Which I disagree in this particular case, where both of them were aware that this can happen. Anyone who had eyes would understand that there should be preparation for this type of situation but they knew well that if thing would go south i will be the only one suffering from this and did nothing.

Truth to be told i knew half of my life it might end up like this. He had multiple strokes and heart attacks so he was a walking, functioning miracle at this point. It is what it is... It's just hard cuz i cannot even get of new job i started literally today...