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Bevin 🎀
@bevinsparty.bsky.social
I'll help you regard yourself with love & grace!
Podcast, blog, life changing aerobics!
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ROMANCE YOUR FRIENDS, okay!?

We talk releasing defensiveness, capacity, resourcing ourselves mind / body / spirit, living alone, heated rivalry, long island, aticipatory resentment, compliment serenades, reading every Zodiac sign and so much more. youtu.be/GRMafXd6Vxs
A Valentine's Date with Colin Bedell of Queer Cosmos and Bevin!
YouTube video by Self Care Party
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February 14, 2026 at 10:08 PM
A virtual porch hang talking about how my last situationship became a relationship and all those red flags I ignored, what sourdough is teaching me about failing forward, what my psychic development has revealed to me and more! youtu.be/02h6v1clf0I
VLOG: Releasing Capitalist Striving for the Wheel of the Year
YouTube video by Self Care Party
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February 3, 2026 at 8:39 PM
Jes Baker joins me to talk about how we can use the energy exchange in altar spaces to help our ancestors help us! If you talk to rocks, trees or the ocean you will find kindred spirits here! youtu.be/DWegZ9OIiIA
January 9, 2026 at 10:50 PM
Faith reconstruction after a fundamentalist upbringing is difficult and worth it! Shylah Joie Hill talks about her name change and continuing to grow into her authenticity. youtu.be/oIbDZ9pJU5Y

(Audio 205 Spotify / Apple Podcasts--search "Bevin" for Bevin: A Femme over 40 and her Friends podcast)
December 5, 2025 at 7:22 PM
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As someone who has managed to not cross a picket line even when it was nearly all the grocery stores in the metro area on strike, really don't wanna hear anyone talking about how they just HAVE to cross the Starbucks picket line. This is like the easiest solidarity ever.
November 7, 2025 at 6:38 PM
It feels SO UNCOMFORTABLE for me to keep changing and then explain how I'm changing to the world.

I didn't expect this but now I'm developing my psychic readership skills and so much is unfolding for me! A catch up solo podcast episode! youtu.be/X8xH5xB5gqg
November 7, 2025 at 8:25 PM
My basic pep talk for when my brain wants to do what my body is not available for is "What is for me will not pass me by." New blog post about not having the arrival day I intended at the recent #AlchemyBurn. queerfatfemme.com/2025/10/24/s...
October 24, 2025 at 8:58 PM
Plus Size Sweatpants & Tee Shirts (up to 6X) from Octopied Mind: Review and Discount Code queerfatfemme.com/2025/09/25/p...
September 25, 2025 at 9:26 PM
New blog post! Since we have free will choice, we have to ask to be guided. Spirit needs only the slightest invitation to help out. queerfatfemme.com/2025/09/12/s...
September 12, 2025 at 9:48 PM
New blog post! Five and a half years is a lifetime! Reflecting on my first trip back to Los Angeles since I moved away! queerfatfemme.com/2025/09/05/r...
September 5, 2025 at 8:47 PM
Dr Melissa Fabello taught me what Gaylor theory is all about. We review & reflect on that theory in the wake of the engagement. And what Travis does that could help cure the male loneliness epidemic!
wherever you podcast (search “bevin: a femme over 40”) or you tube: youtu.be/s7Ye6R8QB-8
Dr. Melissa A Fabello: Gaylor and the Taylor Swift Engagement
YouTube video by Self Care Party
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September 4, 2025 at 7:10 PM
Peet’s coffee Cold Brew Horchata Oat Milk Latte is a revelation of delicious and creamy dairy free. I’m in Sacramento on a layover. Peet’s is a fav from my early caffeinated years in California. Omg I just need to tell everyone who likes coffee how yummy this is.
July 28, 2025 at 6:36 PM
New blog post! Never underestimate how much joy you offer by just showing up empty handed and bedraggled. queerfatfemme.com/2025/07/16/s...
July 16, 2025 at 8:26 PM
July 9, 2025 at 7:30 PM
I Canceled My Audible Membership Here's How I'm Doing Audiobooks Now. New blog post! queerfatfemme.com/2025/05/21/i...
I Canceled My Audible Membership Here’s How I’m Doing Audiobooks Now – The Relentless Pursuit of my Joy
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May 21, 2025 at 8:02 PM
Brad Pitt from 1994’s Interview with the Vampire set the fire. youtu.be/D0DtooamB1k?...
Interview with the Vampire-Burning Down the House
YouTube video by Brittany LeMoine
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May 17, 2025 at 6:33 AM
New podcast episode! I am so glad I was willing to change my mind about cruising. I had a great time on my first one--here are my highlights! youtu.be/vTvQUkqf0KQ
VLOG: Highlights from my First Cruise on the Voyager of the Seas
YouTube video by Self Care Party
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May 16, 2025 at 1:22 AM
New podcast episode! I reflect on not needing to protect myself from how people perceive me. If there's nothing to defend, it feels so free and that comes from an internal sense of safety developed through healing authority trauma.

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Vlog: Overcoming Defensiveness
YouTube video by Self Care Party
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May 5, 2025 at 10:36 PM
Reflecting on how the #finchapp is keeping me grounded while on my gaycation! It’s so hard to stay consistent on the road! Queerfatfemme.com or bevinsparty.substack.com.
April 8, 2025 at 6:34 PM
New blog post! I thought about things that have been therapeutic for me over the past year. What I have done to grieve the loss of my beloved Feline Overlord. queerfatfemme.com/2025/03/21/g...
March 22, 2025 at 12:08 AM
This technique for releasing fear from the body is up on Patreon.com/fkdp for all levels of support through Saturday, then it will be available for Spiritual Teachings + higher tier! I hope it helps!
March 18, 2025 at 6:20 PM
This is a ritual I got from Jana of FeelingLoudly.com that is so appropriate for this Virgo lunar eclipse today (book a reading with Jana if you’re feeling confused about life / want some guidance!)
March 13, 2025 at 6:42 PM
How can we show up for each other AS family? What is mine to do? This clever mutual aid idea came to me through one of the community meals I attend. I think it's so powerful and actionable! I hope this inspires you to do something! queerfatfemme.com/2025/03/05/m...
March 5, 2025 at 11:56 PM
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"The test of our progress is not whether we add more to the abundance of those who have much; it is whether we provide enough for those who have too little."

—FDR, 1937
March 4, 2025 at 10:15 PM
Since 2008, Musk himself has received $38 billion dollars in government contracts. With those contracts, he earns from our government somewhere around $8 million dollars a day, while the average senior on social security makes $65 a day. open.substack.com/pub/marianne...
SOCIAL SECURITY THREATENED
And you know by who...
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March 5, 2025 at 1:41 AM