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Betherly
@betherly.bsky.social
Proud MN cat mom
Some neighborhood signal groups are so large that they have to kick people out to let new folks in who want to help. New "how can I help" posts on socials every day. Oh, and we literally ran a Nazi out of town. We are scared, but we are also *pissed.*
January 20, 2026 at 7:46 AM
Can confirm from St Paul. Folks are getting goods to those who can't go out, forming patrols to warn people when ICE is in the area, standing outside of mosques during prayers, at bus stops, outside of schools at drop-off/pick-up times. And protesting in 0 degree weather. (1/2)
January 20, 2026 at 7:43 AM
Here (and in my profile pic) is Rumplestiltskin. All I know about him is that he was picked up as a stray in northwestern Minnesota when he was about 1.5 yrs old.
May 11, 2025 at 7:34 PM
Reminds me of a quote I read in college that I've never forgotten: "It is perhaps a choice each of us makes over and over, even many times throughout one day, whether to use knowledge as power or intimacy." - Susan Griffith, A Chorus of Stones
April 27, 2025 at 3:48 AM
Therapist shopping is its own circle of hell, 100%!!
April 21, 2025 at 4:56 AM
Ugh that sounds awful! A therapist of mine once told me that the research shows that the most important predictor of success in therapy is the quality of the relationship between therapist and patient. So it's legit to just change therapists!
April 20, 2025 at 12:51 PM
That's as close as I can get to a comforting thought, too. It leaves rather a lot to be desired.
April 9, 2025 at 4:45 AM
If you like In the Mood, check out Sing, Sing, Sing! (Good dancing here too, tho no one does as many aerials in real life as they do in the movies.)

m.youtube.com/watch?v=TOPS...
Louis Prima - Sing,Sing,Sing (With a Swing)
YouTube video by Tolis Delta
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March 16, 2025 at 10:23 PM
I strongly believe in doing things because they are fun and not giving two shits whether you do them "well." Good for you!!
March 16, 2025 at 10:14 PM
My boy's cardiologist told me they don't groom if they aren't feeling well. Having gone through one cat with a heart defect and one with FIP, baths still make me tear up sometimes.
March 16, 2025 at 10:12 PM
Even better - learn how to do it yourself! Plenty of us still do swing dancing - it's great!
March 16, 2025 at 5:09 AM
That's what I said, too!
March 5, 2025 at 2:36 AM