the risks of inbreeding are far overblown regardless, the reality is the largest threat to the child would be existing in a world that discriminated against them so intensely. i personally couldn't take that possibility, which made sterilization an easy decision but i resent the world that forced it

it's the sentiment that hurts the most.. when even people who seem open minded then concede that it's all fantasy and would never happen for people with actual siblings and that that is horrible and wrong. it isn't like we asked to be this way either. you think these feelings were a choice for us?

we exist but why out yourself when even among nearly all vulnerable communities you'd be cast out for it, it's much safer to just create separate identities and try to blend in. Everyone says love is love among consenting adults until blood gets involved and then they lose all sense of reason