Bella Smith ⭐
@bellasmith0705.substack.com
Human Behavior/Psychology Enthusiast, Empath, Introvert, INFJ. Loves to write about life, psychology and relationships❤️❤️ let's connect: https://linktr.ee/bellasmith0705
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I just saw an account that posts totally nude photos. I immediately blocked it. Maybe it's just me, but as an Asian who grew up in a conservative country, it's kind of a big deal to me. I didn't know you could post like that here on #bsky 😭😭
some people stay in your life just long enough to teach you how to live without them.
November 10, 2025 at 11:00 PM
some people stay in your life just long enough to teach you how to live without them.
i used to hate endings. they felt like failure. but now i see them as beginnings in disguise. you don’t lose people.tyou lose illusions. you lose versions of yourself that were tied to them. and what’s left is the truth. and that’s always worth keeping.❤️❤️
November 5, 2025 at 1:47 PM
i used to hate endings. they felt like failure. but now i see them as beginnings in disguise. you don’t lose people.tyou lose illusions. you lose versions of yourself that were tied to them. and what’s left is the truth. and that’s always worth keeping.❤️❤️
sometimes healing looks like:
not texting back
choosing silence over drama
being boring on purpose
quiet is peace and peace is powerful.❤️❤️
not texting back
choosing silence over drama
being boring on purpose
quiet is peace and peace is powerful.❤️❤️
July 2, 2025 at 2:42 PM
sometimes healing looks like:
not texting back
choosing silence over drama
being boring on purpose
quiet is peace and peace is powerful.❤️❤️
not texting back
choosing silence over drama
being boring on purpose
quiet is peace and peace is powerful.❤️❤️
we crave deep connections but settle for surface ones.
we tell half our story just to avoid scaring people off.
but we deserve someone who says, “tell me more.”❤️❤️
we tell half our story just to avoid scaring people off.
but we deserve someone who says, “tell me more.”❤️❤️
July 2, 2025 at 6:42 AM
we crave deep connections but settle for surface ones.
we tell half our story just to avoid scaring people off.
but we deserve someone who says, “tell me more.”❤️❤️
we tell half our story just to avoid scaring people off.
but we deserve someone who says, “tell me more.”❤️❤️
you always try to be the strong one.
but who do you turn to when you’re breaking?
it’s hard to be the healer and still be hurting.
you deserve support, too.❤️❤️
but who do you turn to when you’re breaking?
it’s hard to be the healer and still be hurting.
you deserve support, too.❤️❤️
July 1, 2025 at 2:23 PM
you always try to be the strong one.
but who do you turn to when you’re breaking?
it’s hard to be the healer and still be hurting.
you deserve support, too.❤️❤️
but who do you turn to when you’re breaking?
it’s hard to be the healer and still be hurting.
you deserve support, too.❤️❤️
for those who know me and my way of writing, you will understand this.
for those who are new and judgmental, it is up to you how you absorb this.
for those who are new and judgmental, it is up to you how you absorb this.
You Think I’m Home, But I’m the Fire
The subtle way manipulation makes you question yourself
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June 26, 2025 at 12:55 PM
for those who know me and my way of writing, you will understand this.
for those who are new and judgmental, it is up to you how you absorb this.
for those who are new and judgmental, it is up to you how you absorb this.
you say “sorry” too much because you were taught your needs were a burden.
but needing space, love, or rest isn’t wrong.
start saying “thank you for understanding” instead.❤️❤️
but needing space, love, or rest isn’t wrong.
start saying “thank you for understanding” instead.❤️❤️
June 20, 2025 at 1:02 PM
you say “sorry” too much because you were taught your needs were a burden.
but needing space, love, or rest isn’t wrong.
start saying “thank you for understanding” instead.❤️❤️
but needing space, love, or rest isn’t wrong.
start saying “thank you for understanding” instead.❤️❤️
"Your anti depressant med is not always the answer"
Some Wounds Stay Buried But Still Bleed
If you can’t explain the pain, this is for you
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June 11, 2025 at 9:58 AM
"Your anti depressant med is not always the answer"
"Maybe clarity isn’t something we find , but just something that finds us once we commit"
Life Often Reveals Its Meaning Only Once We Commit
Prompt Yourself: Weekly Prompts June 9– June 15, 2025
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June 8, 2025 at 10:36 AM
"Maybe clarity isn’t something we find , but just something that finds us once we commit"
I’m good. But never perfect. And I never want to be.
Do You Consider Yourself a Good Human?
The honest confession of a good human
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June 7, 2025 at 9:16 AM
I’m good. But never perfect. And I never want to be.
"We all crave reasons. But reasons don’t always help."
Some Things Are Better Left Unknown For The Sake Of Your Heart
Why not knowing might be the healthiest choice
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June 4, 2025 at 12:01 PM
"We all crave reasons. But reasons don’t always help."
"Some people think they’re weak. But there’s a danger to a person who’s swallowed every insult, every betrayal, every fake apology."
What's The Dark Side of Good People
The hiden cost of always being nice
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June 3, 2025 at 10:44 AM
"Some people think they’re weak. But there’s a danger to a person who’s swallowed every insult, every betrayal, every fake apology."
You think you're behind because others look so put together.
But everyone’s hiding something.
No one posts the full truth.
Your slow progress still counts❤️❤️.
But everyone’s hiding something.
No one posts the full truth.
Your slow progress still counts❤️❤️.
June 2, 2025 at 2:44 PM
You think you're behind because others look so put together.
But everyone’s hiding something.
No one posts the full truth.
Your slow progress still counts❤️❤️.
But everyone’s hiding something.
No one posts the full truth.
Your slow progress still counts❤️❤️.
Choosing pain over guilt doesn’t make you the hero that this world desperately needs. But at least you do not add to the villains that this world is already full of.
I’d Rather Hurt Than Be the One Who Hurts You
If someone has to bear the pain, I would rather it be me
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June 1, 2025 at 2:04 PM
Choosing pain over guilt doesn’t make you the hero that this world desperately needs. But at least you do not add to the villains that this world is already full of.
"We don’t always get the ending we hope for. And sometimes, that’s the blessing."
I’ll Always Be Thankful You Happened
Not every connection is meant to last, but some are meant to teach
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May 31, 2025 at 1:10 PM
"We don’t always get the ending we hope for. And sometimes, that’s the blessing."