V
@feelinggrimm.bsky.social
Part time goth💀, full time cat mom🐈
Scorpio🦂♏
Pokénerd/FFXIV🎮
MCRmy⚰🖤
Keeping RVA weird 🥀⚰🖤
Scorpio🦂♏
Pokénerd/FFXIV🎮
MCRmy⚰🖤
Keeping RVA weird 🥀⚰🖤
Have had pretty severe muscle spasms down my neck and spine since 7am yesterday and I took it easy yesterday but have to work today, only my neck has released so far but I'm so grumpy my husband is off work playing video games and I have to sit at my desk just passively hurting and do a job 😩🫠🙃
January 26, 2026 at 4:18 PM
Have had pretty severe muscle spasms down my neck and spine since 7am yesterday and I took it easy yesterday but have to work today, only my neck has released so far but I'm so grumpy my husband is off work playing video games and I have to sit at my desk just passively hurting and do a job 😩🫠🙃
Today is my 1 year wedding anniversary and our original plans got cancelled by a winter snow/ice storm but we still took photos together yesterday in our wedding attire and are having a cozy snow day with a nice dinner at home! 🥰💗🥂
January 25, 2026 at 10:03 PM
Today is my 1 year wedding anniversary and our original plans got cancelled by a winter snow/ice storm but we still took photos together yesterday in our wedding attire and are having a cozy snow day with a nice dinner at home! 🥰💗🥂
I knew they were lying with these 5-10 inches of snow estimates smh
January 25, 2026 at 2:44 PM
I knew they were lying with these 5-10 inches of snow estimates smh
The way my husband got better photos of me in my wedding dress on my cell phone this afternoon than my ACTUAL WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER DID
January 24, 2026 at 8:36 PM
The way my husband got better photos of me in my wedding dress on my cell phone this afternoon than my ACTUAL WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER DID
The irony that my hair now is the length I actually wanted for my wedding (couldn't afford to buy and dye extensions with all the $$$$ we spent on the actual wedding) but I'm like CUT IT OFF THIS IS TOO MUCH HAIR
January 24, 2026 at 6:00 PM
The irony that my hair now is the length I actually wanted for my wedding (couldn't afford to buy and dye extensions with all the $$$$ we spent on the actual wedding) but I'm like CUT IT OFF THIS IS TOO MUCH HAIR
Walked into KPop night to them playing Naega Jeil Jal Naga followed by Fantastic Baby, yes the 2010s are really back 🙌
January 24, 2026 at 4:17 AM
Walked into KPop night to them playing Naega Jeil Jal Naga followed by Fantastic Baby, yes the 2010s are really back 🙌
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My therapist called me an extrovert this week because I'm "always making social plans and doing things" but she doesn't see me sweating with anxiety in the club or talking myself out of a panic attack on the way to doing things lol
January 23, 2026 at 3:53 PM
My therapist called me an extrovert this week because I'm "always making social plans and doing things" but she doesn't see me sweating with anxiety in the club or talking myself out of a panic attack on the way to doing things lol
It took me 2 hours to put dye in my hair and I was so tired by the time I washed it out that I just realized right now laying in bed that I didn't even put in conditioner.
January 23, 2026 at 3:48 AM
It took me 2 hours to put dye in my hair and I was so tired by the time I washed it out that I just realized right now laying in bed that I didn't even put in conditioner.
Chat, is it worth $430 for 6 extra inches of legroom on a 14 hour flight? My therapist got me scared about these regular slum economy seats and my husband and I are 6 feet tall.
January 22, 2026 at 2:12 PM
Chat, is it worth $430 for 6 extra inches of legroom on a 14 hour flight? My therapist got me scared about these regular slum economy seats and my husband and I are 6 feet tall.
I'm so good at relaxing that after a heavy therapy session I decided I wanted to just chill out and play Pokémon but instead I spent 2 hours doing further research on our flights and planes for our trip next month!
January 22, 2026 at 12:57 AM
I'm so good at relaxing that after a heavy therapy session I decided I wanted to just chill out and play Pokémon but instead I spent 2 hours doing further research on our flights and planes for our trip next month!
Resisting the urge to not shut the fuck up when someone brings something to me AGAIN about the girl who blocked me and her friends. Not my circus, not my monkeys.
January 21, 2026 at 1:40 PM
Resisting the urge to not shut the fuck up when someone brings something to me AGAIN about the girl who blocked me and her friends. Not my circus, not my monkeys.
I wanted snow on my wedding day- just enough to look pretty in some photos- but we didn't have any & now a year later on my anniversary weekend we are predicted a damn blizzard. I already wanted to take photos with my wedding arch in our wedding attire for our 1 year, now it might be in actual snow!
January 20, 2026 at 8:54 PM
I wanted snow on my wedding day- just enough to look pretty in some photos- but we didn't have any & now a year later on my anniversary weekend we are predicted a damn blizzard. I already wanted to take photos with my wedding arch in our wedding attire for our 1 year, now it might be in actual snow!
My 1 year wedding anniversary is Sunday and we made reservations at a restaurant I've really been wanting to try. This is this weekend's forecast. I don't think we will be making it to those reservations.
January 20, 2026 at 1:35 PM
My 1 year wedding anniversary is Sunday and we made reservations at a restaurant I've really been wanting to try. This is this weekend's forecast. I don't think we will be making it to those reservations.
My husband cleaned our our pantry & our bathroom closets, two tasks that badly needed to be done but we had been putting off for months and months. Trying to get our house in its best state before we leave for our trip so when we come back it'll be nice and clean to combat the post-Japan depression.
January 19, 2026 at 8:07 PM
My husband cleaned our our pantry & our bathroom closets, two tasks that badly needed to be done but we had been putting off for months and months. Trying to get our house in its best state before we leave for our trip so when we come back it'll be nice and clean to combat the post-Japan depression.
Took a bit longer than I wanted but I finally got all of our Christmas decor put up, now to throw Valentine's stuff out so I can enjoy it before we're gone most of February 💕💗💌
January 19, 2026 at 6:30 PM
Took a bit longer than I wanted but I finally got all of our Christmas decor put up, now to throw Valentine's stuff out so I can enjoy it before we're gone most of February 💕💗💌
My mom is the one who showed me drag, she would watch classic drag queen movies with us since a very young age (I think I saw To Wong Foo at like 8) and today I got to go to a drag show with her b.c her bestie (aka my second mom) wanted to go to drag brunch for her 70th bday! Full circle moment. 💞
January 18, 2026 at 12:09 AM
My mom is the one who showed me drag, she would watch classic drag queen movies with us since a very young age (I think I saw To Wong Foo at like 8) and today I got to go to a drag show with her b.c her bestie (aka my second mom) wanted to go to drag brunch for her 70th bday! Full circle moment. 💞
A drag queen stopped in the middle of her performance and told me I was beautiful today so you know I might be okay
a woman sitting at a table with the words girl who is going to be okay below her
ALT: a woman sitting at a table with the words girl who is going to be okay below her
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January 17, 2026 at 8:30 PM
A drag queen stopped in the middle of her performance and told me I was beautiful today so you know I might be okay
My work rolled out a new phone system and one of my team members is refusing to use it because it auto-records all calls. Maybe it's because I've seen her falsifying calls for the 3 years I've been in this dept but kept my mouth shut because I'm not causing problems on our already tiny team. 👀👀👀
January 15, 2026 at 8:51 PM
My work rolled out a new phone system and one of my team members is refusing to use it because it auto-records all calls. Maybe it's because I've seen her falsifying calls for the 3 years I've been in this dept but kept my mouth shut because I'm not causing problems on our already tiny team. 👀👀👀
As with any major event or trip, I'm doing a LOT of research about Tokyo & Tokyo Disney & just info dumping constantly to my husband who is like "ok yeah thats cool" like you don't UNDERSTAND it's a big deal that we can enter/exit from Fantasy Springs after 10am b.c of staying at the Toy Story Hotel
January 15, 2026 at 5:12 PM
As with any major event or trip, I'm doing a LOT of research about Tokyo & Tokyo Disney & just info dumping constantly to my husband who is like "ok yeah thats cool" like you don't UNDERSTAND it's a big deal that we can enter/exit from Fantasy Springs after 10am b.c of staying at the Toy Story Hotel
Lord help me in Japan because I'm crying just looking at videos of the boat ride at Sanrio Puroland, I'm gonna be bawling all over Tokyo.
January 15, 2026 at 3:36 AM
Lord help me in Japan because I'm crying just looking at videos of the boat ride at Sanrio Puroland, I'm gonna be bawling all over Tokyo.
The face my cat makes when she stretches her little paws like oh you are the weariest soldier in these lands you poor fluffy beast
January 14, 2026 at 11:50 PM
The face my cat makes when she stretches her little paws like oh you are the weariest soldier in these lands you poor fluffy beast
Getting ready for another Indie Sleaze era dance party & a friend texted me he looked in his old photo archive for outfit inspo but unfortunately during my own indie sleaze era I was wearing shit like this 😅 90% of my clothes were thrifted but I was still "fat" for the era so trendy stuff didn't fit
January 14, 2026 at 2:24 PM
Getting ready for another Indie Sleaze era dance party & a friend texted me he looked in his old photo archive for outfit inspo but unfortunately during my own indie sleaze era I was wearing shit like this 😅 90% of my clothes were thrifted but I was still "fat" for the era so trendy stuff didn't fit
Tried to install the new computer my work sent me tonight. I've been putting it off because both my boss and coworker said it's a total pain in the ass and nothing went right with theirs and I can't even log in at all lmao
January 14, 2026 at 3:21 AM
Tried to install the new computer my work sent me tonight. I've been putting it off because both my boss and coworker said it's a total pain in the ass and nothing went right with theirs and I can't even log in at all lmao
Coming up on my 1 year wedding anniversary this month and I know hindsight is 20/20 but it probably should've been a red flag back then that one of my bridesmaids sat outside all night smoking with her friends instead of participating in my wedding reception at all.
January 13, 2026 at 6:05 PM
Coming up on my 1 year wedding anniversary this month and I know hindsight is 20/20 but it probably should've been a red flag back then that one of my bridesmaids sat outside all night smoking with her friends instead of participating in my wedding reception at all.