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Why doesn’t @tekin.co.uk just ignore DHH’s blog posts? Calling his ideas “harmful and toxic” is a pretty glib and harmful response to them. Don’t like his posts? Ignore them. If people really cared about harmful toxic ideas they’d be criticizing alcohol ads. Let people live their lives.
September 27, 2025 at 6:29 PM
It’s certainly not nice but it’s the truth from DHH’s perspective.

In the same way, @tekin.co.uk’s article about DHH is true and not nice, but I’m not about to call for his banishment from the things he created because of his harmful and toxic ideas.
September 27, 2025 at 6:14 PM
A lipstick ad, then.

DHH’s point is that this particular ad clearly wasn’t meant to sell to Danes in Copenhagen: its purpose seemed to be representation of different body types over “oppressive” beauty ideals, but beauty ideals are net good.

And my point is that that idea isn’t harmful or toxic.
September 27, 2025 at 1:09 PM
Wow that’s a lot of questions.

I think it’s better to tell the truth instead of lying, even if the truth hurts people.
September 27, 2025 at 12:49 PM
I’m trying to understand what you’re talking about lol
September 27, 2025 at 12:40 PM
I’m not sure what you’re saying here. I don’t think anybody is arguing against the concept of forking an open source project?
September 27, 2025 at 3:14 AM
I’d consider “he holds racist and transphobic views [we find abhorrent], as well as a number of other traits undesirable” threatening days after Charlie Kirk was assassinated for the same thing.

Also they intentionally named it after an extremely violent and deadly French military operation.
September 26, 2025 at 11:18 PM
His condescending language feels warranted to me in this case because of the severity of the threat and tone of accusations being used against him by this group.

If someone was breaking into your home I wouldn’t fault you for shooting them, even though that would usually be very rude.
September 26, 2025 at 9:53 PM
Still a great deal.
September 26, 2025 at 9:49 PM
I could make a grotesque ad of a person with rotten teeth literally using the toothpaste I’m selling.

Maybe I’m not understanding the counter argument you’re making here?
September 26, 2025 at 9:49 PM
This particular ad was cited by DHH because it was on a prominent billboard in Copenhagen, so the target audience would be the average Copenhagen consumer’s dream and ideal, but it’s obviously not.
September 26, 2025 at 9:47 PM
Oh for sure: it could hurt the feelings of someone who is obese.

But pretending they have a beautiful ideal body is objectively more harmful if they believe me. Being obese is an insane health risk. There’s a reason fit bodies seem more attractive.
September 26, 2025 at 9:38 PM
Oh wow that’s a great deal. I don’t think I could even watch that many movies.

How often do you actually end up going?
September 26, 2025 at 6:09 PM
People with rotten teeth probably also use toothpaste. Rotten teeth are worse than non-rotten teeth and an obese body is worse than a fit body. Ads sell the ideal dream of what we might become.

There are certainly harms I can think of from pretending an obese body is healthy.
September 26, 2025 at 6:08 PM
Yeah it was rough growing up here.
September 26, 2025 at 3:41 PM
If you don’t like the tone and direction then do something else?

That’s why I jumped ship from the Next/serverleess ecosystem back to Rails a year ago.
September 26, 2025 at 3:11 PM
A condescending tone is a prerequisite for working in any sort of engineering field 😅
September 26, 2025 at 3:08 PM
On Omarchy I no longer feel like I need a mouse.
September 26, 2025 at 3:06 PM
Like this?
September 26, 2025 at 3:05 PM
Wait what part of that would make Konnor an asshole?

Denmark does make obesity drugs consumed primarily by fat Americans. Are fat woke people a forbidden topic to write about?
September 26, 2025 at 1:50 PM
You’re faulting DHH for excluding the people intentionally excluding themselves?

Like, if you had a book club and I was coming to it and you were cool with that, but then I was like “this Konnor guy has undesirable traits let’s make a new book club without him” what would your unifying response be?
September 26, 2025 at 4:29 AM
After digging into the sources you link to, DHH’s “harmful and toxic ideas” seem pretty reasonable to me.

Like, yeah, an obese underwear model does seem grotesque to me in the same way someone with rotten teeth in a toothpaste ad would seem grotesque.

What’s harmful or toxic about that idea?
September 26, 2025 at 3:23 AM
The faction trying to kick out the group’s founder is the divisive exclusionary side, no?

Who’s DHH saying he wants to exclude?
September 26, 2025 at 1:58 AM
Heck yeah. Yee haw.
September 26, 2025 at 1:45 AM
If you’re doing the Omarchy thing I’ve found the whole thing is hyper optimized to not need a mouse at all. It’s wild.
September 26, 2025 at 1:44 AM