Meaux de Wittyreferencename
@therealmo.bsky.social
🏳️⚧️Sapphic Nonbinary/Trans Fem, she/her. Musician, writer, general creative and worker in the arts.
🇨🇦Made in Canada, eh?
Posts about living life (often mine), transition, creating music and art, learning, kindness.
🇨🇦Made in Canada, eh?
Posts about living life (often mine), transition, creating music and art, learning, kindness.
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Hi, I’m Mo (she/her). I’m a sapphic non-binary trans femme from Canada.
Trans existence and trans joy are a beautiful things.
Always working to become more compassionate, authentic and thoughtful, and to learn how to find or create joy and meaning for myself and others.
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Trans existence and trans joy are a beautiful things.
Always working to become more compassionate, authentic and thoughtful, and to learn how to find or create joy and meaning for myself and others.
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A heavy but important read
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CW: Abuse
I want to talk about some specific forms abuse can take for trans people. I'm focusing on partners, but a lot could also be applied to families/friendships/etc.
I'm also focusing mainly on relationships where the abusive partner is cis, but this isn't cis-exclusive behavior. (1/?)
CW: Abuse
I want to talk about some specific forms abuse can take for trans people. I'm focusing on partners, but a lot could also be applied to families/friendships/etc.
I'm also focusing mainly on relationships where the abusive partner is cis, but this isn't cis-exclusive behavior. (1/?)
December 2, 2025 at 6:20 AM
A heavy but important read
It's been a night.
Please take care of yourselves.
Please take care of yourselves.
December 2, 2025 at 2:25 AM
It's been a night.
Please take care of yourselves.
Please take care of yourselves.
CW: Heavy, suicide
I am heartbroken at how many folks in trans communities contemplate or attempt to take their own life in face of despair, lack of support or outright hostility.
I wish I knew how to make it better for each one and for us all.
Please reach out if you need to, hey?
You matter.
I am heartbroken at how many folks in trans communities contemplate or attempt to take their own life in face of despair, lack of support or outright hostility.
I wish I knew how to make it better for each one and for us all.
Please reach out if you need to, hey?
You matter.
December 2, 2025 at 12:50 AM
CW: Heavy, suicide
I am heartbroken at how many folks in trans communities contemplate or attempt to take their own life in face of despair, lack of support or outright hostility.
I wish I knew how to make it better for each one and for us all.
Please reach out if you need to, hey?
You matter.
I am heartbroken at how many folks in trans communities contemplate or attempt to take their own life in face of despair, lack of support or outright hostility.
I wish I knew how to make it better for each one and for us all.
Please reach out if you need to, hey?
You matter.
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"i would never date a trans woman" ok but first, has a trans women ever given you the time of day?
December 1, 2025 at 11:11 PM
"i would never date a trans woman" ok but first, has a trans women ever given you the time of day?
Etsy seller finally got back to me about my complaints about delivery being late: "Let me check."
Check what?
And maybe an apology or something? some kind of acknowledgement that I might be irked and have reason for it?
Check what?
And maybe an apology or something? some kind of acknowledgement that I might be irked and have reason for it?
December 1, 2025 at 5:16 PM
Etsy seller finally got back to me about my complaints about delivery being late: "Let me check."
Check what?
And maybe an apology or something? some kind of acknowledgement that I might be irked and have reason for it?
Check what?
And maybe an apology or something? some kind of acknowledgement that I might be irked and have reason for it?
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"While other universities report that the humanities are shrinking, at Berkeley, the opposite is true. The music major is the fastest-growing major on campus. We are finding bigger classrooms because film is exploding. English is back to the numbers we saw 15 years ago. We are hiring" bit.ly/4ohKuOe
"The humanities really are a resource — a confidence for living in our times.” Dean Sara Guyer on the modern utility of humanities degrees
This interview originally appeared on the Division of Arts
bit.ly
November 23, 2025 at 3:38 PM
"While other universities report that the humanities are shrinking, at Berkeley, the opposite is true. The music major is the fastest-growing major on campus. We are finding bigger classrooms because film is exploding. English is back to the numbers we saw 15 years ago. We are hiring" bit.ly/4ohKuOe
Just read the wikipedia entry for the Marvellous Land of Oz, which I read in a comic as a kid.
All the longing I felt from back then came rushing back, my heart breaking anew. Gods, I so wanted someone to tell me that it was all a mistake or an evil spell or something and that I really was a girl.
All the longing I felt from back then came rushing back, my heart breaking anew. Gods, I so wanted someone to tell me that it was all a mistake or an evil spell or something and that I really was a girl.
December 1, 2025 at 3:20 AM
Just read the wikipedia entry for the Marvellous Land of Oz, which I read in a comic as a kid.
All the longing I felt from back then came rushing back, my heart breaking anew. Gods, I so wanted someone to tell me that it was all a mistake or an evil spell or something and that I really was a girl.
All the longing I felt from back then came rushing back, my heart breaking anew. Gods, I so wanted someone to tell me that it was all a mistake or an evil spell or something and that I really was a girl.
Aaaaand etsy delivery is a week late, been over a month since ordering, have yet to receive a response from seller.
If i had know it would involve dropshipping I would never have gone with these folks.
If i had know it would involve dropshipping I would never have gone with these folks.
December 1, 2025 at 2:06 AM
Aaaaand etsy delivery is a week late, been over a month since ordering, have yet to receive a response from seller.
If i had know it would involve dropshipping I would never have gone with these folks.
If i had know it would involve dropshipping I would never have gone with these folks.
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So apparently gay rams are often killed because they don't tend to make more rams.
So this gay farmer buys the gay rams to keep them alive and sells the wool!
So this gay farmer buys the gay rams to keep them alive and sells the wool!
November 25, 2025 at 5:01 AM
So apparently gay rams are often killed because they don't tend to make more rams.
So this gay farmer buys the gay rams to keep them alive and sells the wool!
So this gay farmer buys the gay rams to keep them alive and sells the wool!
Romeo and Juliet, but it's about joining up two lesbian polycules that have been shitty to each other ever since The Sapphic Booze Cruise Incident.
November 30, 2025 at 6:56 PM
Romeo and Juliet, but it's about joining up two lesbian polycules that have been shitty to each other ever since The Sapphic Booze Cruise Incident.
Had a dream where I was a young trans woman who escaped from somewhere & was figuring out ways to live in the rough near a park where I grew up, using items from a "free table" & showering at a local community centre.
it was a mix of fear of being caught, liberation, & growing confidence in self
it was a mix of fear of being caught, liberation, & growing confidence in self
November 30, 2025 at 5:45 PM
Had a dream where I was a young trans woman who escaped from somewhere & was figuring out ways to live in the rough near a park where I grew up, using items from a "free table" & showering at a local community centre.
it was a mix of fear of being caught, liberation, & growing confidence in self
it was a mix of fear of being caught, liberation, & growing confidence in self
Getting a lot of follows out of the blue from (what looks like) older white cis guys who post nothing or very little, don't seem to really interact with others and don't have anything in common with me, if they do mention anything at all.
Going to be honest, giving lowkey chaser vibes.
Going to be honest, giving lowkey chaser vibes.
November 30, 2025 at 5:35 PM
Getting a lot of follows out of the blue from (what looks like) older white cis guys who post nothing or very little, don't seem to really interact with others and don't have anything in common with me, if they do mention anything at all.
Going to be honest, giving lowkey chaser vibes.
Going to be honest, giving lowkey chaser vibes.
is it possible to be a demisexual slut?
November 30, 2025 at 5:42 AM
is it possible to be a demisexual slut?
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Starting to prepare my next update to the Canada Anti-Trans Risk Map. It’ll be a delta update focusing on hateful bills in B.C. and Alberta + the conservatisation of other provinces (in particular Ont. and Qué.).
Any thoughts on what else should I make sure to include?
Any thoughts on what else should I make sure to include?
November 30, 2025 at 4:39 AM
Starting to prepare my next update to the Canada Anti-Trans Risk Map. It’ll be a delta update focusing on hateful bills in B.C. and Alberta + the conservatisation of other provinces (in particular Ont. and Qué.).
Any thoughts on what else should I make sure to include?
Any thoughts on what else should I make sure to include?
I am glad folks are getting (some of) what they need but the fact that this measure is even needed is an appalling confirmation of the racism and bias in our society.
Wow. This is astounding. A market rental building is pivoting to be an Indigenous hotel for people from out of town who medical care in the city.
They have a history of experiencing racism and struggles with getting short term stays. This is in partnership with the First Nations Health Authority.
They have a history of experiencing racism and struggles with getting short term stays. This is in partnership with the First Nations Health Authority.
New 28-storey Broadway rental tower pivots to Indigenous medical care hotel | Urbanized
Jameson Developments' rental housing tower at 2538 Birch St. on West Broadway in Vancouver will be turned into the Dunna’eh House of Healing.
dailyhive.com
November 30, 2025 at 1:46 AM
I am glad folks are getting (some of) what they need but the fact that this measure is even needed is an appalling confirmation of the racism and bias in our society.
Throwing out your back when you're sick is pretty shitty, to be honest.
Plus, had to give up a sensuality-themed play party last night and a cuddle party tonight so I don't get anyone else sick, so that's even less fun for me.
Plus, had to give up a sensuality-themed play party last night and a cuddle party tonight so I don't get anyone else sick, so that's even less fun for me.
November 30, 2025 at 1:40 AM
Throwing out your back when you're sick is pretty shitty, to be honest.
Plus, had to give up a sensuality-themed play party last night and a cuddle party tonight so I don't get anyone else sick, so that's even less fun for me.
Plus, had to give up a sensuality-themed play party last night and a cuddle party tonight so I don't get anyone else sick, so that's even less fun for me.
I know longer see suffering as a way to virtue or enlightenment.
Part of transition, to me, means embracing a softer life and learning to open up more to find or create joy of pleasure.
Part of transition, to me, means embracing a softer life and learning to open up more to find or create joy of pleasure.
November 29, 2025 at 11:43 PM
I know longer see suffering as a way to virtue or enlightenment.
Part of transition, to me, means embracing a softer life and learning to open up more to find or create joy of pleasure.
Part of transition, to me, means embracing a softer life and learning to open up more to find or create joy of pleasure.
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Artists:
November 28, 2025 at 4:20 AM
Artists:
That slight internal *goink* that lets you know that your back really didn't want to move like that just now and will be painfully grumpy at you for the next week.
November 29, 2025 at 8:14 PM
That slight internal *goink* that lets you know that your back really didn't want to move like that just now and will be painfully grumpy at you for the next week.
Are rice cookers worth it if I eat rice 4 times a week?
I do have an instapot but I'm a bit anxious to use it, tbh so I just cook in on an induction cooker, usually.
I do have an instapot but I'm a bit anxious to use it, tbh so I just cook in on an induction cooker, usually.
November 29, 2025 at 7:45 PM
Are rice cookers worth it if I eat rice 4 times a week?
I do have an instapot but I'm a bit anxious to use it, tbh so I just cook in on an induction cooker, usually.
I do have an instapot but I'm a bit anxious to use it, tbh so I just cook in on an induction cooker, usually.
Well, I feel awful. Been fighting off a cold all week and feel ground down.
Took advantage of sales to order a bunch of things: clothes, mini-kitchen appliances, a mini-steamer.
Feels like a wave of change happening.
Took advantage of sales to order a bunch of things: clothes, mini-kitchen appliances, a mini-steamer.
Feels like a wave of change happening.
November 29, 2025 at 6:37 PM
Well, I feel awful. Been fighting off a cold all week and feel ground down.
Took advantage of sales to order a bunch of things: clothes, mini-kitchen appliances, a mini-steamer.
Feels like a wave of change happening.
Took advantage of sales to order a bunch of things: clothes, mini-kitchen appliances, a mini-steamer.
Feels like a wave of change happening.
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Some of you had/have unbelievably selfish parents and still don't know it isn't your fault
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November 29, 2025 at 4:58 PM
Some of you had/have unbelievably selfish parents and still don't know it isn't your fault
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y'know, if I was his niece, I'd be right pissed that he tried to use me and my trauma this way, after all he's done.
Since a homophobic attack on his niece, his party has introduced multiple anti-LGBTQIA+ policies and the UK has fallen steeply in human rights rankings
https://www.wearequeeraf.com/keir-starmer-shocked-his-anti-lgbtqia-rhetoric-is-creating-anti-lgbtqia-sentiment/
https://www.wearequeeraf.com/keir-starmer-shocked-his-anti-lgbtqia-rhetoric-is-creating-anti-lgbtqia-sentiment/
Starmer "furious" at homophobic attack on his family, as if his party has nothing to do with it
Since a homophobic attack on his niece, his party has introduced multiple anti-LGBTQIA+ policies and the UK has fallen steeply in human rights rankings
www.wearequeeraf.com
November 29, 2025 at 2:32 PM
y'know, if I was his niece, I'd be right pissed that he tried to use me and my trauma this way, after all he's done.
sheer brilliance
November 29, 2025 at 6:26 AM
sheer brilliance