Dr. Ed Tori
@edtori.bsky.social
🧠 Influence & Communication Coach
🗣 Keynote Speaker
⚡️ Physician, Father of 6 and…
🤍 Will make you laugh!
🗣 Keynote Speaker
⚡️ Physician, Father of 6 and…
🤍 Will make you laugh!
The device you're using to read this is less than 10% of your visual field right now.
Who or what is in the other 90% that might be better deserving of your attention?
I'm not judging. I'm reminding myself.
Who or what is in the other 90% that might be better deserving of your attention?
I'm not judging. I'm reminding myself.
January 19, 2026 at 2:27 PM
The device you're using to read this is less than 10% of your visual field right now.
Who or what is in the other 90% that might be better deserving of your attention?
I'm not judging. I'm reminding myself.
Who or what is in the other 90% that might be better deserving of your attention?
I'm not judging. I'm reminding myself.
I know you miss it… it's the weekend and you're missing corporate-speak.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
January 17, 2026 at 4:01 PM
I know you miss it… it's the weekend and you're missing corporate-speak.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
Action is the shortest path to clarity.
January 16, 2026 at 2:40 PM
Action is the shortest path to clarity.
When something is different or unexpected, we snap to attention.
When a small act of kindness is done to/for us, we get the warm and fuzzies and feel a little better about the world.
The recipe, then, is to do an unexpected act of kindness.
(Or do it in an unexpected way)
When a small act of kindness is done to/for us, we get the warm and fuzzies and feel a little better about the world.
The recipe, then, is to do an unexpected act of kindness.
(Or do it in an unexpected way)
January 15, 2026 at 2:17 PM
When something is different or unexpected, we snap to attention.
When a small act of kindness is done to/for us, we get the warm and fuzzies and feel a little better about the world.
The recipe, then, is to do an unexpected act of kindness.
(Or do it in an unexpected way)
When a small act of kindness is done to/for us, we get the warm and fuzzies and feel a little better about the world.
The recipe, then, is to do an unexpected act of kindness.
(Or do it in an unexpected way)
You've heard this quote before. But what will you do differently this time:
"I have learned that people will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you made them feel." - Maya Angelou
"I have learned that people will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you made them feel." - Maya Angelou
January 14, 2026 at 2:13 PM
You've heard this quote before. But what will you do differently this time:
"I have learned that people will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you made them feel." - Maya Angelou
"I have learned that people will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you made them feel." - Maya Angelou
Your memory is state-dependent.
When you're upset, you can think of all of their violations and faults.
When you're grateful, you can remember all of those wonderful moments together.
Change your state and you'll literally change which memories are available.
When you're upset, you can think of all of their violations and faults.
When you're grateful, you can remember all of those wonderful moments together.
Change your state and you'll literally change which memories are available.
January 13, 2026 at 2:45 PM
Your memory is state-dependent.
When you're upset, you can think of all of their violations and faults.
When you're grateful, you can remember all of those wonderful moments together.
Change your state and you'll literally change which memories are available.
When you're upset, you can think of all of their violations and faults.
When you're grateful, you can remember all of those wonderful moments together.
Change your state and you'll literally change which memories are available.
"Words are, in my not-so-humble opinion, our most inexhaustible source of magic, capable of both inflicting injury and remedying it" - Albus Dumbledore
January 12, 2026 at 2:48 PM
"Words are, in my not-so-humble opinion, our most inexhaustible source of magic, capable of both inflicting injury and remedying it" - Albus Dumbledore
Coca-Cola, Anheuser-Busch, McDonald's, Fan Duel, Philip Morris, etc.
They devote billions of dollars to influence your loved ones to do the very things that you're trying to undo.
But, you have a secret weapon that they don't - the one-on-one connection.
Don't underestimate it.
They devote billions of dollars to influence your loved ones to do the very things that you're trying to undo.
But, you have a secret weapon that they don't - the one-on-one connection.
Don't underestimate it.
January 10, 2026 at 4:26 PM
Coca-Cola, Anheuser-Busch, McDonald's, Fan Duel, Philip Morris, etc.
They devote billions of dollars to influence your loved ones to do the very things that you're trying to undo.
But, you have a secret weapon that they don't - the one-on-one connection.
Don't underestimate it.
They devote billions of dollars to influence your loved ones to do the very things that you're trying to undo.
But, you have a secret weapon that they don't - the one-on-one connection.
Don't underestimate it.
Humans are far more nuanced than the posts in your feed imply.
Give the humans in your life some grace.
Give them the benefit of the doubt.
Do the same for you, too.
Give the humans in your life some grace.
Give them the benefit of the doubt.
Do the same for you, too.
January 9, 2026 at 3:05 PM
Humans are far more nuanced than the posts in your feed imply.
Give the humans in your life some grace.
Give them the benefit of the doubt.
Do the same for you, too.
Give the humans in your life some grace.
Give them the benefit of the doubt.
Do the same for you, too.
Small shifts can create avalanches when applied at the right moments.
But can those small shifts happen in a single conversation?
Yep. And I'm going to give you the map (soon):
https://www.HypnoticGiftsBook.com
But can those small shifts happen in a single conversation?
Yep. And I'm going to give you the map (soon):
https://www.HypnoticGiftsBook.com
January 8, 2026 at 9:11 PM
Small shifts can create avalanches when applied at the right moments.
But can those small shifts happen in a single conversation?
Yep. And I'm going to give you the map (soon):
https://www.HypnoticGiftsBook.com
But can those small shifts happen in a single conversation?
Yep. And I'm going to give you the map (soon):
https://www.HypnoticGiftsBook.com
Hearing and listening are not the same thing.
One has intent.
One has intent.
January 8, 2026 at 2:52 PM
Hearing and listening are not the same thing.
One has intent.
One has intent.
In a time of uncertainty, we tend to do what the group does (social proof - Cialdini)
So… be VERY careful about your group.
So… be VERY careful about your group.
January 7, 2026 at 2:58 PM
In a time of uncertainty, we tend to do what the group does (social proof - Cialdini)
So… be VERY careful about your group.
So… be VERY careful about your group.
Energy follows attention.
Attention follows influence.
You have a choice. You can be deliberate about it, or
You can be subjected to it.
If you scroll, you made a choice.
If you close this app and reach out to someone (who might really need it btw), that's a far better choice.
Attention follows influence.
You have a choice. You can be deliberate about it, or
You can be subjected to it.
If you scroll, you made a choice.
If you close this app and reach out to someone (who might really need it btw), that's a far better choice.
January 6, 2026 at 2:58 PM
Energy follows attention.
Attention follows influence.
You have a choice. You can be deliberate about it, or
You can be subjected to it.
If you scroll, you made a choice.
If you close this app and reach out to someone (who might really need it btw), that's a far better choice.
Attention follows influence.
You have a choice. You can be deliberate about it, or
You can be subjected to it.
If you scroll, you made a choice.
If you close this app and reach out to someone (who might really need it btw), that's a far better choice.
You're either influencing yourself
or someone else is.
You're either influencing those you care about
or someone else is.
or someone else is.
You're either influencing those you care about
or someone else is.
January 5, 2026 at 2:55 PM
You're either influencing yourself
or someone else is.
You're either influencing those you care about
or someone else is.
or someone else is.
You're either influencing those you care about
or someone else is.
One of the single, highest-yield things you can work on this coming new year is your own self-talk.
About you. About others. And about events that occur in your life.
That little voice inside of your head is a habit.
Treat it that way.
About you. About others. And about events that occur in your life.
That little voice inside of your head is a habit.
Treat it that way.
December 30, 2025 at 3:05 PM
One of the single, highest-yield things you can work on this coming new year is your own self-talk.
About you. About others. And about events that occur in your life.
That little voice inside of your head is a habit.
Treat it that way.
About you. About others. And about events that occur in your life.
That little voice inside of your head is a habit.
Treat it that way.
Willpower is overrated.
Systems quietly win.
Systems quietly win.
December 22, 2025 at 4:34 PM
Willpower is overrated.
Systems quietly win.
Systems quietly win.
Can forensics improve your relationships? Yep.
This super short podcast episode is worth a revisit: https://www.drtori.com/podcasts/influence-every-day/episodes/2148872521
This super short podcast episode is worth a revisit: https://www.drtori.com/podcasts/influence-every-day/episodes/2148872521
December 21, 2025 at 4:01 PM
Can forensics improve your relationships? Yep.
This super short podcast episode is worth a revisit: https://www.drtori.com/podcasts/influence-every-day/episodes/2148872521
This super short podcast episode is worth a revisit: https://www.drtori.com/podcasts/influence-every-day/episodes/2148872521
I know you miss it… it's the weekend and you're missing corporate-speak.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
December 20, 2025 at 4:01 PM
I know you miss it… it's the weekend and you're missing corporate-speak.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
Today is my birthday.
If I have ever served you - in my speaking, teaching, coaching or even just general kindness, I’d love to hear about it.
👉 Tell me here: https://www.DrTori.com/helpedme
If I have ever served you - in my speaking, teaching, coaching or even just general kindness, I’d love to hear about it.
👉 Tell me here: https://www.DrTori.com/helpedme
December 19, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Today is my birthday.
If I have ever served you - in my speaking, teaching, coaching or even just general kindness, I’d love to hear about it.
👉 Tell me here: https://www.DrTori.com/helpedme
If I have ever served you - in my speaking, teaching, coaching or even just general kindness, I’d love to hear about it.
👉 Tell me here: https://www.DrTori.com/helpedme
Many people think difficult conversations fail due to the words we say.
They usually fail because of:
• bad timing
• emotional unreadiness
• weak rapport
• poor framing
The conversation starts before the first sentence is uttered.
They usually fail because of:
• bad timing
• emotional unreadiness
• weak rapport
• poor framing
The conversation starts before the first sentence is uttered.
December 18, 2025 at 8:00 PM
Many people think difficult conversations fail due to the words we say.
They usually fail because of:
• bad timing
• emotional unreadiness
• weak rapport
• poor framing
The conversation starts before the first sentence is uttered.
They usually fail because of:
• bad timing
• emotional unreadiness
• weak rapport
• poor framing
The conversation starts before the first sentence is uttered.
How to make someone's day in < 30 seconds: https://www.drtori.com/you-are-appreciated
December 14, 2025 at 2:07 PM
How to make someone's day in < 30 seconds: https://www.drtori.com/you-are-appreciated
There's someone in your life who would light up if you reached out to them right now. So, duh! Do it!
Brighten their day. Stop scrolling for a second. Let them know you're thinking of them.
Brighten their day. Stop scrolling for a second. Let them know you're thinking of them.
December 5, 2025 at 11:15 PM
There's someone in your life who would light up if you reached out to them right now. So, duh! Do it!
Brighten their day. Stop scrolling for a second. Let them know you're thinking of them.
Brighten their day. Stop scrolling for a second. Let them know you're thinking of them.
I know you miss it… it's the weekend and you're missing corporate-speak.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
November 8, 2025 at 3:00 PM
I know you miss it… it's the weekend and you're missing corporate-speak.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
Fear not: https://JargonStinks.com - there's a corporate BS generator to make your own.
You can thank me later.
How to make someone's day in < 30 seconds: https://www.drtori.com/you-are-appreciated
November 6, 2025 at 2:05 PM
How to make someone's day in < 30 seconds: https://www.drtori.com/you-are-appreciated
Wanna be more productive and energized this week?
1 - List all the things you have to do.
2 - Put them into two columns - the ones you enjoy and the ones you don't.
3 - Spend time on the ones you enjoy.
4 - Spend money on the ones you don't.
1 - List all the things you have to do.
2 - Put them into two columns - the ones you enjoy and the ones you don't.
3 - Spend time on the ones you enjoy.
4 - Spend money on the ones you don't.
November 3, 2025 at 4:19 PM
Wanna be more productive and energized this week?
1 - List all the things you have to do.
2 - Put them into two columns - the ones you enjoy and the ones you don't.
3 - Spend time on the ones you enjoy.
4 - Spend money on the ones you don't.
1 - List all the things you have to do.
2 - Put them into two columns - the ones you enjoy and the ones you don't.
3 - Spend time on the ones you enjoy.
4 - Spend money on the ones you don't.