past year
i didn't get any of the things i'd wanted to do done, but i've got better support right now than i'd had in quite a while
i got this
i didn't get any of the things i'd wanted to do done, but i've got better support right now than i'd had in quite a while
i got this
making memes to process grief and vent frustrations
woo
woo
December 4, 2025 at 1:47 PM
making memes to process grief and vent frustrations
woo
woo
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what do you think, blueskies?
should i shave my body hair? and why or why not?
should i shave my body hair? and why or why not?
December 4, 2025 at 1:35 PM
what do you think, blueskies?
should i shave my body hair? and why or why not?
should i shave my body hair? and why or why not?
i've joked a few times about how as soon as i found my backbone, i discovered it's in pain, but recently i've noticed that on my pain days i tend to walk taller, because my body is unconsciously trying to stretch the joints in my lumbar spine and sacrum
December 4, 2025 at 12:05 PM
i've joked a few times about how as soon as i found my backbone, i discovered it's in pain, but recently i've noticed that on my pain days i tend to walk taller, because my body is unconsciously trying to stretch the joints in my lumbar spine and sacrum
something that irritates the everloving fuck out of me as a result of my chronic pain is when people decide for me what i'm capable of doing
my ex-boyfriend didn't invite me over or plan dates with me, because he claimed to be watching out for my pain
i want to live, not hide inside with my pain
my ex-boyfriend didn't invite me over or plan dates with me, because he claimed to be watching out for my pain
i want to live, not hide inside with my pain
December 4, 2025 at 11:46 AM
something that irritates the everloving fuck out of me as a result of my chronic pain is when people decide for me what i'm capable of doing
my ex-boyfriend didn't invite me over or plan dates with me, because he claimed to be watching out for my pain
i want to live, not hide inside with my pain
my ex-boyfriend didn't invite me over or plan dates with me, because he claimed to be watching out for my pain
i want to live, not hide inside with my pain
it's been too long since i've been on a first date
who's gonna change that?
who's gonna change that?
December 4, 2025 at 5:03 AM
it's been too long since i've been on a first date
who's gonna change that?
who's gonna change that?
December 3, 2025 at 11:08 PM
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1. grinding ain't easy
2. no notes
3. big cheats
4. conservative
5. control the cash flow
6. bad dominant
7. unexpected item in bagging area
8. discard
9. benevolence
10. explosive decoupling
11. vikings
12. epic botch
13. strange connections
14. deadname
15. bird cheats
16. literal goddess
2. no notes
3. big cheats
4. conservative
5. control the cash flow
6. bad dominant
7. unexpected item in bagging area
8. discard
9. benevolence
10. explosive decoupling
11. vikings
12. epic botch
13. strange connections
14. deadname
15. bird cheats
16. literal goddess
December 3, 2025 at 4:01 AM
1. grinding ain't easy
2. no notes
3. big cheats
4. conservative
5. control the cash flow
6. bad dominant
7. unexpected item in bagging area
8. discard
9. benevolence
10. explosive decoupling
11. vikings
12. epic botch
13. strange connections
14. deadname
15. bird cheats
16. literal goddess
2. no notes
3. big cheats
4. conservative
5. control the cash flow
6. bad dominant
7. unexpected item in bagging area
8. discard
9. benevolence
10. explosive decoupling
11. vikings
12. epic botch
13. strange connections
14. deadname
15. bird cheats
16. literal goddess
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liberals who support means-testing disability accommodations and eugenics make more sense when you understand their only concept of disability accommodation is one time they had a long wait at space mountain and have hated wheelchairs ever since.
December 3, 2025 at 5:37 PM
liberals who support means-testing disability accommodations and eugenics make more sense when you understand their only concept of disability accommodation is one time they had a long wait at space mountain and have hated wheelchairs ever since.
i think the light is back for a little bit. the sparkle in my eye and the quirk to my smile
December 3, 2025 at 5:41 PM
i think the light is back for a little bit. the sparkle in my eye and the quirk to my smile
it's fucking awesome learning that my middle name—chosen entirely for the bit—is the given name of the eldest son of Lir, High King of the Tuatha de Dannan, and Aoibh, a daughter of Bodb Dearg
like, legit. i accidentally chose a deity's name, as though drawn to it, like a moth to a flame
like, legit. i accidentally chose a deity's name, as though drawn to it, like a moth to a flame
December 3, 2025 at 4:05 PM
it's fucking awesome learning that my middle name—chosen entirely for the bit—is the given name of the eldest son of Lir, High King of the Tuatha de Dannan, and Aoibh, a daughter of Bodb Dearg
like, legit. i accidentally chose a deity's name, as though drawn to it, like a moth to a flame
like, legit. i accidentally chose a deity's name, as though drawn to it, like a moth to a flame
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i saw this and immediately recoiled
🚩
🚩
December 3, 2025 at 12:47 PM
i saw this and immediately recoiled
🚩
🚩
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been seeing a lot of social and dating apps using the phrase "find your tribe"
please stop that
please stop that
December 3, 2025 at 2:30 PM
been seeing a lot of social and dating apps using the phrase "find your tribe"
please stop that
please stop that
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i've been kicking around the idea for a review and news blog for all sorts of nsfw content. are any of my friends here in helping me out? i'm definitely looking for help with wordpress themes, but am open to hearing other offers of help
December 3, 2025 at 1:15 PM
i've been kicking around the idea for a review and news blog for all sorts of nsfw content. are any of my friends here in helping me out? i'm definitely looking for help with wordpress themes, but am open to hearing other offers of help
been seeing a lot of social and dating apps using the phrase "find your tribe"
please stop that
please stop that
December 3, 2025 at 2:30 PM
been seeing a lot of social and dating apps using the phrase "find your tribe"
please stop that
please stop that
i've been kicking around the idea for a review and news blog for all sorts of nsfw content. are any of my friends here in helping me out? i'm definitely looking for help with wordpress themes, but am open to hearing other offers of help
December 3, 2025 at 1:15 PM
i've been kicking around the idea for a review and news blog for all sorts of nsfw content. are any of my friends here in helping me out? i'm definitely looking for help with wordpress themes, but am open to hearing other offers of help
boo. uses ai slop in their ads, so how do i know the site isn't populated by genAI chatbots? i don't
December 3, 2025 at 12:56 PM
boo. uses ai slop in their ads, so how do i know the site isn't populated by genAI chatbots? i don't
i saw this and immediately recoiled
🚩
🚩
December 3, 2025 at 12:47 PM
i saw this and immediately recoiled
🚩
🚩
just saw an ad for a dating app that claimed to "make dating more efficient"
we are heading in the direction of six sigma for dating
though honestly "scrum" already sounds like it'd be a dating app
we are heading in the direction of six sigma for dating
though honestly "scrum" already sounds like it'd be a dating app
December 3, 2025 at 12:43 PM
just saw an ad for a dating app that claimed to "make dating more efficient"
we are heading in the direction of six sigma for dating
though honestly "scrum" already sounds like it'd be a dating app
we are heading in the direction of six sigma for dating
though honestly "scrum" already sounds like it'd be a dating app