I'm sorry for your loss, it's never easy losing a beloved pet. They're family and never let anyone tell you otherwise.

Then they really need to learn how to actually google, because you aren't just supposed to read the 1st result and accept it as is without thinking.

I wear "gender neutral" clothing (tshirt & jeans) but my facial features & body shape scream "female", I know clothing != gender but it sucks that I will probably always appear as just female no matter what I wear.

Cool, another reason to avoid them like the plague. I stopped shopping there after they pussied out about selling pride merch. They're a rich company & could afford security at any store they thought had a legit threat. Nope, instead lets appease the bigots!