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Expectations Vs Boundaries

I've had a particularly long day so I'll keep this post a little short. But I wanted to publish it today because I've put it off for too long. As a lot of you know, this year has been difficult for me and expectations vs boundaries is something I've thought about a lot.…
Expectations Vs Boundaries
I've had a particularly long day so I'll keep this post a little short. But I wanted to publish it today because I've put it off for too long. As a lot of you know, this year has been difficult for me and expectations vs boundaries is something I've thought about a lot. Recently, I was reading a post by JixiFox (do check out…
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December 14, 2025 at 1:01 AM
Musings (2025) (Guest Post)

‘My desperate yearnings as a schoolboy / My true fantasy, a dreamer full to the brim / Were clocking you, beauteous, radiant but coy / Your dreary eyes wide open, angelic face held nigh / Ready for the next decade, prepped to fly’ The except is taken from ‘Mi Primer…
Musings (2025) (Guest Post)
‘My desperate yearnings as a schoolboy / My true fantasy, a dreamer full to the brim / Were clocking you, beauteous, radiant but coy / Your dreary eyes wide open, angelic face held nigh / Ready for the next decade, prepped to fly’ The except is taken from ‘Mi Primer Adios’ (‘My First Farewell’). My finest piece kicks off my debut collection.
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December 10, 2025 at 1:01 AM
Ava DuVernay Quote

Ava DuVernay Quote: What's Up With Pooj? It's been an incredibly busy time for me recently and this week will be even more hectic. My socialising battery is at 0% but the week has only started. Yesterday was my cousins arangetram which was really great, she did an amazing job.…
Ava DuVernay Quote
Ava DuVernay Quote: What's Up With Pooj? It's been an incredibly busy time for me recently and this week will be even more hectic. My socialising battery is at 0% but the week has only started. Yesterday was my cousins arangetram which was really great, she did an amazing job. It takes years of hard work and dedication to get to that point.
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December 9, 2025 at 1:01 AM
My Experience With A Distance Reiki Session

Recently I had the opportunity to try distance Reiki with a fellow blogger on WordPress that offers Reiki among other things. I've always been curious about Reiki and I'm trying to do new things this year so I was really excited about it. I thought I…
My Experience With A Distance Reiki Session
Recently I had the opportunity to try distance Reiki with a fellow blogger on WordPress that offers Reiki among other things. I've always been curious about Reiki and I'm trying to do new things this year so I was really excited about it. I thought I would share my experience with you guys today. If you're interested in learning more about Reiki and booking a session- read more about it…
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December 6, 2025 at 1:02 AM
What Is AEO And How Can I Make My Posts More AEO Friendly?
A comprehensive insight into what AEO is and how you can utilise can benefit your site.
#AEO #Wordpress #SEO
What Is AEO And How Can I Make My Posts More AEO Friendly?
A comprehensive insight into what AEO is and how you can utilise can benefit your site.
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December 3, 2025 at 1:01 AM
The Year Has Come And Gone

As saddened as I am that the months have begun to feel like weeks and weeks like days, I do have to admit I will not be sad to say goodbye to 2025. Although the years has been one of growth, self-reflection, memories and change, it's also been a particularly difficult…
The Year Has Come And Gone
As saddened as I am that the months have begun to feel like weeks and weeks like days, I do have to admit I will not be sad to say goodbye to 2025. Although the years has been one of growth, self-reflection, memories and change, it's also been a particularly difficult year and I would not wish to relive it ever again.
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December 2, 2025 at 1:00 AM
The Seven Husbands Of Evelyn Hugo Review

Note: This post, The Seven Husbands Of Evelyn Hugo Review, contains spoilers for the book. Please don't read further if you're trying to avoid spoilers.  About The Author Taylor Jenkins Reid is the New York Times bestselling author of Daisy Jones & The Six…
The Seven Husbands Of Evelyn Hugo Review
Note: This post, The Seven Husbands Of Evelyn Hugo Review, contains spoilers for the book. Please don't read further if you're trying to avoid spoilers.  About The Author Taylor Jenkins Reid is the New York Times bestselling author of Daisy Jones & The Six and The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo, as well as One True Loves, Maybe in Another Life, After I Do, and Forever, Interrupted.
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November 30, 2025 at 1:01 AM
Six Word Story #224

Six Word Story: Gratitude- more than just a word. About This Six Word Story: I've heard and thought about gratitude so much recently. I've also noticed quite a few posts on the topic recently especially with Thanksgiving being celebrated in the US. And since absolutely no one…
Six Word Story #224
Six Word Story: Gratitude- more than just a word. About This Six Word Story: I've heard and thought about gratitude so much recently. I've also noticed quite a few posts on the topic recently especially with Thanksgiving being celebrated in the US. And since absolutely no one asked, I thought I would share a few thoughts on the topic. And I'm qualified to give these thoughts as a formerly somewhat ungrateful and pessimistic person.
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November 29, 2025 at 1:00 AM
Watching You

I know you see me watching you Your lips curl into a smile Your fingers running through your hair Your perfectly rounded hips swaying Your body moving to the music I'm captivated... desperate To hold you in my arms once more But instead I look away Reluctantly And focus on the woman…
Watching You
I know you see me watching you Your lips curl into a smile Your fingers running through your hair Your perfectly rounded hips swaying Your body moving to the music I'm captivated... desperate To hold you in my arms once more But instead I look away Reluctantly And focus on the woman in my arms The woman merely hours ago…
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November 27, 2025 at 1:00 AM
How To Instantly Get More Followers On Your WordPress Blog

A lot of us on WordPress are only here for the fun of it, that's how it started out for me too. But as blogging became more popular, people began to be more interested in growing their blog and growing their followers. There are so many…
How To Instantly Get More Followers On Your WordPress Blog
A lot of us on WordPress are only here for the fun of it, that's how it started out for me too. But as blogging became more popular, people began to be more interested in growing their blog and growing their followers. There are so many reasons why someone would want to grow their followers on WordPress. Maybe they want to socialise more, get their content out to more people, begin making an income from blogging or even all the above.
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November 26, 2025 at 1:01 AM
Annette Funicello Quote

Annette Funicello Quote: What's Up With Pooj? So much has been going on with me recently. Last week, we had some cousins over because they recently moved to Nairobi from Mombasa for uni. They're a lot of fun and although this was only the second time I've hung out with…
Annette Funicello Quote
Annette Funicello Quote: What's Up With Pooj? So much has been going on with me recently. Last week, we had some cousins over because they recently moved to Nairobi from Mombasa for uni. They're a lot of fun and although this was only the second time I've hung out with them, it was nice. Yesterday, my mum's cousins came over for a while.
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November 25, 2025 at 1:01 AM
What’s Been Happening On WordPress?

I've been meaning to share what's been happening on WordPress recently.
What’s Been Happening On WordPress?
I've been meaning to share what's been happening on WordPress recently.
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November 23, 2025 at 1:01 AM
The Lasting Appeal of Thoughtful Holiday Gift Boxes

Holiday seasons bring a sense of warmth, togetherness, and gratitude. One of the most cherished traditions associated with this festive time is the exchange of gifts—a simple yet meaningful gesture that conveys love, appreciation, and joy. Among…
The Lasting Appeal of Thoughtful Holiday Gift Boxes
Holiday seasons bring a sense of warmth, togetherness, and gratitude. One of the most cherished traditions associated with this festive time is the exchange of gifts—a simple yet meaningful gesture that conveys love, appreciation, and joy. Among the many ways people express these feelings, holiday gift boxes have emerged as a timeless and beloved choice. Whether it is a carefully arranged…
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November 21, 2025 at 9:55 AM
Virginia Woolf Quote

Virginia Woolf Quote: What's Up With Pooj? This Virginia Woolf quote really spoke to me with where I am in my life this year. I remember going to my current therapist for the first time and telling her I had no idea who I was because I had spent my life being who everyone else…
Virginia Woolf Quote
Virginia Woolf Quote: What's Up With Pooj? This Virginia Woolf quote really spoke to me with where I am in my life this year. I remember going to my current therapist for the first time and telling her I had no idea who I was because I had spent my life being who everyone else needed me to be. With her help and conscious effort on my part, I am finally discovering myself and I love it.
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November 18, 2025 at 1:01 AM
The World & Me: The Story of My Bipolar Disorder (Guest Post)

***Trigger Warning*** Apparently I have to advise people before they read this that it contains certain elements that can potentially cause upset, or be detrimental to others well being due to its graphic, raw and extremely brutally…
The World & Me: The Story of My Bipolar Disorder (Guest Post)
***Trigger Warning*** Apparently I have to advise people before they read this that it contains certain elements that can potentially cause upset, or be detrimental to others well being due to its graphic, raw and extremely brutally honest nature. This is my explanation and my experience with having Bipolar and I have opened up to every aspect that is relevant and given a comprehensive explanation it.
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November 16, 2025 at 1:01 AM
World Kindness Day- Sharing My Story

Since it's World Kindness Day, I wanted to share a short post on how the kindness of strangers changed my life.
World Kindness Day- Sharing My Story
Since it's World Kindness Day, I wanted to share a short post on how the kindness of strangers changed my life.
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November 14, 2025 at 1:01 AM
A Busy Time

You may have noticed that I have been trying to post more regularly for the last few weeks. Not as much as I would like to but still more than before. However, I wanted to let everyone know that for the rest of the year I won't be posting as much. And I won't be able to visit your…
A Busy Time
You may have noticed that I have been trying to post more regularly for the last few weeks. Not as much as I would like to but still more than before. However, I wanted to let everyone know that for the rest of the year I won't be posting as much. And I won't be able to visit your blogs as much as I wish I could.
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November 12, 2025 at 1:01 AM
An Abundance Of Blessings

It's no secret that it's been a particularly difficult year for me. However, there has been such an abundance of blessings that I simply can't not be grateful.
An Abundance Of Blessings
It's no secret that it's been a particularly difficult year for me. However, there has been such an abundance of blessings that I simply can't not be grateful.
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November 9, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Call Me By My Name

You would call me a poet If the body by my feet was metaphorical You would call me an actress If the screams had been fake You would call me an artist If the blood on my hands were paint You would call me conquerer If the one body had been hundreds instead You call me a murderer…
Call Me By My Name
You would call me a poet If the body by my feet was metaphorical You would call me an actress If the screams had been fake You would call me an artist If the blood on my hands were paint You would call me conquerer If the one body had been hundreds instead You call me a murderer And yet know nothing of my story…
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November 7, 2025 at 1:01 AM
How To Manage Anxiety When You Feel Overwhelmed

This year has really pushed my boundaries and tested me which sucked but I also ended up learning a lot from it. There were a lot of moments which felt overwhelming and that helped create this post about how to manage anxiety when you feel…
How To Manage Anxiety When You Feel Overwhelmed
This year has really pushed my boundaries and tested me which sucked but I also ended up learning a lot from it. There were a lot of moments which felt overwhelming and that helped create this post about how to manage anxiety when you feel overwhelmed. I hope it helps anyone else out there also struggling with this.
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November 6, 2025 at 1:02 AM
Henrik Ibsen Quote

Henrik Ibsen Quote: What's Up With Pooj? This week has not started out great. And yes, the week starts on Monday not Sunday. That is the hill I will die on lol. Anyway, I woke up and stretched my arms as I usually do but because I was still sleepy I stretched them a little too…
Henrik Ibsen Quote
Henrik Ibsen Quote: What's Up With Pooj? This week has not started out great. And yes, the week starts on Monday not Sunday. That is the hill I will die on lol. Anyway, I woke up and stretched my arms as I usually do but because I was still sleepy I stretched them a little too much. I have this thing with my shoulders that if I stretch my arms too much it causes an immense amount of pain.
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November 4, 2025 at 1:00 AM
The Dumb Thing I Did This Week (Halloween Addition)

I thought I would share the dumb thing I did this week with y'all because I thought it was really funny and hope you will too.
The Dumb Thing I Did This Week (Halloween Addition)
I thought I would share the dumb thing I did this week with y'all because I thought it was really funny and hope you will too.
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November 2, 2025 at 12:00 AM
Goodbye October, Hello November

We're almost done with this year, guys. Can you even believe it's November? Like I literally can't believe it. It feels like just yesterday I was talking about my new years resolutions and now I'm thinking of how I'll celebrate the end of the year. The older I get,…
Goodbye October, Hello November
We're almost done with this year, guys. Can you even believe it's November? Like I literally can't believe it. It feels like just yesterday I was talking about my new years resolutions and now I'm thinking of how I'll celebrate the end of the year. The older I get, the more I find myself thinking about how short our life actually is.
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November 1, 2025 at 12:00 AM
Happy Halloween, Everyone!

Depending on what time zone you're located in, it's already Halloween or will be Halloween very soon. So Happy Halloween, everyone- I hope you have an amazing day whether you're choosing to celebrate or not! Personally, I'm not sure if I'll be going out. To be honest, I…
Happy Halloween, Everyone!
Depending on what time zone you're located in, it's already Halloween or will be Halloween very soon. So Happy Halloween, everyone- I hope you have an amazing day whether you're choosing to celebrate or not! Personally, I'm not sure if I'll be going out. To be honest, I was hoping to go to something Halloween themed happening in my city but nothing has stood out to me and most things are pretty far from where I live and kind of expensive.
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October 31, 2025 at 12:00 AM