Linda
@fryingpanned.bsky.social
A burnt out woman former in Swedish communal childcare.. 2 kids and spouse on asd spectrum. On this journey of re selfdiscovery.
Playing Animal Crossing and The Sims all nights. Love most things nerd.
Playing Animal Crossing and The Sims all nights. Love most things nerd.
I saw something on Instagram a long while back. There was this dude talking about how there are multiple ways/practices? to "do maths". Not just the One I tried to learn in school. Is this true? And if so, why this particular standard, that I for one have problems with.
November 23, 2024 at 9:19 PM
I saw something on Instagram a long while back. There was this dude talking about how there are multiple ways/practices? to "do maths". Not just the One I tried to learn in school. Is this true? And if so, why this particular standard, that I for one have problems with.
Hello Claire! That so awesome!! You teach people not to fear maths❤️ every time I had to do calculation in school my mind froze and I got panicky. Math and PE drove me from school most days. Ugh! Go you, this is important work ❤️
November 23, 2024 at 9:12 PM
Hello Claire! That so awesome!! You teach people not to fear maths❤️ every time I had to do calculation in school my mind froze and I got panicky. Math and PE drove me from school most days. Ugh! Go you, this is important work ❤️
It sounds so trivial... It's not. It makes or breaks my day.
November 23, 2024 at 2:22 PM
It sounds so trivial... It's not. It makes or breaks my day.
New Word! That's really interesting, I do this a lot when stressed or overwhelmed. I'm highly dependent on wearing the "right clothing" and an get stuck if I don't get it right. This is the one thing that makes me late for things. Otherwise I'm on the dot.
November 23, 2024 at 2:18 PM
New Word! That's really interesting, I do this a lot when stressed or overwhelmed. I'm highly dependent on wearing the "right clothing" and an get stuck if I don't get it right. This is the one thing that makes me late for things. Otherwise I'm on the dot.
No shame ❤️ feeling lucky to have that and trying to pay that forward with my own kids.
November 23, 2024 at 12:32 PM
No shame ❤️ feeling lucky to have that and trying to pay that forward with my own kids.
Yeah thats what my mom said to. (44 and still getting NT translations from my mom) I need to process and let things settle I know, but my brain is on fire with this!
November 23, 2024 at 11:18 AM
Yeah thats what my mom said to. (44 and still getting NT translations from my mom) I need to process and let things settle I know, but my brain is on fire with this!
Hey thank you Magnus for taking your time and energy to write this!
November 23, 2024 at 9:31 AM
Hey thank you Magnus for taking your time and energy to write this!
I have family w kids both under 10 so I kind of feel that they are Enough, especially at this time. I like hanging out with them, they are my small ASD tribe ❤️ Don't get me wrong, but even that is challenging, most days I need to get into the woods for a few hours to decompress
November 23, 2024 at 9:29 AM
I have family w kids both under 10 so I kind of feel that they are Enough, especially at this time. I like hanging out with them, they are my small ASD tribe ❤️ Don't get me wrong, but even that is challenging, most days I need to get into the woods for a few hours to decompress
Agree, the thing I must do is the thing I can't do. Bc I don't know. Don't handle demands in a good way.
November 23, 2024 at 9:20 AM
Agree, the thing I must do is the thing I can't do. Bc I don't know. Don't handle demands in a good way.
Yes, this is not my first but def Worst. I've been on this crash course since puberty. Being sober now makes it ten times worse, cause now all I can do is crapping mindfulness and that is slow going also impossible with my mind zapping around without focus. Any good strategies to share?
November 23, 2024 at 9:17 AM
Yes, this is not my first but def Worst. I've been on this crash course since puberty. Being sober now makes it ten times worse, cause now all I can do is crapping mindfulness and that is slow going also impossible with my mind zapping around without focus. Any good strategies to share?
Yes! Today is a really tough day, trying to connect with my (only) longterm friend and them saying No, you can't have autism and this is why... I just feel really really scared of not being taken seriously. I can see how people wouldn't see this in me... Masking expert. But that broke my heart..
November 22, 2024 at 2:40 PM
Yes! Today is a really tough day, trying to connect with my (only) longterm friend and them saying No, you can't have autism and this is why... I just feel really really scared of not being taken seriously. I can see how people wouldn't see this in me... Masking expert. But that broke my heart..
After burnout all of my strategies and card index was blown away. Can't stand stimuli outside of home at all anymore. 1 year into it.
November 22, 2024 at 12:00 PM
After burnout all of my strategies and card index was blown away. Can't stand stimuli outside of home at all anymore. 1 year into it.
This is what has happened to me. In the beginning I thought I was having a NT burnout. No I'm not. I've been hyperfocusing for weeks now, and finally embracing my ASD has made such a difference. Reclaiming stimming. Unmasking. (have family on spectrum so in safe environment).
November 22, 2024 at 11:58 AM
This is what has happened to me. In the beginning I thought I was having a NT burnout. No I'm not. I've been hyperfocusing for weeks now, and finally embracing my ASD has made such a difference. Reclaiming stimming. Unmasking. (have family on spectrum so in safe environment).
November 22, 2024 at 9:28 AM
I could not moderate myself, I had no recall of how to interact appropriately! Talk to me people with knowledge about these topics please ❤️ I'm feeling lost, craving more info. Hyper focused on autistic women. Currently reading all of Tony Attwood. #ASD
November 22, 2024 at 9:13 AM
I could not moderate myself, I had no recall of how to interact appropriately! Talk to me people with knowledge about these topics please ❤️ I'm feeling lost, craving more info. Hyper focused on autistic women. Currently reading all of Tony Attwood. #ASD
Ok..so other countries, do they trademark themselves... Or is it just Sweden?
November 17, 2024 at 3:06 PM
Ok..so other countries, do they trademark themselves... Or is it just Sweden?
I had NO idea! And Im swedish. Other places you say?
November 17, 2024 at 10:14 AM
I had NO idea! And Im swedish. Other places you say?