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Maria Minnis
@feminnis.bsky.social
Unapologetically Black. Author of Tarot for the Hard Work antiracism workbook. Host of Kinky Tarot pod. Sex coach in training. Be nice to me
I am very grateful and lucky to be able to have the vitamin IV lady come to our house. Bougie but a dream
November 6, 2025 at 3:16 AM
I love this video screenshot of me and Ziggy. Even if my smedium braids look like a different hairstyle 😂

I will love you forever, sweet boy.
November 6, 2025 at 1:09 AM
A 65 year old man and I talked in the coffee shop for over an hour, talking about his experiences around sex and intimacy. It was such a thrilling conversation!

(I really appreciate when I leave LA and remember that people out there will strike up a respectful conversation with a total stranger)
November 5, 2025 at 6:58 PM
Looking forward to visiting NYC after the massive exodus those people promised if the election went this way ✈️
November 5, 2025 at 6:37 PM
Traveling frequently, but still surprised (frustrated) when I get a “p*rñ is banned here” message in some states

Decreasing mental health resources + denying sexual gratification for lonely people=intentional decisions to fuel unrest & violence

& we all know the common profile of a mass shooter 🙃
November 4, 2025 at 1:22 PM
<- Younger second wife energy. An upgrade who reminds you of how playful life can be 🍭

(I am totally disinterested in dealing with what any straight man had to learn in a first marriage lol)
November 4, 2025 at 12:25 PM
Is “small town Facebook” a particular realm of hell?
November 4, 2025 at 11:36 AM
Not sure if I’m the grinch for loving early darkness
November 4, 2025 at 12:20 AM
Would it kill Apple to create watch faces with complications that weren’t ugly?
November 2, 2025 at 1:40 AM
For me, paying a therapist is worth it to have an answer to “Omg I need to say something about this highly specific awkward situation, but speaking up will make it more awkward, but I really need to let it out”
November 1, 2025 at 4:19 PM
Y’all. I lost my phone in the Caribbean Sea midway through my Costa Rican travels & only got a new one today—pure medicine to be out of the country with no contact with American media (I use my computer for working primarily & I was 2-factor verif. blocked from most of my accounts 🙃). Mind blown!!!!
November 1, 2025 at 4:30 AM
I really love it when people describe me as playful.
October 24, 2025 at 5:35 PM
Celebrating your wins can seem like pompous bragging to highly insecure people.
October 24, 2025 at 2:20 PM
pro sex with friends
October 22, 2025 at 6:30 PM
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#LosAngeles friends! Join us 11/15 at 4pm at Philosophical Research Society for an intimate conversation about The Devil w/ @the-red-read.bsky.social. @beescolnick.bsky.social @feminnis.bsky.social @hannaheve.com

Every ticket comes with a copy of our Devil issue! www.eventbrite.com/e/dealing-wi...
October 21, 2025 at 5:25 PM
I wish I hadn’t seen that video. I hate bathroom humor. Anyway, detaching to be fully present in gorgeous Costa Rica 🥭
October 19, 2025 at 5:26 PM
Autistic desire for efficiency:

I never passive aggressively seek compliments.

I will just ask you to your face, “Can I have a compliment? I could really use one right now.”

And it works! Fast!
October 18, 2025 at 12:32 PM
I’ve measured my daily water intake for years and I *just now* realized there are water bottles that can automatically add your intake to an app, so you never forget to add a drink. I know this is a small thing but it’s a big thing to me 👼🏾
October 18, 2025 at 1:03 AM
Listening to the top 50 playlist in a different country is a tradition
October 17, 2025 at 5:36 PM
Speaking of traveling, the scariest airport I’ve been to—by far—is the Salt Lake City airport. The people 🙃
October 17, 2025 at 4:23 PM
One thing I’m going to do one a plane to sleep. I once slept an entire 12 hours on the way to the Middle East… ridiculous lol
October 17, 2025 at 4:20 PM
It’s sick, how much I NEED those red notification badges on my phone to go away
October 17, 2025 at 4:19 PM
Even if I don’t know you, I’ll like your post announcing good news because I can be happy for a stranger
October 16, 2025 at 4:31 PM
I booped a cat today for the first time since Ziggy passed. Grief feels so weird.
October 15, 2025 at 10:53 PM
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To become dependent on ChapGPT is to evacuate yourself from your own life.

YIKES, no thanks. I’m gonna be alive inside every damn thing I do, even and especially the ish I don’t wanna do.
October 15, 2025 at 8:35 PM