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Ru Callender. Undertaker, ritualist, raver and author of "What Remains? Life death and the human art of undertaking." Described as "Best undertakers of all time, by a country mile." by Charles Cowling of Good Funeral Guide.

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 5h

A cremation this morning, after a ceremony on Friday. So many people going for cheaper unattended ‘direct’ cremations, this is the opposite. In the UK, you have the right to go ‘backstage’ and witness the coffin going into the cremator. Few do. A powerful moment.

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 8h

The importance of ongoing ritual in my professional and personal life.

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 8h

Burial at dawn.

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 8h

I live close to it.

Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 21h

Well thank you KimBoo!

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A crop circle I made at Prawle Point in Devon. I was fascinated with crop circles in the 90’s, but didn’t start making them until 2013. I started to incorporate them into rituals to shed the accumulation of grief I felt as an undertaker. The first chapter of “What Remains..” recounts this practice.

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 1d

It was quite big..

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I miss my old fireplace.

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 1d

I absolutely agree. Nostalgia for sure, but also a real sense of missed communality.

Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 1d

Smudging the Satyr before the ceremony in KOKO London. Funeral for a much loved sound engineer.

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 5d

Lunch under the ancient Yew tree at Dartington Hall. I used branches from this to lay on the pyre of a baby.

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 11d

A presentation I gave to Breaking Convention Psychedelic Convention 2024 about raving, trauma and psychedelia as a spiritual tool for dealing with our mortality, managing our grief and healing at the end of life. Forgive my weakness for always starting with a gag.

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Rupert Callender - Raving in the Grave

YouTube video by Breaking Convention

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 13d

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 15d

So overrated.

Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 15d

To my American friends, here is the beautiful cover of my US hardback. Please buy it, even though you will probably end up on a list..

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 16d

The marvellous maverick Geordie undertaker and colleague in funeral mischief Carl Marlow’s company. Carl did a pioneering outdoor pyre, and hilariously sells coffins modelled on the Angel of the North, but without wings.

Kirkdale Bookshop @kirkdalebooks.bsky.social · 16d

When I see Mummy I Feel Like a Mummy

Classical Studies Memes for Hellenistic Teens @csmfht.bsky.social · 16d

Hell yeah that's how I wanna go

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Parody Keir Starmer @parodypm.bsky.social · 17d

Nigel Farage's attendance record as an MEP was 748 out of 751, yet he turned up to vote AGAINST plans to tackle Russian disinformation. Now one of his MEPs has admitted taking bribes to spread Russian propaganda. Why is this not all over the media?

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Rita, antifascist🏴 @oldsquida.bsky.social · 19d

“We were always terrorists, we were always illegal.

Every Anarchist knows this…Should they wish, at any point, unless you’ve gone to remarkable lengths, you are subject to being disappeared.

State repression is the reality of resistance.”

Terrorist Youth | Editorial - Organise Magazine

We were always terrorists, we were always illegal. Whether it’s on the streets, during some occupation, or just sat at home, the weight of the state is always upon us. Every Anarchist knows this; whet...

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 20d

It wasn’t my loss, I was her undertaker .

Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 20d

My professional fees are the same if not cheaper than my competitors. It should be way more, but that’s not how the industry works and I would never want to price any family out.

Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 20d

We carried her down the hill and off to the crematorium.

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Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 20d

No!

Ways With Weirds @wayswithweirds.bsky.social · 20d

Oblations for Papa Gede.

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We’ve had that for sure. And “Well you got away without paying back that 50 quid.”

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