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Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 1d

Don’t chase people. Chase purpose.

People can walk away and disappoint you. Your purpose is meant to find out who you are and where you belong, regardless of who is around.

#truth #advice #purpose #growth #wisdom #lifequotes #happiness #destiny #education

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 1d

Discipline is stronger than motivation. 
Motivation comes and goes. Discipline doesn’t care how you feel, it wants you to be structured and get things done. 
#truth #wisdom #discipline #success #mindset #mentality #strength #advice #consistency

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 1d

Peace is your power. Chaos the enemy.

Once you experience true peace, drama feels evil.

#truth #wisdom #peace #selfcontrol #mindfulness #growth #maturity #advice

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 1d

Don’t mistake being wanted for being valued.

Being wanted comes with easily being used and discarded, being valued comes with being treated with respect and dignity.

#truth #advice #wisdom #respect #honesty #love #selfworth #relationships #intention

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 1d

Self-respect feels better than attention.

So many seek attention online while undermining the security of self-assurance.

Don’t lose yourself trying to gain something or to become someone.

#truth #confidence #selflove #wisdom #safety #advice #peace #lifetips #relatable

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 1d

Read people’s patterns, not their promises.
 Talk can be beautiful but consistency shows truth.
 #truth #awareness #lifetips #wisdom #advice #lifequotes #consistency #relationships #growth

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 1d

If it costs your peace, it’s too expensive. No amount of validation is worth anxiety. 
#truth #wisdom #relatable #life #peace #anxiety #validation #lifequotes #advice

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 1d

Realize that not every action deserves your reaction.

Don’t waste too much energy proving points, especially if you don’t owe someone an explanation.

However, people might try to test you to see what you do.

#peace #wisdom #truth #socialmedia #lifequotes #advice #relatable

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 1d

You don’t necessarily lose friends. You just learn who was never really with you.

Sometimes it’s not betrayal, it’s revelation. Life filters people for you.

#Growth #LifeTruths #Maturity #Friends #Friendships #Lifequote #Quotes #Truth

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Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 2d

If people find you boring it’s usually because they haven’t matured, no matter how old they are.

No matter how many years pass some people just remain childish.

#truth #advice #relatable #friends #family #fights

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 3d

Never let new people inside your house, especially not to sleep over. You don't know what type of demon you can be dealing with.

Safety and peace first!

#truth #advice #safety #danger #home

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 5d

The person you’ll be in 5 years depends on who you aiming to be now. Your future is built on the knowledge you gain, habits you build, & people you surround yourself with.

Your choices build habits & carve your long-term destiny.

#truth #advice #selfgrowth #life #futureself

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 5d

Avoid people who dim your light. Protect your energy as if it good or a prized possession.

The right circle builds you up & shields you from toxic influences.

#truth #advice #boundaries #toxicpeople #protection #selfworth

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 5d

Please try to be kind & helpful to some homeless people, especially when you have the means to help. Anyone can fall on hard times & need a helping hand.

You will be surprised at what can happen unexpectedly to just about anyone.

#truth #life #hardship #trials #helpinghand

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 6d

Why does the new person your ex is dating try to antagonize and compete with you.

Take them you dud. They were left for a reason. No one is jealous or even cares!

#advice #truth #realitycheck #relationships #dating

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 6d

If you’re committing any evil to anyone for whatever reason, make sure that you’re enjoying yourself as much as possible.

Your enjoyment & laughter will turn to regret & tears. Everyone pays for what they do.

…..Smile now, cry later.

#advice #truth #evil #regret #karma

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 6d

The dating world is a scary place. You just don’t know who to trust or believe.

#truth #advice #fear #dating

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 6d

Partners (usually men) who start becoming overly suspicious & accusatory are cheating.

They know what they’ve been able to get away with & fear their partner might do the same. Their disloyalty becomes their biggest worry.

#truth #fear #dating #marriage #love #disloyalty

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 6d

Once someone disrespects you, remove yourself from their presence.

Let distance entertain them.

#truth #advice #respect #love #relationships #friends #family

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 6d

Respect boundaries.

#truth #trust #advice #relationships

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 7d

Competing with other women over who is a man’s “main chick” is lose-lose situation.

A man who has a main chick will inevitably have side chicks. All to
Inflate his ego & feed his lust. He still won’t be satisfied.

Why put up with that?

#truth #lies #cheating #relationships

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 7d

Ladies, if your partner follows OF creators, IG thots & BBL “workout gurus”, that’s their ideal of women.

If you don’t fit the aesthetics above, your partner is using you for the “good girl” image & satisfying their lust through who they follow on social media.

#truth #bbl

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 7d

Never be the girl who knew she was a side chick and moved up to the “main chick” position. Don’t be surprised if you find out that your partner has other side chicks, it’s a habit for them.

#advice #truth #relationships #dating #cheating #mainchick #sidechick

Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 7d

If you build happiness off of another woman’s pain, her pain will become your karma. Especially if you were a participant in home wrecking.

#advice #truth #betrayal #relationships #love #homewrecker #karma

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Spillature @spillature.bsky.social · 7d

If someone knows more about you and your life than you know about theirs, stop telling them your business.

People can be cataloging your life through conversation without you realizing.

#advice #truth #friends #family #relationships #spies