(I promise this is the last day I'm taking off before I go back to work mode)

What about both

But the male milf is also buff

(If I can't pick both I'll choose the cat boy)

It's a gift for a friend, so...

No, the finished piece will not be shown to the public

I think the best example of a femme boy for me is JoCat; he openly embraces more femme style clothes but still presents themselves as male, and there's no ambiguity with his identity

Whereas femboys do it both in presentation and demeanor, and intentionally leans toward it

I am so pissed when people immediately assume one for the other

What would you think would be good concrete individual examples for each though?

Wait; a purple zombie (closest approximation to it) with a chainsword?

Bonus zoom in on the butterfly