Gay men used to gather in bars to read the most up to date news and practices of safe sex from their local gay bars and community lead papers. They used to care about community health and sexual safety!! WHY IS IT SUCH A WILD CONCEPT NOW???

Men telling me I'm stupid or ignorant to ask others to care about their sexual heath, their partners' sexual health, and their communities' sexual heath is blatantly proving they adhere to the status quo and have a me vs everyone else mentality which is NOT supposed to be normal!!!

and if you're new to my acc, I will say I am on prep and doxy-pep. I take another antibiotic to prevent against UTIs before sex as well. Trans men are more likely to contract STIs. Doxy does not prevent against gonorrhea, nor does the effectiveness translate to those with vaginas compared to cis men

which not posting nudes here makes this account null and void essentially.

kind of. alt in the way that i post my nudes unashamed here but would never post them anywhere else and god forbid ppl i actually know and respect see any of this.

truly a shame in all parts!!!

i have no idea what you're talking about. cis men can never be at fault for anything, ever. i'm the "cunt" for making a big deal about it. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

one guy was super pissy with me when i just responded with "...... can you not read or smth?" kept being disrespectful and trying to prod as if I'm just going to entertain his BS all night 😆 pissy men make me laugh. i'm concerned for yall.

"i love trans"

give me a fucking break. it's the same as "i love *insert slur here*" bc it makes it about whatever the fuck that man is assuming about and putting onto trans folx as a whole. it makes me feel like i want to punch them in the dick and then wash myself raw from how fucking gross it is

it is always only "trans". on similar occasions it's "a trans." which just by words alone is Othering and addressing our entire personhood and identity down, disrespectfully, to a fetish, a fantasy, a *special weird* experience like they're game hunters collecting endangered species.

there's a mentality that these types of people have in regards to trans folk. it's in their verbiage. and you might say "yeah but he's older so the way he types is different". it's not w ppl like this. they never say "trans men and women" never "trans folk" never "A Trans Person" in the singularity.

i'll explain why bc i'm feeling generous and talkative and there's a lot of new followers recently.

saying "i love trans" unprompted is extremely fetishizing. it's the same as saying "i love blacks". same connotation and objectification.

i'd suspect it's wherever the queers congregate tbh. trans folk are notorious for being in polycules/ENM

Seattle is just one giant polycule. Everyone is together and fucks each other and it's impossible to meet someone who isn't attached to someone else. open relationships galore. fwb all over. ENM only. has 5 partners and they live with 3 of them type. it's exhausting here.