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Chaoticayana
@chaoticayana.bsky.social
42yo Trans girl living in Ireland, total geek. Poly. Bad at writing bios. She/Her
I know the feeling. Im sorry you had that experience
November 28, 2025 at 7:40 AM
Hmm, sadly i got the same ‘advice’ from my dad, who was a PoS for many other reasons too but let me see what i can remember

Adams apple
Crotch bulge
Deep voice
Hairy hands

Not so fun fact, Im pansexual and was dating a guy when he chose to share this ‘wisdom’
November 28, 2025 at 7:32 AM
Oh, wait its not ‘make sure shes really a girl’ is it?
November 28, 2025 at 7:28 AM
Dont take her first refusal?

Or if its something more innocent ‘heres how to make it look like youre listening’
November 28, 2025 at 7:21 AM
Isn't it a weird feeling when one the one hand, sexist males, but on the other hand they fact that they're being sexist towards you is gender affirming?

Always takes me a second to remember I'm supposed to be mad, lol
November 28, 2025 at 7:00 AM
As someone he targetted personally in the twitter days, I hope he spends everyone of his miserable days alone, desperate for the worldwide attention he's never going to get, but seems to feel entitlted too for being a transphobic creep.
November 28, 2025 at 2:35 AM
Yes please
November 27, 2025 at 9:20 PM
same girl
November 27, 2025 at 6:55 PM
It will never cease to amaze me how people think names and pronouns are anything other than 'collection of sounds used to get your attention or refer to you in the third person'

Getting annoyed that someone changes the sound is so weird
November 27, 2025 at 5:17 AM
There was always going to be some sort of reaction to the 'too pro trans' nonsense that was doing the rounds. That it made the BBC even more transphobic is hardly shocking.

People think the BBC is left, its not, its literally state run fox news in a british accent
November 27, 2025 at 4:09 AM
awwwww so cute!
November 27, 2025 at 3:36 AM
They'll remember....next time your toes are sticking out of the bed
November 26, 2025 at 10:42 PM
I think this is an unfortunate problem caused by transphobia.

The obvious solution here wouldve been perhaps to ask 'what are your pronouns' or similar.

The problem is, there are so many 'anti-woke' idiots out there now that the poor sod might worry about their job if the ask the wrong person
November 26, 2025 at 8:12 PM
Why do articles like this constantly feel the need to quote the LGB Alliance like its the voice of anyone except the rich cis white dudes that run it by pretending to be lesbians?
November 26, 2025 at 8:10 PM
Not sure about horrifying, but I boymoded on a flight to the US (I'm in ireland) back in march and couldn't stop crying on the flight, to the point a stewardess asked if I was ok.

It is...not a comfortable experience having to disguise myself
November 26, 2025 at 8:04 PM
Its a good opportunity to get out of my comfort zone anyway tbh ;) who knows maybe some day an onlyfans
November 26, 2025 at 7:02 PM
You know i was going to get out of my comfort zone and post my butt, but then it occurred i dont have a suitable mirror and have no idea how to take one
November 26, 2025 at 6:54 PM
You know i was going to get out of my comfort zone and post my butt, but then it occurred i dont have a suitable mirror and have no idea how to take one
November 26, 2025 at 6:53 PM
Well that is straight on the list :) Also, you look great other than just the amazing skin, cant miss that out
November 26, 2025 at 5:14 AM