Sometimes, trans women aren’t seen…we’re used to help others see themselves.
My new essay is about dating, projection, and the difference between being desired and being known.

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They paid to see me.
Not to understand me.

I sold the fantasy.
But it cost me more than they ever knew.

Read my latest essay below:
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They Paid to See Me, Not to Understand Me

New essay on fetishization, power, and what it costs to be looked at but not seen.

this one’s personal.

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I’ve shifted what this account is for.
I’m a trans woman writing about identity, community, and the messy parts of queer culture that don’t get enough honest discussion.

If this isn’t your thing, no hard feelings if you unfollow.

My first piece is live now:

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