Kay
kay-kookie.bsky.social
Kay
@kay-kookie.bsky.social
Hai, I'm Kay! My pronouns are They/Them and Fae/Faer. Im oriented aroace, neptunic, genderfluidflux and have AuDHD and am plural. Anyways I hope everyone has a nice day!
(6) I forgot to include Verbal Shutdown in this, its already a term tho , but I'm going to explain how it differs from Non-Vocal
A verbal shutdown to me feels like all my ways of communication are taken, I can't read or write well during them.
But if im non-vocal i can, just can't talk.
November 24, 2025 at 12:17 AM
They can also contradict each other like
4. I'm fully verbal right now but I prefer using my AAC
It's just what someone is most comfortable with in that situation
Anyways I think that's all I have (for now anyways)
November 24, 2025 at 12:09 AM
Examples
1. Right now, I'm Non-Vocal and prefer to use Communication Cards to communicate.
2. I'm using my AAC device because I'm currently Low-Vocal.
3. Currently I'm High-Verbal so I prefer to use verbal communication to talk to you.

(5)
November 24, 2025 at 12:07 AM
4. High-Vocal: Can speak, and feels the need to a lot.

Also these aren't meant to be like permanent states, but rather a shifting verbality
Anyways next would be then labeling the communication that feels most comfortable at that time.
(4)
November 24, 2025 at 12:03 AM
3. Non-Vocal: Can't speak, not necessarily due to verbal shutdown

Note: I know that looks similar to nonverbal but non-vocal is just in that moment, but its different from a shutdown in that it doesn't feel like your shutting down, just no vocal ability.

(3)
November 23, 2025 at 11:57 PM
-new terms that fit better. So here they are
1. Full-Vocal: When you can speak fully, no limits.
2. Low-Vocal: Can only speak in short sentences, phrases, whispering, echolalia, vocal stims, or requires prep (scripting or written words).
(2)
November 23, 2025 at 11:53 PM
1. No verbal ability but no shutdown
2. Can speak, but not well/short sentences or words
3. Only sounds/vocal stims but no words

Those are the ones I can think of rn
Maybe they already exist idk
I'll try to come up with names tomorrow
November 23, 2025 at 7:03 AM
-Offending nonverbal people. Like I know going nonverbal isn't a good phrase but verbal shutdown doesn't always fit either because it doesn't feel like a shutdown, just a state of being. So I'm going to write my experiences and then come up with names for them (2)
November 23, 2025 at 6:55 AM
I got E6 Cyrene!!!!! Yayyyyyyyyyyy!!!!
November 19, 2025 at 9:11 PM
This never really came up again until today. We were out shopping and I heard them both use the wrong pronouns so I asked them to use my preferred ones, and my dad refused harshly.
However I did notice my mom using the correct ones later one I the day so maybe I got one win? (3)
November 16, 2025 at 2:40 AM
I also asked them to use They/Them for me as well. My mom is basically indifferent, and probably just forgot but my dad said he wasn't going to, when I asked why he said people forced him to use the right pronouns for someone and got called transphobic for accidentally using the wrong ones (2)
November 16, 2025 at 2:39 AM
E5!!
November 5, 2025 at 4:31 PM