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On the outside looking in. I do like to be beside the seaside. Pasta & plants. Food. And Naples stuff.
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Yes, I know the baffled feeling
November 26, 2025 at 8:58 PM
Yes, I know the baffled feeling
So sorry to hear this. Best I can say is grief is like waves from the sea - one day they knock you off your feet, the next they just ripple around your ankles. And then unexpectedly there’s a tsunami. Grief sucks arse.
November 26, 2025 at 8:54 PM
So sorry to hear this. Best I can say is grief is like waves from the sea - one day they knock you off your feet, the next they just ripple around your ankles. And then unexpectedly there’s a tsunami. Grief sucks arse.
I reckon I cook at most the same 5 or 6 things every fucking week 😫
November 26, 2025 at 6:43 PM
I reckon I cook at most the same 5 or 6 things every fucking week 😫
I am SO BORED of my food. I never cook anything new despite a stack of books and Waitrose mags. So I hear you.
November 26, 2025 at 6:40 PM
I am SO BORED of my food. I never cook anything new despite a stack of books and Waitrose mags. So I hear you.
Thiiiiiiiisssssssssss (though i haven’t stopped drinking and still hate everyone - largely cos they hate me 😂)
November 19, 2025 at 5:38 PM
Thiiiiiiiisssssssssss (though i haven’t stopped drinking and still hate everyone - largely cos they hate me 😂)
I know what you mean - it reminded me of the place I worked for my summer job 😂
November 18, 2025 at 4:33 PM
I know what you mean - it reminded me of the place I worked for my summer job 😂
An idiot?! The Office was genius. Not seen his other stuff but After Life resonated on many levels. If he is an idiot, he’s a very successful one 😂
November 18, 2025 at 3:40 PM
An idiot?! The Office was genius. Not seen his other stuff but After Life resonated on many levels. If he is an idiot, he’s a very successful one 😂
I was in bits for the final episode. Can’t cope!
November 18, 2025 at 11:16 AM
I was in bits for the final episode. Can’t cope!
We should all escape X
November 16, 2025 at 10:06 PM
We should all escape X
Agree. But also my SIL is a similar age as me which is even worse. I find it cowardly: they would not dare say it in front of my mum or dad and maybe it’s a good thing my dad never met them.
November 16, 2025 at 10:03 PM
Agree. But also my SIL is a similar age as me which is even worse. I find it cowardly: they would not dare say it in front of my mum or dad and maybe it’s a good thing my dad never met them.
When I dare say that they tell me to “go back”. Which is a bit hard when I was born here. Also curious to know where my English Mum should “go back” to when she says the same 🙄
November 16, 2025 at 9:55 PM
When I dare say that they tell me to “go back”. Which is a bit hard when I was born here. Also curious to know where my English Mum should “go back” to when she says the same 🙄
My inlaws seem to be uncomfortable with me being proud of things that come out of Italy (where Dad is from) and apparently equate that with me “hating” the UK. Honestly don’t know how to deal w this!
November 16, 2025 at 9:52 PM
My inlaws seem to be uncomfortable with me being proud of things that come out of Italy (where Dad is from) and apparently equate that with me “hating” the UK. Honestly don’t know how to deal w this!
Roast lamb. Was going to slow roast w wine and stock but discovered I have no foil 😫
November 16, 2025 at 5:53 PM
Roast lamb. Was going to slow roast w wine and stock but discovered I have no foil 😫
Yeh! Also can’t bear her screeching.
November 15, 2025 at 8:43 PM
Yeh! Also can’t bear her screeching.
Really noticing what I think is RSD lately and struggling w it. Now realise it explains a lot of my life. Feel a bit lonely about it and also have some grief about what might have been. You’re right - too many people can’t handle a spark. Cnts.
November 15, 2025 at 8:42 PM
Really noticing what I think is RSD lately and struggling w it. Now realise it explains a lot of my life. Feel a bit lonely about it and also have some grief about what might have been. You’re right - too many people can’t handle a spark. Cnts.
Not for years! Now its richard madeley, kate garraway etc (she’s annoying). Piers M was good in covid holding all the politicians to account tbh.
November 15, 2025 at 8:34 PM
Not for years! Now its richard madeley, kate garraway etc (she’s annoying). Piers M was good in covid holding all the politicians to account tbh.
Same. I feel very unsociable these days but am always tired/stressed and just find socialising super hard - always come away feeling like a weirdo or that everyone hates me. Bed at 9 is my jam.
November 15, 2025 at 8:33 PM
Same. I feel very unsociable these days but am always tired/stressed and just find socialising super hard - always come away feeling like a weirdo or that everyone hates me. Bed at 9 is my jam.