(It was also thought provoking in terms of my own shortcomings as a writer).

Also shout out to @lindaholmes.bsky.social in that episode as well. The comparison between sex scenes and fight scenes (or battle scenes) was great.

Not just *that* these characters have sex, but how they interact during sex. Whether it's how that changes over the course of a relationship, and/or how it plays out with different partners.

I'm really tired in particular of having to explain to legislators and their staff members why they should vote no, instead of just asking to vote no. (This is not a problem I have with Wyden and Merkley, this is a problem I've had with my OR Rep.)

We shouldn't have to, over and over again, educate wave after wave of ostensible allies who otherwise act in a sex positive manner that demonitization of "fringe" 18+ material hurts often ends up hurting LGBT+ people and sex workers.

Again, this isn't just a weeb thing - I should have had to, of all people, metaphorically dope slap Cory Doctorow with all 4 volumes of Designers and Dragons over the OGL fiasco.