Gareth Coates
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Gareth Coates
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Writer. Dad. Autistic. Seriously jaded former volunteer in non-League and schools' football. Views expressed are my own.
We moved over the summer, from Merseyside to Middlesex and while I haven't had a text from our new GP practice, I did get one from a surgery in Huyton asking why I hadn't booked my flu jab jet (Huyton is 8 miles from where we used to live and I'd only attended this surgery twice, out of hours).
November 5, 2025 at 10:54 AM
I started Slow Trains Around Britain by Tom Chesshyre last night after learning about it on one of these threads. Just finished Uncommon People by Miranda Sawyer which was a really good exploration of the Britpop era.
August 4, 2025 at 6:49 AM
Well, you’re not wrong, but the Circle isn’t the only Tube line with a name that is more historic than accurate. The Metropolitan and District Lines both bear the names of the long-dead companies which built them. Also more than half of the network is actually above ground.
July 22, 2025 at 6:09 PM
The Times! Once considered the “paper of record” and now reduced to running this nonsense.

I’m gobsmacked.
July 10, 2025 at 10:20 AM
It is possible to simultaneously be autistic and a terrible human. Wallace is just one example of that. Trying to paint himself as a victim by saying he should have been protected from “a dangerous environment” is just bullshit.
July 9, 2025 at 4:46 PM
I’ve been in regular contact with @anneliesemidgleymp.bsky.social’s office about this and DWP’s handling of existing claims for months. At the end of March a letter went to DWP about how I was treated by them. As far as I know, DWP never responded. It’s really disheartening.
June 3, 2025 at 7:21 AM
Really? I’m guessing The Ballad of Tom Jones did pretty well…
May 28, 2025 at 5:26 PM
True. It isn’t always easy to capture the nuance in 300 characters, and you know much more about that world than I do.
May 22, 2025 at 11:39 AM
I read your post and just thought how rough it is on both authors and the staff who’ve lost their jobs. I don’t think publishing is inherently worse than other industries. Businesses close for all kinds of reasons, in every field. Sorry you’re at a low ebb, though.
May 22, 2025 at 11:02 AM
I didn’t know Tom Chesshyre had a new Slow Trains out. How exciting! A must read for me.

My current read is A Village in the Third Reich by Julia Boyd & Angelika Patel. Only three chapters in, but enjoying it so far.
May 19, 2025 at 7:26 AM
I’ve been recommending Drama Queen by @sararoseg.bsky.social and Strong Female Character by Fern Brady. As an autistic person I found them really relatable and I think there’s a lot in both books for parents of autistic kids whether the parent is neurodivergent or not.
May 16, 2025 at 8:38 AM