TheNerdySteve
thenerdysteve.bsky.social
TheNerdySteve
@thenerdysteve.bsky.social
Got my husband hot chocolate today because I'm a great one!

(163 days. 4 years.)
November 30, 2025 at 4:51 PM
A couple days late, but I'm really thankful for the support of my friends and family over, specifically, the last year, as I continue on my mental health journey and recovery.

Been difficult, but I'm so much better than what I was.

(162 days. 4 years.)
November 29, 2025 at 6:49 PM
Today, for Black Friday, I'm seeing if I can buy a good night of sleep anywhere!

(161 days. 4 years.)
November 28, 2025 at 6:30 PM
Just a normal text from my husband:
November 28, 2025 at 1:18 PM
I was up at 5:45AM getting bread and pastries! Then bagels and ice coffee. Love Thanksgiving, and I'm grateful for y'all.

(160 days. 4 years.)
November 27, 2025 at 2:09 PM
Grey skies for this gay guy!

(159 days. 4 years.)
November 26, 2025 at 6:35 PM
Another day, another ice coffee! It's rainy too - perfect cuddle weather.

(158 days. 4 years.)
November 25, 2025 at 9:54 PM
1AM ice coffee after an LCD Soundsystem concert in Queens. Don't worry; it's decaf!

(157 days. 4 years.)
November 24, 2025 at 5:03 PM
I'm on sale!
November 23, 2025 at 5:31 PM
Eagle Rock in the morning with a friend; that's NYC back there!

(156 days. 4 years.)
November 23, 2025 at 4:05 PM
Last day with all this hair!!!

(155 days. 4 years.)
November 22, 2025 at 2:41 PM
Had a VERY productive therapy session that I'll talk about soon. On a related note, I don't remember the last time I got angry - this was a really weird revelation.

(154 days. 4 years.)
November 21, 2025 at 6:59 PM
Another mocha for another great day. How was yours?

(153 days. 4 years.)
November 20, 2025 at 11:07 PM
Something I'm working on in therapy is forgiveness - how to forgive, what it looks like, what it accomplishes, etc.

Or what it means to forgive yourself.

If any of y'all have resources, anecdotes, or thoughts, I'd appreciate it. It's a weirdly difficult topic for me.
November 20, 2025 at 1:49 AM
A mocha type of day. And I'm feeling SOO much better.

(152 days. 4 years.)
November 19, 2025 at 9:48 PM
COVID and flu shot are kicking my ass, so no ice coffee for me. I'm getting Naked today. Anyone want to join?

(151 days. 4 years.)
November 18, 2025 at 3:43 PM
Making doctor's appointments can be so embarrassing sometimes.

"And what's the reason for scheduling this visit?"

"Well, ummm, my right nipple has gotten so sensitive the past five months in a very VERY erogenous way."
November 17, 2025 at 4:36 PM
COVID and flu shot today! Here's hoping my reactions are minimal because they usually aren't. 🫠

(150 days. 4 years.)
November 17, 2025 at 3:50 PM
This ice coffee needs to work, stat!

(149 days. 4 years.)
November 16, 2025 at 4:18 PM
Feeling excessively cuddly today. 🥺

(148 days. 4 years.)
November 15, 2025 at 9:51 PM
This was a great Friday! Saw a movie and a new friend in NYC! (And had some terrible Thai food.)

(147 days. 4 years.)
November 14, 2025 at 11:34 PM
28 Goons Later
November 14, 2025 at 11:07 AM
A friend's rooftop in NYC! It was a wonderful view.

(146 days. 4 years.)
November 13, 2025 at 6:47 PM
I might need to cut my hair and trim my beard soon. 😱

(145 days. 4 years.)
November 12, 2025 at 10:48 PM
This coffee was VERY much needed today.

(144 days. 4 years.)
November 11, 2025 at 8:48 PM