Cam/asymptote
@asympmaso.bsky.social
Playful gay-end-of-pan masochist and bondage sub with occasional moments of switching or deeper submission. asymptote on Recon. Often 🔐. Open relationship, too many hobbies for my own good.
📍 Bristol, UK
(he/him)
📍 Bristol, UK
(he/him)
There are several cute and friendly new queers at gym at the moment 😊
The sweetest one is definitely poly (he talked about "one of his partners") and I'm now looking for non-creepy ways of advertising my non-monogamy and figuring out whether the sweet new queer is kinky at all 🤔
The sweetest one is definitely poly (he talked about "one of his partners") and I'm now looking for non-creepy ways of advertising my non-monogamy and figuring out whether the sweet new queer is kinky at all 🤔
February 13, 2026 at 11:00 PM
There are several cute and friendly new queers at gym at the moment 😊
The sweetest one is definitely poly (he talked about "one of his partners") and I'm now looking for non-creepy ways of advertising my non-monogamy and figuring out whether the sweet new queer is kinky at all 🤔
The sweetest one is definitely poly (he talked about "one of his partners") and I'm now looking for non-creepy ways of advertising my non-monogamy and figuring out whether the sweet new queer is kinky at all 🤔
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Homos, are any of you tattoo artists and would fancy being involved in a scene with myself and BOSS @gxusm.bsky.social ? Or know anyone to suggest?
January 28, 2026 at 7:42 PM
Homos, are any of you tattoo artists and would fancy being involved in a scene with myself and BOSS @gxusm.bsky.social ? Or know anyone to suggest?
I had a _very_ fun time at Bristol FetClub this evening, making new friends, reconnecting with old friends, and generally having some delightful kinky shenanigans
January 18, 2026 at 10:46 PM
I had a _very_ fun time at Bristol FetClub this evening, making new friends, reconnecting with old friends, and generally having some delightful kinky shenanigans
First ever wet dream while locked last night!
January 17, 2026 at 7:26 AM
First ever wet dream while locked last night!
And I'm back in the UK! Obligatory chastity travel photo below
January 14, 2026 at 1:55 PM
And I'm back in the UK! Obligatory chastity travel photo below
I've had a fantastic start to my kink year with a session with Stickee from recon. Some predicament bondage, some very fun breath play, and some excellent pain play with a range of implements
Photos of my reddened arse to follow in the replies
Photos of my reddened arse to follow in the replies
January 6, 2026 at 8:52 AM
I've had a fantastic start to my kink year with a session with Stickee from recon. Some predicament bondage, some very fun breath play, and some excellent pain play with a range of implements
Photos of my reddened arse to follow in the replies
Photos of my reddened arse to follow in the replies
2026 kink goals
* Take a fist again and expand what my hole can do
* Only cum when someone else wants/forces me to cum
* Keep some kink in my life, even when I'm busy
* More play with a D/s or control element
* Sustain kink friendships and build new ones
* Take a fist again and expand what my hole can do
* Only cum when someone else wants/forces me to cum
* Keep some kink in my life, even when I'm busy
* More play with a D/s or control element
* Sustain kink friendships and build new ones
January 2, 2026 at 1:02 AM
2026 kink goals
* Take a fist again and expand what my hole can do
* Only cum when someone else wants/forces me to cum
* Keep some kink in my life, even when I'm busy
* More play with a D/s or control element
* Sustain kink friendships and build new ones
* Take a fist again and expand what my hole can do
* Only cum when someone else wants/forces me to cum
* Keep some kink in my life, even when I'm busy
* More play with a D/s or control element
* Sustain kink friendships and build new ones
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Happy new year! May all your 2026 douches be quick and reliable.
December 31, 2025 at 11:00 AM
Happy new year! May all your 2026 douches be quick and reliable.
Post your favourite nude of 2025. You can only pick one.
Got to be this one for me - enjoying an isolated spot on a sunny day
Got to be this one for me - enjoying an isolated spot on a sunny day
December 29, 2025 at 6:25 AM
Post your favourite nude of 2025. You can only pick one.
Got to be this one for me - enjoying an isolated spot on a sunny day
Got to be this one for me - enjoying an isolated spot on a sunny day
I've been thinking I'd like to get myself a flat chastity cage. Any recommendations, warnings, or other thoughts from the BlueSky hivemind?
December 26, 2025 at 7:01 AM
I've been thinking I'd like to get myself a flat chastity cage. Any recommendations, warnings, or other thoughts from the BlueSky hivemind?
A longer journey this time (away to Oz for the first time in three years) but maintaining the BSky travel pic tradition
December 22, 2025 at 1:14 PM
A longer journey this time (away to Oz for the first time in three years) but maintaining the BSky travel pic tradition
I bet everyone who follows me will have seen this already, but here's a very practical and well thought through guide to meeting people for kink
A thing I often get asked is how to go about meeting people.
This won’t work for everyone - we are all different - but let me know what you think!
This won’t work for everyone - we are all different - but let me know what you think!
November 9, 2025 at 10:28 AM
I bet everyone who follows me will have seen this already, but here's a very practical and well thought through guide to meeting people for kink
I've just noticed that @kinky-tom84.bsky.social has made the move over to Bluesky! Here's my favourite video from an excellent session I had with him back in March - he certainly put me through my paces!
Since I'm setting things up on Bluesky, here's a video of me from a very fun trip to see kinkytom84/84TW back in March. Strenuous bondage with some added fun, one of my favourite activities!
November 9, 2025 at 10:24 AM
I've just noticed that @kinky-tom84.bsky.social has made the move over to Bluesky! Here's my favourite video from an excellent session I had with him back in March - he certainly put me through my paces!
I got a lovely compliment on my gainz™ from one of the really nice straight guys at gym. He hadn't seen me for a few weeks and thought I was looking good. The gainz™ weren't a major main aim of the gym going, but I'm definitely taking the compliment!
November 5, 2025 at 5:41 PM
I got a lovely compliment on my gainz™ from one of the really nice straight guys at gym. He hadn't seen me for a few weeks and thought I was looking good. The gainz™ weren't a major main aim of the gym going, but I'm definitely taking the compliment!
Really enjoyed this vid from Starkey so I replicated it myself. Not posting it here because (a) it turns out I get confused when taking a video in a mirror and (b) it unsurprisingly shows my face, but message me if we know each other and you're interested to see 😊
October 12, 2025 at 4:11 PM
Really enjoyed this vid from Starkey so I replicated it myself. Not posting it here because (a) it turns out I get confused when taking a video in a mirror and (b) it unsurprisingly shows my face, but message me if we know each other and you're interested to see 😊
Once again, the obligatory "locked while travelling" photo
September 20, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Once again, the obligatory "locked while travelling" photo
I'm keen to jump on this bandwagon, although it might take me a while to get through them given a busy week coming up.
Drop a like to encourage me, but I'll probably gradually fill them in regardless ☺️
Drop a like to encourage me, but I'll probably gradually fill them in regardless ☺️
September 8, 2025 at 9:57 PM
I'm keen to jump on this bandwagon, although it might take me a while to get through them given a busy week coming up.
Drop a like to encourage me, but I'll probably gradually fill them in regardless ☺️
Drop a like to encourage me, but I'll probably gradually fill them in regardless ☺️
One of the fun things about CrossFit-style classes is the topless sweaty guys, especially when I get to be one of them. But I think I'll have another week of keeping my top on until I'm fully confident that the whip marks aren't visible 😆
September 8, 2025 at 5:51 PM
One of the fun things about CrossFit-style classes is the topless sweaty guys, especially when I get to be one of them. But I think I'll have another week of keeping my top on until I'm fully confident that the whip marks aren't visible 😆
Folsom Europe 2025!
My first time in Berlin for kink and my first ever big kink event.
Overall, I had a blast, I met fantastic and lovely people, I learned things about myself, and I'm keen to do similar things again.
My first time in Berlin for kink and my first ever big kink event.
Overall, I had a blast, I met fantastic and lovely people, I learned things about myself, and I'm keen to do similar things again.
September 3, 2025 at 11:01 PM
Folsom Europe 2025!
My first time in Berlin for kink and my first ever big kink event.
Overall, I had a blast, I met fantastic and lovely people, I learned things about myself, and I'm keen to do similar things again.
My first time in Berlin for kink and my first ever big kink event.
Overall, I had a blast, I met fantastic and lovely people, I learned things about myself, and I'm keen to do similar things again.
This post and thread articulate something very important to me.
I enjoy pain play and (in the right context) I enjoy receiving hard pain that goes beyond what is fun for me in the moment. I don't like calling this pain "punishment", essentially for the reasons described here.
I enjoy pain play and (in the right context) I enjoy receiving hard pain that goes beyond what is fun for me in the moment. I don't like calling this pain "punishment", essentially for the reasons described here.
Respect that punishment is not pleasant for either party. Discuss why punishment was needed during aftercare.
If you take pleasure in SM, find a different word for pain play.
Reserve "punishment" for the hard discipline applied to the sub.
If you take pleasure in SM, find a different word for pain play.
Reserve "punishment" for the hard discipline applied to the sub.
September 3, 2025 at 1:37 PM
This post and thread articulate something very important to me.
I enjoy pain play and (in the right context) I enjoy receiving hard pain that goes beyond what is fun for me in the moment. I don't like calling this pain "punishment", essentially for the reasons described here.
I enjoy pain play and (in the right context) I enjoy receiving hard pain that goes beyond what is fun for me in the moment. I don't like calling this pain "punishment", essentially for the reasons described here.
I'm back home after a fantastic time at Folsom Europe. I'll put together some proper posts about various fun things once I'm less sleepy. For now, here's the obligatory chastity travel photo, with maybe a hint of the fact that fun things happened during the week 😁
September 2, 2025 at 12:37 AM
I'm back home after a fantastic time at Folsom Europe. I'll put together some proper posts about various fun things once I'm less sleepy. For now, here's the obligatory chastity travel photo, with maybe a hint of the fact that fun things happened during the week 😁
I'm very happy with today's shopping trip - the vest and shorts below are among today's purchases 😁
I'm particularly grateful that my partner suggested before I left that mesh tops might suit me 😊
I'm particularly grateful that my partner suggested before I left that mesh tops might suit me 😊
August 28, 2025 at 3:55 PM
I'm very happy with today's shopping trip - the vest and shorts below are among today's purchases 😁
I'm particularly grateful that my partner suggested before I left that mesh tops might suit me 😊
I'm particularly grateful that my partner suggested before I left that mesh tops might suit me 😊
Yay, I've got a ticket for Combat at Quälgeist on Friday!
August 27, 2025 at 9:18 AM
Yay, I've got a ticket for Combat at Quälgeist on Friday!
In-flight chastity check
August 26, 2025 at 6:55 PM
In-flight chastity check
I had a countryside holiday last week and got to enjoy being outside while there weren't other people around 🌞
August 13, 2025 at 12:00 PM
I had a countryside holiday last week and got to enjoy being outside while there weren't other people around 🌞