And I don't ascribe to the "Gold Star" gay thing. Attraction isn't that simple
Attraction is fluid, and sometimes surprising.
But just cuz you find attraction sometimes in the opposite sex, or the same sex depending on how you identify, it doesn't mean much, it just means that you're attracted
On the drive in, seeing it snow on the mountains for the first time in my life, I had to hold back tears, because I didn't know how much I needed to see that.