🏳️⚧️ James 🏳️🌈
@andromz.bsky.social
Gay. Trans. ADHD/Autistic. Pākehā. Anxious AF. Just trying to join in.
Yeah I think for my family it makes a lot of sense because they can see how I was just always this person. Which is validating. But also kind of annoying because it sometimes feels like it trivialises the years and years of internal bullshit I had to deal with. If that makes more sense?
December 14, 2025 at 10:17 PM
Yeah I think for my family it makes a lot of sense because they can see how I was just always this person. Which is validating. But also kind of annoying because it sometimes feels like it trivialises the years and years of internal bullshit I had to deal with. If that makes more sense?
I have a small amount of scale ptsd from trying and failing to get rid of some for years on a (giant) indoor plant. Eventually it killed the plant :(
December 14, 2025 at 10:14 PM
I have a small amount of scale ptsd from trying and failing to get rid of some for years on a (giant) indoor plant. Eventually it killed the plant :(
And you feel dramatic if you try and press the point?? Most convos about my childhood are of the tone of "a lot of things make much more sense" now. Which is validating? But also simultaneously still... disquieting? The feelings are dynamic.
December 14, 2025 at 1:15 PM
And you feel dramatic if you try and press the point?? Most convos about my childhood are of the tone of "a lot of things make much more sense" now. Which is validating? But also simultaneously still... disquieting? The feelings are dynamic.
I always hate having this sort of conversation with people where they try so hard to relate with something they're self concious about socially. It's always like yes that's hard but existing as trans atm is constantly being aware that a portion of people want you dead, and to *suffer*.
December 14, 2025 at 1:11 PM
I always hate having this sort of conversation with people where they try so hard to relate with something they're self concious about socially. It's always like yes that's hard but existing as trans atm is constantly being aware that a portion of people want you dead, and to *suffer*.
www.mightyape.co.nz/mn/buy/micro... special kitty apron?
www.mightyape.co.nz
December 13, 2025 at 7:55 AM
www.mightyape.co.nz/mn/buy/micro... special kitty apron?
Good quality pineapple juice and brown sugar is what we do. We will never branch out with our personal ham because tradition *cough*autism*cough*. Though I had a ham slathered in crushed pineapple at my aunty's once which was good.
December 10, 2025 at 9:43 AM
Good quality pineapple juice and brown sugar is what we do. We will never branch out with our personal ham because tradition *cough*autism*cough*. Though I had a ham slathered in crushed pineapple at my aunty's once which was good.
I should investigate the cost for myself. Esp with being immune compromised from the diabetes. It's really fucked her life up. She can't even tell what half the stuff in her garden is these days. 😞
December 9, 2025 at 8:20 AM
I should investigate the cost for myself. Esp with being immune compromised from the diabetes. It's really fucked her life up. She can't even tell what half the stuff in her garden is these days. 😞
Shingles travelled to my Gram's optic nerve and ruined the eyesight in her only "good" eye. Get the fucking shingles vaccine people.
December 9, 2025 at 2:21 AM
Shingles travelled to my Gram's optic nerve and ruined the eyesight in her only "good" eye. Get the fucking shingles vaccine people.
And I mean like PROPER otc. I want bulk jugs of it in the supplements aisle thanks.
December 6, 2025 at 10:54 AM
And I mean like PROPER otc. I want bulk jugs of it in the supplements aisle thanks.
Watermelon chupa chups are a top tier flavour.
December 6, 2025 at 10:49 AM
Watermelon chupa chups are a top tier flavour.
Half of my family is also born at this time of year. So only small children get presents, everyone else can get fucked.
December 5, 2025 at 7:54 AM
Half of my family is also born at this time of year. So only small children get presents, everyone else can get fucked.
The ones around here absolutely love the tree lucerne.
December 5, 2025 at 4:31 AM
The ones around here absolutely love the tree lucerne.
We have random blueberries becoming ripe, raspberries, black raspberries and strawberries. We should have blackberries and some various hybrid berries ready soonish, too. Our strawberries are in a cage and the ones at the back of the bed are against netting and really hard to get to. Need to thin!
December 5, 2025 at 2:56 AM
We have random blueberries becoming ripe, raspberries, black raspberries and strawberries. We should have blackberries and some various hybrid berries ready soonish, too. Our strawberries are in a cage and the ones at the back of the bed are against netting and really hard to get to. Need to thin!
I gave up on the strawberries. The existing bed is now too dense... so hard to harvest at the back.
December 5, 2025 at 2:43 AM
I gave up on the strawberries. The existing bed is now too dense... so hard to harvest at the back.
We haven't picked in a couple days because of rain and I'm genuinely worried 😂. I got a 7L stockpot full in like 3 days last week.
December 5, 2025 at 1:20 AM
We haven't picked in a couple days because of rain and I'm genuinely worried 😂. I got a 7L stockpot full in like 3 days last week.
Ours desperately need picking again. I did not think about the stress of constant picking actual good crops would cause. Never had that issue in Wellington 😂
December 5, 2025 at 12:42 AM
Ours desperately need picking again. I did not think about the stress of constant picking actual good crops would cause. Never had that issue in Wellington 😂
My old work is in this book!
November 30, 2025 at 12:36 AM
My old work is in this book!
This year I'm going to attempt an overnight slow roasted hogget shoulder. Even though it's absolutely too warm. This is why people are into smokers and other outdoor cooking means, isn't it?
November 29, 2025 at 8:40 AM
This year I'm going to attempt an overnight slow roasted hogget shoulder. Even though it's absolutely too warm. This is why people are into smokers and other outdoor cooking means, isn't it?
I love allgroom.
November 27, 2025 at 3:21 AM
I love allgroom.
The reason they even sprouted is because we bought a variety I didn't overly like and had a few left when I replaced them! So they're just my limbo potatoes 😂.
November 26, 2025 at 9:34 AM
The reason they even sprouted is because we bought a variety I didn't overly like and had a few left when I replaced them! So they're just my limbo potatoes 😂.