They told me that they’ve been in a relationship with them for four years. Thankfully they don’t live together. And that they’re in therapy right now about exactly all of this. I hope they’re able to leave that dynamic because their partner is clearly immature and cruel as fuck.

As you can guess, the older person just became incredibly defensive wouldn’t stop deflecting and then the world crashed LOL their partner came back and I was like “I’m really sorry that happened. You deserve to be treated better than that. It’s not okay the way they treat you.”

If it was in an autistic way, I would’ve been all about it. Like I do that all the time but it’s because I want people to know that I understand what they’re talking about first hand. This wasn’t that. This was in an overtly narcissistic way.

It ended with me telling them that.

I know what it feels like to be in a dynamic like that. The quieter person was going out of their way to try to make nice conversation with me and bring me into the conversation. And their partner couldn’t help but tear everything that they said down or make it about themselves.

What tipped me off at first is that the older person in the relationship was just talking nonstop, needing to be the center of attention, and their partner was polite or quiet. And whenever the quieter one would say something, the shit one insulted most any thought they shared.

That’s fuckin weird. I’m not gonna tell people how to be in relationships with others, and people deserve to be treated better than what I saw from that fucker.

At least this version of me now can’t. Which is so strange because I did for most of my life. I held so much shame. And the process I’m talking about allowed me to let it all go. I’ll never go back. I’m free.

Exactly

I wish I had friends like that instead of a bunch of discriminatory fucks that taught me the same hate speech I now speak out against.

And we know it’s not just fucking kids. It’s endless fucking adults who don’t see or treat disabled folks as human beings.

Including the current president of the united fucking states who many of you spend your time sucking the metaphorical cock of constantly despite his hate.

Some ignorant asshole is gonna think: “It’s just kids saying slurs on the Internet”. And to that I have to say “It’s YOU - the fucking adult - excusing kids repeating slurs on or off the fucking Internet. That in conjunction is the problem. YOU are excusing hate speech anywhere.”

Yeah they’re the worst.

And yeah, definitely exhausting haha

Exactly. I really think most every republican I’ve ever met just agrees with communist values and doesn’t know it or is too indoctrinated into white supremacy to want to acknowledge it because then they’re simply unwilling to learn / grow in ways that challenge their entire self and world concepts.

Ha oddly enough, in many ways, liberals are almost ideologically more different to leftists than their conservative counterparts.

That’s my neuroqueer agenda. Liberation for all.