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Black Unity Over Disagreement (he/him)
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Black Atheist Autistic Blerd SA Survivor Man.
My replies might read as if they're said sharply but I always speak gently

Will never speak negatively about Black/Indigenous People anywhere.

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had forgotten how to blag it and then learn what I needed to on the job.

They were surprised that the DWP wouldn't fund my Python training through a website.

Drenched and hungry I sought out hot food to warm me up. Next time I'll remember to carry a small slice of

(18/22)
November 20, 2025 at 6:31 PM
portal. AI has replaced most VBA roles but before that I had 19 years experience in VBA on paper so I always got callbacks for those roles. I don't have any resentment towards AI. Life is what it is and life is wonderful.

I got a callback recently for such a role; but I

(17/22)
November 20, 2025 at 5:56 PM
have no idea.

She said that then they'd recognise patterns.

What if I missed one, attended four, missed one, attended eight etc.

They gave up and moved onto the next topic. I took that as a win.

They said that there was no point applying for jobs through the Reed

(16/22)
November 20, 2025 at 4:16 PM
being late.

I try to maximize humour in these situations.

They told me that I'd have sanctions if I missed three appointments in a row.

What if I missed one and then attended two and then missed one and so on.

She asked me if I was being sarcastic? I'm autistic so I

(15/22)
November 20, 2025 at 4:03 PM
The Sun Does Shine: How I Found Life and Freedom on Death Row by Anthony Ray Hilton starting from Chapter 10 The Death Squad. My therapist recommended the book to me bc he engaged with racists too. Perhaps that was why.

My work coach appeared but didn't apologise for

(14/22)
November 20, 2025 at 3:35 PM
She lied that she had never talked negatively of others as white people often do in those circumstances unwilling to be vulnerable to another. I understood and didn't contradict her. She asked the reception a question and then sat facing away from me. I started reading

(13/22)
November 20, 2025 at 3:21 PM
the mask for health and it was other peoples choice to get sick. I asked her if she knew about the law of attraction. She did. I said that it was good that she was looking after her health but talking negatively about others will undermine that.

(12/22)
November 20, 2025 at 12:05 PM
friend Paul of 34 years. I told him that I could not remember what we had been through when we were younger. He replied, "Don't worry. I will remember for the both of us."

I asked if the white woman in front of me was okay bc she was staring at me. She said that she wore

(11/22)
November 20, 2025 at 12:04 PM
There is a non wood substitute; but he's never tried it himself.

His partner joined him. He didn't introduce her but bid me farewell and shook my hand. I can't remember if I used to introduce partners to those with whom I was speaking.

Before in Frankfurt I visited my

(10/22)
November 20, 2025 at 11:42 AM
same region in China, but "Szechuan" is still commonly used in some Western contexts, especially in restaurant names.'

94% of Chinese are ethnically (Mandarin speaking) Han.

Some customers are concerned about the environment and jerk chicken is prepared with coal.

(9/22)
November 20, 2025 at 11:14 AM
It's still not as hot as Nigerian which is not as hot as Sichuan.

'The spelling "Szechuan" is an older romanization of the Chinese province now officially spelled "Sichuan" according to the modern Hanyu Pinyin system adopted in the late 20th century. Both refer to the

(8/22)
November 20, 2025 at 10:52 AM
everyone answers them; so if the chef had engaged with our people as I do then he would have a different experience. I don't seek to profit from anyone and I don't judge anyone outside of racism.

He was blown away that I cook with three blended scotch bonnet pepper.

(7/22)
November 20, 2025 at 10:30 AM
Brother but Biracial.

The chef spoke of how our people are half cool and half not. I didn't react; but next time I might say that I have lived worked and travelled in six continents and to 33 countries and greet any Black Person I encounter and ask questions of many and

(6/22)
November 20, 2025 at 10:11 AM
Christmas. He caters the spiciness of his Jerk for his clientelle. One Black Girl asked for some chilli sauce. She replied that his was good (but not spicy). He was shocked.. I felt sad that this brother who had identified with him and helped him wasn't seen as Black or a

(5/22)
November 20, 2025 at 9:58 AM
dry tee etc.

I spoke to a younger brother there. He made Carribbean cuisine. He's trying to get a market stall and a (Biracial) brother put a word in for him in his child's primary school; so he prepared food for Black History Month and will be doing so again at

(4/22)
November 20, 2025 at 9:25 AM
I meditate; so I'm trying not to read any replies. Doing so can reverse the effects of meditation for me; so I have muted you.

I'm autistic so I don't read texts on my phone, but happy to exchange voice notes or talk on WhatsApp.

Be well.
November 20, 2025 at 9:06 AM
to refresh my memory.

It was raining lightly so I'd forgotten that I could get drenched and did so.

DWP doesn't have public toilets; so I assume businesses serving DWP operate the same way; so I didn't change my clothes and remained soaked. Next time I'll change into a

(3/22)
November 20, 2025 at 9:06 AM
I was raped as a child; so one side effect is that it affects my memory.

I'm not looking for sympathy.

I remember a previous manager discussing a program I had written; but I had no memory of it; so I pretended to know what she was talking about and then went to my desk

(2/22)
November 20, 2025 at 7:20 AM
Judging others can be a way of hiding ourselves, avoiding responsibiity for our actions and doing the work that always needs to be done.

(2/2)
November 20, 2025 at 6:41 AM
without all the people who sacrificed and suffered, a lot of us would not be able to come to the U.S., work, build, or live the lives we live now.

(2/2)
November 19, 2025 at 4:14 PM
Every You Every Me (2024) ⭐ 6.2 | Drama, Romance
1h 48m
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November 19, 2025 at 3:53 AM
perhaps relates to the root cause of his panic attack and finally as himself as a man.

There's Still Tomorrow 2023 www.imdb.com/title/tt2180... set in Italy represented domestic violence as a choreography which ensured that ths idea of such lingers in the mind for

(2/3)
There's Still Tomorrow (2023) ⭐ 7.7 | Comedy, Drama, History
1h 58m
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November 19, 2025 at 3:53 AM