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Likely not the quick solution you were looking for, but this will take potentially years of deprogramming you from being in a hamster wheel to where you can enjoy anything but hustling. It's more likely you will just find a new thing to constantly do.
Try a game that gamifies chores. Gacha? WoW?
Try a game that gamifies chores. Gacha? WoW?
December 16, 2025 at 3:54 PM
Likely not the quick solution you were looking for, but this will take potentially years of deprogramming you from being in a hamster wheel to where you can enjoy anything but hustling. It's more likely you will just find a new thing to constantly do.
Try a game that gamifies chores. Gacha? WoW?
Try a game that gamifies chores. Gacha? WoW?
Wait until you find out they count down from 100, not up from 1...
December 12, 2025 at 4:57 PM
Wait until you find out they count down from 100, not up from 1...
here with her roommate, but you cannot move forward with this as it is. Offer to find help finding a good seat online. That's about as much as I'd give. If she's gon b a b, then well. Therapy, baby. Go get some.
December 11, 2025 at 4:52 PM
here with her roommate, but you cannot move forward with this as it is. Offer to find help finding a good seat online. That's about as much as I'd give. If she's gon b a b, then well. Therapy, baby. Go get some.
the necessary accomodations to make this enjoyable for her. See if she responds well to frontrunning and being understanding of her needs and wishes and how another game with a stricter and more cohesive schedule is going to be much better for her and that it is unfortunate that she cannot play
December 11, 2025 at 4:50 PM
the necessary accomodations to make this enjoyable for her. See if she responds well to frontrunning and being understanding of her needs and wishes and how another game with a stricter and more cohesive schedule is going to be much better for her and that it is unfortunate that she cannot play
I won't pretend like there is some word magician out there that can find the perfect tone to make her feel well-respected and not feel kicked out forcefully, but I can't give you a script for that. Bottom line: She will never take it well. Try to focus on you, your game and how you cannot provide
December 11, 2025 at 4:48 PM
I won't pretend like there is some word magician out there that can find the perfect tone to make her feel well-respected and not feel kicked out forcefully, but I can't give you a script for that. Bottom line: She will never take it well. Try to focus on you, your game and how you cannot provide
ic situation and she can come back when you host a different style of game in the future (which you may or may not ever do - but it's the courteous thing to say). I don't think she will make anybody including herself happy with this group before having gone through therapy.
December 11, 2025 at 4:42 PM
ic situation and she can come back when you host a different style of game in the future (which you may or may not ever do - but it's the courteous thing to say). I don't think she will make anybody including herself happy with this group before having gone through therapy.
Because this attitude also will feel like a stab in her back because she thought she was very important, I feel her needs and wishes clash too much with your style and organization, not to mention any players being affected. My suggestion is to part ways because your game is not right for her specif
December 11, 2025 at 4:41 PM
Because this attitude also will feel like a stab in her back because she thought she was very important, I feel her needs and wishes clash too much with your style and organization, not to mention any players being affected. My suggestion is to part ways because your game is not right for her specif
ule and her feeling extreme FOMO when the game continues without her. While you can of course try and find a publicly declared downtime activity performed while waiting for players, this will likely always remain a problem because you as players do in fact not *need* her to be there at all times.
December 11, 2025 at 4:39 PM
ule and her feeling extreme FOMO when the game continues without her. While you can of course try and find a publicly declared downtime activity performed while waiting for players, this will likely always remain a problem because you as players do in fact not *need* her to be there at all times.
1) Nobody wants straight people at their table.
2) On a more serious note: Your player sounds deprived of attention and care and needs love and affection. A game of D&D and its catering towards a hero fantasy promises her to be important and receive such. This strongly clashes with your way to sched
2) On a more serious note: Your player sounds deprived of attention and care and needs love and affection. A game of D&D and its catering towards a hero fantasy promises her to be important and receive such. This strongly clashes with your way to sched
December 11, 2025 at 4:37 PM
1) Nobody wants straight people at their table.
2) On a more serious note: Your player sounds deprived of attention and care and needs love and affection. A game of D&D and its catering towards a hero fantasy promises her to be important and receive such. This strongly clashes with your way to sched
2) On a more serious note: Your player sounds deprived of attention and care and needs love and affection. A game of D&D and its catering towards a hero fantasy promises her to be important and receive such. This strongly clashes with your way to sched
Wife: "AGREED. So many of the best voice actors are Shakespeare trained."
Me:
Me:
a man with a beard is saying hold up in yellow letters
ALT: a man with a beard is saying hold up in yellow letters
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December 11, 2025 at 12:12 PM
Wife: "AGREED. So many of the best voice actors are Shakespeare trained."
Me:
Me:
Been there since 2020, sent you a message again!
December 6, 2025 at 5:14 PM
Been there since 2020, sent you a message again!
Like sb else mentioned, definitely not exclusive to gaming and also definitely not a generally valid statement. It's not "gamers" it's a portion of out-of-touch consumers demanding their standard to be met without knowing the work that goes into it. You're doing the space a disfavor with this.
December 6, 2025 at 1:27 AM
Like sb else mentioned, definitely not exclusive to gaming and also definitely not a generally valid statement. It's not "gamers" it's a portion of out-of-touch consumers demanding their standard to be met without knowing the work that goes into it. You're doing the space a disfavor with this.
The thing that brought me to your channel and is probably one of my all time favorites? Heck yea. Shoot me a message if you need an experienced GM, hardcore roleplayer familiar with setting and previous campaign(s) or even just a VTT assistant. Happy to make it come to life either way.
December 6, 2025 at 1:23 AM
The thing that brought me to your channel and is probably one of my all time favorites? Heck yea. Shoot me a message if you need an experienced GM, hardcore roleplayer familiar with setting and previous campaign(s) or even just a VTT assistant. Happy to make it come to life either way.
I love her, that does indeed need a reminder. 💜💜💜
November 30, 2025 at 8:33 AM
I love her, that does indeed need a reminder. 💜💜💜
I agree, highly narcissistic and horrendous dev. Terrible game, glad it's got such negative reviews. Gonna play some more Battlefield and CoD, bye.
November 29, 2025 at 11:02 AM
I agree, highly narcissistic and horrendous dev. Terrible game, glad it's got such negative reviews. Gonna play some more Battlefield and CoD, bye.
Shitweasels is such a good word, 10/10 post been laughing for 5 minutes.
November 24, 2025 at 4:46 PM
Shitweasels is such a good word, 10/10 post been laughing for 5 minutes.
Are you playing or are you playing against blue? Would make sense, that shit is not healthy.
November 23, 2025 at 7:32 AM
Are you playing or are you playing against blue? Would make sense, that shit is not healthy.
Tells you everything you need to know about how good the nominees are. I do not disagree with them.
November 20, 2025 at 7:03 PM
Tells you everything you need to know about how good the nominees are. I do not disagree with them.
An iconic and long-lasting industry veteran, but to me also an inspiration for LGBTQ+ in the industry. RIP
November 18, 2025 at 11:25 AM
An iconic and long-lasting industry veteran, but to me also an inspiration for LGBTQ+ in the industry. RIP
You don't have to like roguelites to enjoy the game, no worries. I think this is an easy recommendation if the base gameplay is of any interest to you. Demo maybe? Dunno if it has one.
November 15, 2025 at 6:24 PM
You don't have to like roguelites to enjoy the game, no worries. I think this is an easy recommendation if the base gameplay is of any interest to you. Demo maybe? Dunno if it has one.
Listen here, buddy. Girl gamer hours are not the same as manly man man muscle man baby masc hours.
November 12, 2025 at 3:10 PM
Listen here, buddy. Girl gamer hours are not the same as manly man man muscle man baby masc hours.
That’d tank hyper-capitalism. The ROI isn’t fat enough, and it pisses off the cement/steel lobbies and the car-dependent sprawl machine that actually makes the real money.
September 24, 2025 at 3:02 PM
That’d tank hyper-capitalism. The ROI isn’t fat enough, and it pisses off the cement/steel lobbies and the car-dependent sprawl machine that actually makes the real money.