I know but Scarlett seems so sweet and cute...

That sucks! Unfortunately husband is vehemently against having more than 2 dogs. (Had 4 at 1 point and 2 didn't get along, and he got bit pretty badly...)

Besides everything else, MIRRORS. Not possessive. Where do you find these guys?!

To be fair, "in shape, nice teeth and drinks moderately" are plusses, though not major ones.(but, don't date an alcoholic you'll be sorry.) Everything else is a big red flag.

Also "submissive" is only ok if it's a fetish game. And those couples generally have a normal equal relationship outside of sex.

So he's too chickenshot to date an experienced woman. Got it.

Oh FFS living together is how you find out if you're truly compatible.

I've heard the exact opposite, that he's great to work with and very nice.

But..but...😁

Yup! Have mentioned this before, but met a top SW once. She charges $3k an hour. Doesn't need his Applebee's money...

It sucks, because getting fit has enormous health and emotional advantages. May I suggest an uncool gym without a steroid bro vibe? I go to Planet Fitness and love it. The same equipment as everybody else has, cheap, and everybody leaves you alone.