“faces that feel like home“
I love that.

I’m really looking forward to the new feature too, curious how different the energy will feel.

yes, exactly why I left ig. so noisy.

and also yes, why I still have a lil corner in the fedi and also want to simultaneously leave every other day. chileeeee.🙄

fucking loved Sk8.

my thing for Joe and Cherry led me down so many fanfics. 😭😭

it’s a bit overstimulating, but I know that’s me. I like slow, intimate spaces.

I’m going to give more time to sharing and connecting here, but in my heart I really want a solid gang of global pen pals to exchange hand-written letters in different languages.

And eventually to link up.

I think every indie artist should have a digital homespace of their own to share their crafts.

Hand-coding my own website felt like frolicking on a bully-free playground. I fucking love being in my terminal and code editor.

It‘s creative agency and nerd shit lol

I was never a twitter person and I only stayed on ig for as long as I did to connect with clients.

I realized after filling my books, month after month, that word-of-mouth was always gonna be that one.

all I needed was a place for folks to check me out—not to constantly be performing for socials.

fame, celebrity, and all the things like it are wack. I’m a human and wanna feel like it as often and as deeply as possible.

A year after experimenting with Cara and the fedi, it’s that time again to decide where it genuinely feels reciprocal + meaningful for me to hang out and contribute.

I don’t like the idea or feeling of followers who watch and don’t interact. I’ve done community across too many lifetimes for that.

lmao period

not the floral arrangement 🤣

quality > quantity, always and in all ways

reciprocity or be gone.

I be caring too much and for free anyway lol

I’ve done my share of unpaid and underpaid care work, so yes, you can pay me to care, actually.

if a seer and an operations strategist walk into a bar but then walk back out because it’s too loud and crowded to talk aligning foundations with values, that’s me. 1:1 clients only.

This is deeply emotional work because being accountable to ourselves and our values really is that deep, but it’s worthwhile work to anchor into more agency and authenticity, that then reflects in our craft.

so like, do you really need to do more, bigger, faster, and harder?

or might pausing to take inventory of the abundance you already have so you can repurpose things with intention be the move?

if anything, I’m into scaling back to give attention to the skipped and missed parts of the foundation because founders and visionaries are people.

Humans who need rest and life outside of creating—proper, bespoke backend organizing to reallocate internal resources supports this.