dinner for two....?

2 or less you are friendly and sweet

prego! she was a teen mom. she is almost 7 years old now

not new but Hi

thank you! it’s so wonderful that you are free from it now too 🫂

she’s doing great its just to try and keep her weight up since shes almost 7. she loves cc (although we usually use emeraid- they all like emeraid herbivore way better than branded critical care 🫣)

thank you so much i love you too! we are almost through 2025 and 2026 is gonna be a way better year for both of us ❤️🤝

yeah that was kind of the gist this time. no idea what brought it on bc i was just bumming around doing busy work ! ! ! i just kind of replayed things in my head unpleasantly... brains are "neat". i'm sorry that is something you go through too 😔

i don't need or want to get into any more serious things that happened w him, on some level been there done that, but its a real relief that the chapter of divorcing him is coming to a close. just a few hours remembering some of it it's very refreshing to think that that's not my life anymore??

allegedly there will be an agreement signed within the month. sometimes in the back of my mind i feel like, wow i can finally collect my thoughts about all this and speak re: my own experience, bc i intentionally shelved that for so long. tbh i just feel weary of having to consider him tho

it's been 5 years so there's 0 reason i should feel some kind of lingering feeling that it's unsafe to mention having been through this, but one of the effects of someone being very flagrant about wanting to monitor you is feeling. Well. monitored. there is a nagging feeling i've done st wrong.

his partner asked him if he had the password to my phone so he could delete any evidence i might have of them talking about me that way. they were worried because i'd taken a screenshot of the person he was seeing calling my requests re my healing stupid and he replied to them "that honesty is hot"

2nd one he and the other person he started seeing had messaged back and forth making fun of my boundaries/my voicing that i felt disrespected by him prioritizing a new relationship while i was healing from a major surgery and he'd agreed to the care needs i had in the weeks/months after

few key memories i had about this: him reaching out to me post separation asking to see screenshots of any conversations i was having abt him w/ our friends so he would feel less paranoid- his own words. i hadn't had the energy to talk to anyone about it and told him that. he didn't believe me

it's usually not that bad, i definitely manage but wtf lol