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twogreycats.bsky.social
@twogreycats.bsky.social
Remember making websites in those asianavenue, angel fire, geocites days?

I’m turning my site into something like that, returning to the days where I would freely express myself.

Work in progress 🧡

Also I wrote something this AM:
www.vivianvookuma.com/journal/navi...
Navigating Friendships with an Avoidant Heart: Lessons from Decades-Long Connections — Vivian Võ Okuma
A heartfelt reflection on the complexities of friendship from an avoidant perspective—embracing vulnerability, long-term bonds, and the delicate art of new connections.
www.vivianvookuma.com
February 1, 2025 at 11:38 PM
I’m not going to have a midlife crisis because I’m already living life on my terms (to the best of my abilities)

#midlifecrisis
February 1, 2025 at 7:42 AM
Troublez loves me 🥹

#blackcats
February 1, 2025 at 6:48 AM
The Python Squad Chant - Stomp The Yard (Ne-Yo #SHORTS)
YouTube video by Scene City
www.youtube.com
January 30, 2025 at 3:33 AM
How to make friends in your 30s

1. Try out new things
2. Whatever you enjoy the most, let it stick
3. Continue doing the thing you enjoy
4. Meet friends :)

For me, that thing is pole dancing.

Met/meeting some incredible people through it!

#community #friendships #relationships #30s
January 28, 2025 at 4:01 AM
Bathroom messages today 💚

#affirmations
January 28, 2025 at 2:39 AM
For some hope this week, highly recommend listening to the week ahead by @chaninicholas.bsky.social 🧡

#astrology
January 27, 2025 at 3:48 PM
My husband: “your butt looks great”
Me: “Stop objectifying me! 😫”

Vs.

My pole friends (all women today): “your body, your butt looks great”
Me: *hella flattered and honored* “awww omg thank you 🥹🥹🥹”

#layback #poledancing
January 27, 2025 at 2:27 AM
I’ve deleted all my meta apps (except messenger and fb because of marketplace).

It’s been a few days and it feels great.

I’m getting used to Bluesky and I can see myself liking it because I get to post different types of media. Thinking it’ll stick.
January 26, 2025 at 4:25 AM
Tonight’s home-cooked dinner:

- Cha Traop Dot (Cambodian eggplant dish)
- Canh Chua (Vietnamese tamarind soup)
- Broccoli with Eric’s sauce over

🧑🏻‍🍳👩🏻‍🍳😋

#homecooked #southeastasian #multiculturalhome
January 26, 2025 at 4:07 AM
Loving more intimate gatherings 🥰

Played the new survivor game and it was so much fun. Thank you for creating it @jeffprobstsurvivor.bsky.social @explodingkittens.bsky.social
January 26, 2025 at 12:52 AM
Laundry day = Esty finding a new nap spot
January 20, 2025 at 5:43 AM