For sure! That is valid, it sucks when people see anything suggestive/ sexual and assume that the person behind it is okay with advances e.t.c.,, it's one of the things that stops Rennick and I from making any kind of AD (even if we only posted comm work).

Like consent is so important,,

atp if someone says something like "Such a cuddly looking mouse" or something along those lines I like to say "to my husband yeah" lol

Yeahhhhh Ren and I showed our friends and every one of them was like wtf basically and saw it as sexual in nature. I'm too old for people tryna pull a fast one on me so *block* xDD

I feel like it would be rough for yall,, It seems like some people see poly and assume it's open season, but don't realize that closed poly relationships exist too as well as each having their own boundaries/ rules :O
I've got a lotta respect for yall

double down and defend your actions of making us uncomfortable *BLOCK*

If I had a dollar for every time someone makes a joke/ advance with it being clear we are closed we would be ballin'

Sad that has to be said. It is not hard to respect and own up if you step on someone's toes like that. I am willing to give people chances, but if you double down-

Thisss, I'm just blocking those who are plain disrespectful, because it insane how much they lack basic human decency??

Oh yeah and those who try to be "friends" as a way to try and get ins,, yeah no.
(Luckily my friends have been respectful, but seeing it with others,, I just feel bad ;;)

This 100%!!

I just saw the most insane take on this where someone completely disrespected and trampled on boundaries of those who are in closed relationships 😬

The comments agreeing with them lowkey makes me kinda lose faith in humanity 😑